and you actually aren't...how do you respond? Oh, and this is spawned from a few playful text messages to a co-worker who happens to be female.

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12/18/2007 7:28:59 PM

start out with asking your co worker if she like anal

12/18/2007 7:30:40 PM

exploit the situation for your own personal entertainment

12/18/2007 7:31:33 PM

count me in for the gangbang

12/18/2007 7:32:52 PM

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"exploit the situation for your own personal entertainment"

haha, no shit--i'd ride that horse til she either let it go or broke up with me

12/18/2007 7:33:56 PM

well if shes adamant that you're cheating then she is way insecure and doesn't trust you

sounds like she needs to work that out first

12/18/2007 7:35:57 PM

she probably hates to be wrong, so fuck her sister.

12/18/2007 7:38:10 PM

n.s.a. (no sister available )

12/18/2007 7:38:52 PM

to late. i just fucked your gf and your co-worker while you were posting this. thx for the tip m8

12/18/2007 7:39:30 PM

stick it in her butt and pee

12/18/2007 7:40:25 PM

well, if youre gonna be accused of it... might as well get your money's worth.

12/18/2007 7:55:35 PM

^

12/18/2007 7:56:02 PM

an ex accused me of it, and i didn't say a thing. I actually had.

the current accused me of it, and I hadn't. I playfully said, "she was great, too!" This spawned more accusations, to which I said "NO I DID NOT. I LOVE YOU AND WOULD NOT DO THAT." Make fun of me for saying it, but I meant it, and it ended the convo.

12/18/2007 8:15:40 PM

She obviously doesn't trust you, which is a bad thing for any relationship. Tell her to get her shit together or gtfo. But on the other hand, if you play your cards right you could invite your coworker over for a threesome.

12/18/2007 8:19:03 PM

what did these playful text messages say?

12/18/2007 8:34:01 PM

You lick a mean clit

12/18/2007 8:35:37 PM

What is she doing reading your txt messages?
Apparently, she already didn't trust you.

12/18/2007 8:36:21 PM

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"and you actually aren't...how do you respond? Oh, and this is spawned from a few playful text messages to a co-worker who happens to be female. [/blog]"

this is cheating bro. anything that you would not want your SO to know about qualifies as cheating. so you cheated and live with the fact knowing that she can fuck anybody she wants at any time to spite you. be careful! and don't kill yourself when you find out the hard way!

12/18/2007 8:36:44 PM

that's how i figured out my ex was fooling around. she got up to go to the bathroom one night and her phone went off. picked it up, saw it was a text from dude, opened it up and the proverbial worms came spewing out.

[Edited on December 18, 2007 at 8:38 PM. Reason : ^that sounds like a terpball post]

12/18/2007 8:38:14 PM

DO TELL!

12/18/2007 8:39:08 PM

are you stalking me?

12/18/2007 8:39:48 PM

Just sending txt messages or flirting with someone isn't cheating. It may be suspicious, but it's a far cry from emotional or physical betrayal.

12/18/2007 8:40:45 PM

No, but I could be.

Do you want me to stalk you?

12/18/2007 8:41:27 PM

^^ you are crazy? if yuo don't something that you wanted cloaked you are cheating, period. i will be damned if i caught my girl flirting with texts and get let it go. hahahaha you are stupid if you do.

[Edited on December 18, 2007 at 8:42 PM. Reason : sdfg]

12/18/2007 8:42:12 PM

But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

12/18/2007 8:42:46 PM

neh not right now

12/18/2007 8:42:58 PM

to say that flirting is cheating is like calling making out oral sex

12/18/2007 8:45:42 PM

i agree, but you can tell if its innocent flirting or if there is something more than that.

12/18/2007 8:46:51 PM

i can't tell shit. you only flirt with someone that you are willing to fuck. hahahaha please don't be stupid and think flirting is on BEHIND YOUR BACK.

12/18/2007 8:47:53 PM

Well, my husband and I do not hide those kind of things from one another. We'll both come home and relay what happened to one another. I think that it's a really insecure person who freaks out over harmless flirtations and playfulness. It makes me feel good that someone besides my husband finds me attractive after being with the same guy for 5 years and it makes me feel good that some other woman finds my husband attractive. We'll both go out separately and have a good time without 'breaking any rules' and then come home to each other.

12/18/2007 8:48:19 PM

i flirt with chicks i wouldn't have sex with

12/18/2007 8:48:57 PM

if he tells you and you tell him thats FINE. but if it is something that you just up and find out about that has been happening for sometime, you are stupid to think its innocent.

12/18/2007 8:49:11 PM

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"i flirt with chicks i wouldn't have sex with"

I absolutely flirt with people that wouldn't have sex with in a million years. There's nothing wrong with entertaining yourself and making someone else feel good about themselves.

12/18/2007 8:51:06 PM

well i don't, it a monumental waste of time, lol

12/18/2007 8:51:48 PM

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"I playfully said, "she was great, too!""

oh that was not smart

12/18/2007 9:09:51 PM

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"this is cheating bro. anything that you would not want your SO to know about qualifies as cheating."

I guess when you shart yourself after too much taco bell it counts as cheating now.

12/18/2007 9:10:53 PM

it could!

12/18/2007 9:12:13 PM

has your gf had anyone cheat on her before?
because I know I'm a lot more suspicious about things now than I was a few years ago, before I'd been cheated on (that I knew about anyways)

also, does she know this girl youre exchanging these "playful" texts with?
cause i know i'm a lot more suspicious (without much reasoning needed) of girls I don't know/haven't met - because I haven't seen how they interact with my boyfriend. I'm more likely to get irritated about something done/said because I don't know them, so I don't know if its actually joking or not.

[Edited on December 18, 2007 at 9:21 PM. Reason : .]

12/18/2007 9:18:49 PM

tell'um yo

12/18/2007 9:20:03 PM

stop sending playful text messages to your coworker

12/18/2007 9:21:35 PM

just get a pussy snorkel

12/18/2007 9:25:45 PM

so, what happened with this? (sorry, I'm nosy.)

12/27/2007 6:13:12 PM

a cheater is gonna cheat no matter what



don't sweat it


you can worry about it and they'll still find a way

or you can just not worry about it and be much happier

12/27/2007 6:14:30 PM

i dont get why dudes would cheat on a female...i probably say that cause i cant get one gf, so the idea of having more than one female to have sex with is foreign to me

12/27/2007 6:18:42 PM

ignorance is bliss

12/27/2007 6:20:08 PM

sometimes it gets old


it's much easier to just leave her though


cause if it's "old" to you, it's not gonna work out

12/27/2007 6:20:13 PM

ding ding ding

12/27/2007 6:21:22 PM

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"She obviously doesn't trust you, which is a bad thing for any relationship."

12/27/2007 6:21:48 PM

so i'm guessing ^^^ and ^^ have cheated on a female before?

12/27/2007 6:22:32 PM

and have been cheated on, too

12/27/2007 6:24:01 PM