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mdozer73
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How many of ya'll are married? If you're thinking about it, I strongly recommend it for several reasons.

1/30/2007 8:57:12 AM

sober46an3
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1/30/2007 8:58:05 AM

beergolftile
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single

but living with a chick

1/30/2007 9:11:30 AM

wolfpack0122
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Married with 2 kids

1/30/2007 9:16:16 AM

beergolftile
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2 kids at 24

i would blow my brains out

1/30/2007 9:20:16 AM

elkaybie
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LIVING IN SIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIN

1/30/2007 9:34:38 AM

NCSUStinger
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can we use the facebook relationship adjectives

"its complicated"

1/30/2007 9:36:28 AM

cyrion
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Quote :
"single

but living with a chick"

1/30/2007 9:36:46 AM

qntmfred
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married to punchmonk

[Edited on January 30, 2007 at 9:49 AM. Reason : no kids though]

1/30/2007 9:49:36 AM

beergolftile
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"LIVING IN SIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIN"


funny, cause her parents know, but i haven't told mine...

1/30/2007 9:55:32 AM

sober46an3
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why not? you're a big boy now....you can make your own decisions.

[Edited on January 30, 2007 at 10:23 AM. Reason : d]

1/30/2007 10:22:37 AM

SouthPaW12
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Married just about 6 months now

'Tis great.

1/30/2007 10:29:25 AM

slackerb
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"If you're thinking about it, I strongly recommend it for several reasons."


And those would be?


Single BTW.

1/30/2007 10:29:44 AM

DZAndrea
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betrothed, but with a lovah in another city.

1/30/2007 10:42:06 AM

sober46an3
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oh, im engaged to be married in may. we currently live together.

1/30/2007 10:46:21 AM

BobbyDigital
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married for 1.5 years.

1/30/2007 10:48:22 AM

beergolftile
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the tax break seems nice

1/30/2007 10:49:27 AM

BobbyDigital
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it is for now.

if my wife was working, we'd end up having a tax penalty, assuming standard medical resident salary.

1/30/2007 10:53:05 AM

OmarBadu
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engaged

1/30/2007 11:01:57 AM

mdozer73
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BobbyDigital, when did you get married? countrychick and I got married June 18, 2005.

slackerb, I couldn't count the reasons. There are financial reasons as have been mentioned, but most importantly I am sharing my life with someone who I care deeply for. Yes, we cohabited for a short period of time before we "tied the knot," but its still different. In other words, yes, you can have some of those same feelings with a girlfriend, but after you are married, things change for the better.

1/30/2007 12:52:36 PM

FeverRed
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Married, love it, wouldn't recommend it for everyone.

Marriage WILL NOT solve your problems. It WILL NOT necessarily make you closer to each other. Just like having a kid WILL NOT solve your problems, not will it necessarily fill any void except the void where a screaming baby is missing.

It changes nothing and it changes everything at the same time. I love my husband, and getting married was one of THE best decisions I ever made. But holy crap, there's no reason to rush into it thinking it's going to make you closer. If you're both fighting and screaming before you get married, it'll be the same afterwards. I see far too many people getting married for the wrong reasons. But yes, if you get married for the right reasons it's awesome.

1/30/2007 4:57:09 PM

Patman
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"the tax break seems nice"


Only if one of you isn't working. And even then, you'd save more money paying taxes.

1/30/2007 5:05:00 PM

SouthPaW12
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^^ Spot on.

My wife & I dated for around 5 years before getting married, so we knew very well what we were getting into beforehand, but nothing drastic changes on your wedding day except you wake up beside your best friend everyday (well, at least for me since we didn't live together before marriage).

But waking up beside your best friend everyday is also pretty much the best thing ever if you're certain that's what you want

1/30/2007 5:32:02 PM

roddy
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just wait 5 years, she will get fat, you will go bald, and she will give it up once a month

1/30/2007 5:49:07 PM

bottombaby
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Married and loving it.

1/30/2007 5:53:18 PM

joe_schmoe
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"just wait 5 years, she will get fat, you will go bald, and she will give it up once a month"

1/30/2007 6:41:21 PM

TreeTwista10
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"oh, im engaged to be married in may. we currently live together."


damn sober...congrats...and here this whole time i thought all your pro gay marriage talk in TSB was just talk

1/30/2007 8:30:32 PM

Nighthawk
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I have been married 4 years next month and love it, 95% of the time. Got one almost 3.5 year old son and going to have son #2 in early March.

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"just wait 5 years, she will get fat, you will go bald, and she will give it up once a month"


I've put on 10 or 15 and she's put on 20, but she is 8 months pregnant. I haven't gotten it in a month, but she is in her last trimester. Pwnt. haha

1/30/2007 10:00:59 PM

skankinande
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Engaged, married in June.

1/30/2007 10:11:27 PM

kiljadn
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married






























































to the game, son, I can't let these bitches tie me down!

1/30/2007 10:45:14 PM

David0603
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"I have been married 4 years next month"

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"Got one almost 3.5 year old son"


It's a nice day for a white wedding

1/30/2007 10:48:02 PM

pilgrimshoes
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glad i didnt follow through with some instincts,

single now

1/30/2007 10:56:11 PM

Ash83Babe
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Married...and I gotta say, I love it...

1/31/2007 12:12:10 AM

cyrion
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my girl wanted to note that im not married and i still dont get any

1/31/2007 9:33:14 AM

30thAnnZ
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married 1 year and 4 months ago.

i see very little difference other than legality and her mom being happier about us living together.

1/31/2007 11:40:03 AM

mattncsu19
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abstaining from marriage as long as possible

1/31/2007 1:43:08 PM

SymeGuy69
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abstinence is the best policy...from marriage i mean

1/31/2007 1:47:36 PM

ssjamind
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married...to the game, son, I can't let these bitches tie me down!

1/31/2007 3:28:01 PM

eltownse
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Married to mbcarpen since June '06.

Loving it!

2/1/2007 10:59:40 AM

Shadowrunner
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married for three years, lovin' it. but it's no different than before we were married, except for tax purposes. we already lived together beforehand and had dated for almost five years.

2/1/2007 2:22:46 PM

8=======D
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didn't you buy your ring from Grimbells, mdozer? i think i saw you on pricescope.com

2/1/2007 2:52:20 PM

beergolftile
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living with someone for the first time is weird, but fun - it is nice to have someone to come home to every night and hang with who actually cares about my day.

Much better than the dogshit relationship that i was too stupid to end from 04-06 where she lived at fucking home in another city.

2/1/2007 3:35:39 PM

ncsuGALxcPaC
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I have lived w/ my boyfriend since June and we are in the process of house shopping now since the lease is up May 31...

And maybe I'll get engaged this year.

2/1/2007 3:36:04 PM

OmarBadu
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whose name is the property going to go in? both or just 1?

2/1/2007 3:55:20 PM

8=======D
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yea good luck buying the house jointly without being married - talk about a PAIN

2/1/2007 5:47:55 PM

OmarBadu
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i was wondering b/c there's a possibility that my fiance and i will be buying a place ~1month before we get married and i need to find out how that works

2/1/2007 6:31:37 PM

stone
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married for 3 months. it has been great so far, in fact i really never thought being married would be this much fun. but heck i married up so i hope its this good for her!

2/1/2007 7:14:34 PM

mdozer73
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nope not me, never been on pricescope.com

2/2/2007 8:32:30 AM

sober46an3
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"i was wondering b/c there's a possibility that my fiance and i will be buying a place ~1month before we get married and i need to find out how that works"


i bought a house with my gf before we were even engaged. Both our names are on the mortgage, and once we get married, we will just get it changed.

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"yea good luck buying the house jointly without being married - talk about a PAIN"


why do you say that? we have had absolutely zero problems with it, in fact, our title company even said they would switch the new name in for free once its official.

2/2/2007 9:13:43 AM

OmarBadu
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^ thanks

2/2/2007 9:36:36 AM

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