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"I don't think we're compatible for a long term relationship, but let me know if you want to hook up every now and then."

...don't do that.

If you are going on one or two dates, and don't want to continue... then I don't think a message is necessary. Just don't hint to a possible next date. In fact, if you get the feeling that it's not going to work out in the future... drop hints like "work is picking up" or "I'm going to be out of town a lot in the next few weeks" etc, to hint that dating or social life stuff will be difficult for some time period.

However, if it's more than a few dates, just tell her that you enjoyed getting to know her, but it's just not working.

11/19/2014 12:45:03 PM

I always liked the girls best who just said it rather than disappearing. Once you are an adult if you cant handle someone simply saying they enjoyed hanging out but they didnt feel any connection or that you werent compatible, then you have issues you need to work on anyways.

11/19/2014 1:25:34 PM

^^ I was just kidding.

^ And he's right. We're all adults here...time to be honest. There are unfortunately a lot of people out there that can't take a hint (or just have to much hope). Let people down gently...but make sure they know its not going to happen.

11/19/2014 1:51:53 PM

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"In fact, if you get the feeling that it's not going to work out in the future... drop hints like "work is picking up" or "I'm going to be out of town a lot in the next few weeks" etc, to hint that dating or social life stuff will be difficult for some time period."

that's some immature shit, yo.

11/19/2014 2:10:20 PM

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"I'm going to be out of town a lot in the next few weeks"

...or you could just be honest and save everyone time/confusion/worry. I've gotten really good at saying no to things/people/events I'm not interested in and it feels way better.

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11/19/2014 2:11:19 PM

simonn we should date we agree on everything

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11/19/2014 2:11:49 PM

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"that's some immature shit, yo."

I see no harm in doing that if you've only been on a few dates (like 1-3). More than that, and I would be more forthcoming.

(Though in hindsight, I only do this when a guy seems insistent that we meet again soon and I don't want to. Some guys don't take 'no' well.)

11/19/2014 2:18:28 PM

fuck saying anything, just ghost out of there

11/19/2014 3:03:58 PM

^^^ i don't date people i can't beat in fifa

11/19/2014 3:11:30 PM

...and I don't date people I can't dunk on (which is no one btw)

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11/19/2014 3:21:09 PM

Just got this fwd to me by a friend on okc.

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"Hey I'm Daniel, You know i figure the right introduction would be for me to tell you all the good things about me. To make you like me and leave out the bad things. however I'm not like that i am different so i will tell you all the bad things and if you want to know the good things then message me. Well here goes I'm annoying aggravating, hyper, cant keep my mouth shut, I'm always talking, and when i am around kids i am a big kid. I'll name some of the good things also. But their is much more. I'm nice, respectful, and mature, i know what i want, and i wont lead someone on when they are not who i want, i am not after s3x... although i do love s3x. dont worry though I'm not going to gripe when i don't get it for weeks.i don’t and never have done any drugs what so ever. I don’t curse although neither one of them bother me. I did smoke ciggerettes back years ago but I have since quit and never went back to them… I rarely ever drink sometimes I drink when cooking out or at a wine tasting and sometimes when im very depressed… however it is very rare that I do drink. I am a gentleman. The type of guy you bring home to meet your parents and the type that has a side you would not believe to exist. if you have any more questions just ask. Oh yeah i love children and if for any reason the girl or i cant have them ourselves i would like to adopt. I also put 100% in from day one.... i look at it this way if someone is looking for long term then they should treat it like long term or marriage from day one. That way i know I'm not a faze and they know they are not a faze. If you would like to just talk and have a good friend i am a great friend and a great listener to have..... so if your not looking for a relationship or a good friend then with all do respect don't message me back also applies to if your looking for s3x, fun, or looks because i am not much to look at. I'm looking for something REAL and something SERIOUS and just so you know and there is no confusion i did copy and paste this message. the reason is for i wrote it as an "ice breaker". As of the moment i own my own business and work a full time job above minimum wage. I have numerous diplomas and degrees to name them all I will abbreviate them and if you want to know them then ask it will start a good conversation. They are M.S.S.C. M.R.D. C.R.C. H.R.D. H.R.D.O. Also If there is another message it won't be a copy and paste. It will also have proper grammar. I do apologize for the copy and paste message. I really appreciate you for taking the time to read this message.Sincerely Daniel, that is usually what I copy and paste but im going to write this part in addition so that its personalized atleast a little bit . Ill be honest with you.... I would do anything to have a family and a life and to settle down to a committed relationship. I would give everything up for it. I would do whatever it took. In fact most girls I have been with that have kids I take care of their children I do alot for them the girl herself I hand feed I cook I message her feet and back and sing them to sleep I give them the benefit of the doubt or deal with all their issues I listen and I give them my entire trust and heart. But they always cheat and they always leave with the same excuses I mean I will spend 10 hours straight a day talking to them and everything...... But I'm not all peaches and cream throughout the years I have became harsh and cold. I'm twisted and sick in a sexual way.( ill make all your dreams and fantasies come true so don’t worry about things getting boring) I am sometimes depressed and sad. I'm not the normal type of man.as in I've got a big feminine side. I understand woman and I'm open I share my feelings. I also love to cook and I share my give my all in a relationship. All I ask is that you handle me and put up with me So yeah I hope it don't bother you that I'm looking for a long term marriage etc. soon and wanting to have someone for eternity soon someone who is so far head over heals for me they would kill themselves with me to be with me forever and always. That’s the love im looking for. Someone who is truelly committed and loyal. a lot of questions I get are like what is it like to own a business or to be accomplished…. Honestly I would give it all up just to have someone by my side to love me and someone that would sit at my bed side if I was in an accident and in the hostpital…. Unfortunately I don’t have that I used to have friends but they passed away due to suicides murders and freak car accedents…. And although im not a narc or anything I grew up around drugs and violence. I just set out to rebel or be different and never even tried pot but hey that stuff don’t bother me… as for the person I end up with I hope they can promise me 3 things…… 1.) promise to never cheat 2.) promise to never lie 3.) promise to never leave no matter what. If I could find someone like that and that would promise those three I would promise them backI know this is an extremely long message. However I do believe you may have time to read it just do me a favor even if you don’t message me back. Always stay strong, hold your head up this world is about survival. And remember you can always go back for what has happened and what you may have done may not be fixed but can be bared with and you have the power to make a difference in yours or someone else’s life… I know it can get lonely and unbearable at times but we learn to live with what we have done and it could always be worse. There is times I have thought about doing stuff wrong just to go to jail where I would have a guard or someone in there just to say hello to….. so yeah it could be a lot worse. Your not alone and if you feel that way just remember you can change that ( you have me now) so stay strong hold your head up and wait for the zombie apocalypse ha ha. Till next time Daniel C."

11/19/2014 3:42:08 PM

that's a rough message to be sending out, damn.

11/19/2014 4:04:36 PM

What the hell is s3x

11/19/2014 4:44:46 PM

I was seeing this chick, sex was crazy, she gave the wettest blow jobs ever, but she asked me to get her bojangles, get her prescription (she had some cold), and half&half before 6pm at 4:45 when I was an hour away hanging with my niece. I told her yeah I couldn't make that time frame.

She just got back from a weeks vacation to which I took her to the airport(I didn't pick her up, I was busy), and it was my birthday to which she didn't even offer a birthday blowjob.

Haven't heard from her since.



[Edited on November 19, 2014 at 5:40 PM. Reason : ddd]

11/19/2014 5:39:52 PM

Are those all of the facts?

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11/19/2014 6:26:10 PM

sounds like you missed your opportunity to put your cajun pinto in her dirty rice if you know what i mean

11/19/2014 7:26:26 PM

lol at all of that

11/19/2014 7:35:50 PM

She enjoyed getting beat while fucking her, like black eye kind of shit. Not into all that.

However, the sex was fun, til she told me she wanted to penetrate me with one of her toys.

11/19/2014 7:55:36 PM

are THOSE all the facts?!

11/19/2014 7:59:31 PM

^^ why? it might feel good

11/19/2014 8:01:25 PM

More than likely social stigma, and nervousness. She said she was into anal if I was. I just laughed to myself.

Shameless has several episodes with Frank is tortured that way.

11/19/2014 8:05:55 PM

if a girl is into anal you can't be the guy that's not into anal.

11/20/2014 9:23:00 AM

So if a chick wants to do you in the rear, your down?

11/20/2014 10:57:14 AM

It's all about give and take in relationships, bro.

11/20/2014 11:02:49 AM

His down comforter?

11/20/2014 11:03:36 AM

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"So if a chick wants to do you in the rear, your down? "

Sometimes you have to sacrifice for the ones you love...and sometimes that sacrifice is your anal virginity.

11/20/2014 11:05:21 AM

why are you afraid to try it? man up.

11/20/2014 11:07:02 AM

You should try everything at least once IMO. She will appreciate you for trying, if its not for you then its not for you and she has to respect that. This is probably her equivalent of watching the superbowl or whatever retarded dude shit you do

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11/20/2014 11:18:24 AM

i cant help but think these users that are urging you to take a dildo in your ass will be the first ones to ridicule you later when you report back

at any rate it seems like this chick is long gone

11/20/2014 11:22:25 AM

you've never let a girl put a finger up there?

11/20/2014 11:26:26 AM

She's moving out of Raleigh come the end of Dec...I'm sure I could call her up if I wanted to.

However, I have other women that need tending to.

I will not be losing my anal virginity, thanks TWW.

11/20/2014 11:26:34 AM

to clarify i was responding that if she was into anal, that you should do anal to her. Not necessarily have anything done to you. Unless you're into that, then cool. But you aren't.

11/20/2014 11:36:16 AM

Fuck that

11/20/2014 11:39:58 AM

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"to clarify i was responding that if she was into anal, that you should do anal to her. Not necessarily have anything done to you"

Yeah thats gay as fuck

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11/20/2014 11:43:40 AM

I too was wondering what was up with all the dudes here who sounded as though they were cool with getting penetrated.

11/20/2014 1:15:35 PM

11/20/2014 1:20:20 PM

don't knock it till you tried it

11/20/2014 1:48:35 PM

i need to make a new account, plz to suggest a good screen name for a dude

im kinda leaning towards a movie character name. e.g., IceMan, Maverick, RainMan

8/22/2015 7:04:07 AM

What about Dumbledore69?

8/22/2015 6:32:34 PM

LOL, I've never complained about being single or lonely or anything. But a married friend randomly recommended rightstuffdating.com in an email. She briefly explained that I would like it because it was for "well-educated people."

Obviously, State is not on the list of acceptable degrees: only Duke, Wake Forest, Davidson, and Chapel Hill made the list for "well-educated" people. So she basically insulted me on multiple levels--for being single and stupid. But, when I look around at people, I still don't feel bad about things.

As an aside, would it be ethical to troll The Right Stuff?

10/6/2015 11:39:14 PM

your profile pic should definitely be NKOTB

10/6/2015 11:43:37 PM

LOL, the joke has been made...along with a short dance party to that American classic.

10/6/2015 11:51:05 PM

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"would it be ethical to troll The Right Stuff?"

Not only would it be ethical, but it would be of service to humanity.

10/7/2015 12:18:05 AM

Actually, I looked at the available dudes in North Carolina, and they are some of the most openly nice profiles I've seen on the Internet. Plus, there are very, very few of them, and I doubt they're even active.

I can't troll these friendly folks.

10/7/2015 1:51:20 AM

False. Anyone can be trolled.

10/7/2015 7:41:45 AM

BTTT

[Edited on December 15, 2015 at 11:39 AM. Reason : not on this shit just bumping]

12/15/2015 11:38:46 AM

Spotted Tdubber, tried to tell her to holla at P Nis for details, autocorrect ruined it.

3/2/2017 10:41:52 AM

ZOMG. Why are you people invading my real world?!

3/2/2017 1:34:09 PM

92/100, did not bang.

3/5/2017 10:29:54 AM