Do you fantasize about or have you engaged in a sexual encounter with more than one male partner?


Question for the guys: Do you believe that a girl having such thoughts or having engaged in such behavior makes her a "slut", "whore", or of loose values?

3/6/2008 2:55:08 PM

loose values, sluttiness and whorishness are fine by me and good qualities for women to have

just not the marrying type

3/6/2008 2:56:21 PM

That seems to be the common opinion among guys I know

3/6/2008 2:57:56 PM

I don't think it makes them a whore (if they want to try it once) but it does make them

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"not the marrying type "

3/6/2008 2:59:53 PM

But those of you who think it is whorish, do you feel the same about guys who fantasize about encounters with multiple female partners? I'm pretty sure that most guys do think about that kind of stuff.

3/6/2008 3:03:12 PM

How would just thinking about it make you a whore?

3/6/2008 3:03:33 PM

I love hanging out with chicks like that, I just don't date them

3/6/2008 3:05:24 PM

^^Maybe the frequency of the thoughts?

FOR example, if a person had quite frequent crazy thoughts of raping and murdering children, I think it would be safe to say they are kinda fucking crazy.


By the same thought process, if we were to define the act of a girl having multiple male partners per encounter slutty, then wouldnt repeated thoughts of it define her as slutty as well?

[Edited on March 6, 2008 at 3:05 PM. Reason : .]

3/6/2008 3:05:27 PM

i've actually entertained being being the "other" guy

3/6/2008 3:07:15 PM

No.

3/6/2008 3:08:04 PM

Side question.

Do any guys find bethaleigh to be more virtuous or even more attractive given that she does not fantasize about nor engage in sexual encounters with more than one male present?

3/6/2008 3:09:39 PM

I shoot many guns and kill game animals - most guys on this site are more 'threatened' by me than attracted to me.

[Edited on March 6, 2008 at 3:10 PM. Reason : ]

3/6/2008 3:10:45 PM

yes

3/6/2008 3:12:07 PM

we were discussing this last night actually... we came to the conclusion that the internet has allowed women to see so much porn with stuff like this going on, they they assume that lots of girls get gang banged so they are more open to it

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"Do any guys find bethaleigh to be more virtuous or even more attractive given that she does not fantasize about nor engage in sexual encounters with more than one male present? "

I'd say it means that she might get a date, without all my friends being invited

[Edited on March 6, 2008 at 3:14 PM. Reason : .]

3/6/2008 3:12:44 PM

How often do you have these thoughts or encounters mytwocents?

I group them together to respect the privacy of posters

3/6/2008 3:13:07 PM

me and gunzz doubled up on m2c

it was pretty good

3/6/2008 3:14:48 PM

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"It started with a story on Nov. 15, when Mark Yount, a Carroll County drug counselor, was quoted by Examiner reporter Kelsey Volkmann as saying that "a couple of young people in the last four to six months started talking about attending parties where middle schoolers and high schoolers were engaging in sex with multiple partners.""

http://www.citypaper.com/news/story.asp?id=12969

3/6/2008 3:15:17 PM

not since college have I had an encounter...so I really don't fantasize about it... It was certainly an experience, but I don't crave it or really even think about it now. I fantasize about being with a girl 10,000 more than having a threesome

3/6/2008 3:15:45 PM

Eiffel tower?

3/6/2008 3:16:09 PM

^^^^yeah i busted a load on m2c's face one time that was so intense, it forever blurred her face

[Edited on March 6, 2008 at 3:16 PM. Reason : ^^^^]

3/6/2008 3:16:41 PM

real question is, how many guys here actually hang out with girls that are cool enough to let it go down

3/6/2008 3:18:56 PM

I know two girls who have had two male threesomes (at least confessed to it, ahem). I have had sex with one of them (it was one on one though).

3/6/2008 3:23:49 PM

I'm not gonna name names

or numbers

but it happens, girls are just as kinky as guys are

3/6/2008 3:26:28 PM

all women are sluts

3/6/2008 3:30:28 PM

answer: no.

why: i just don't (and don't want to), and i don't think i ever will.

3/6/2008 3:30:40 PM

She's a whore.

3/6/2008 3:33:58 PM

mytwocents + Rat =

3/6/2008 3:37:12 PM

as long as my girl hasnt been with one of my friends, her past total number of sexual partners doesnt matter to me at all. I dont want to know it.

however, if she had been in a threesome with 2 dudes, that would be a deal breaker. I dont why, it just would be.

3/6/2008 3:41:49 PM

1. No
2. No. And think about it this way: is a guy more of douchebagy/whorish/dirty because he fantasizes about multiple women at once? If he isn't, then women shouldn't be penalized for what amounts to the same thing.

[Edited on March 6, 2008 at 3:51 PM. Reason : ,]

3/6/2008 3:51:19 PM

of course a woman comes in and generalizes the male race

3/6/2008 3:52:00 PM

because "a guy" = "all guys"



[Edited on March 6, 2008 at 3:53 PM. Reason : learn to read]

3/6/2008 3:52:56 PM

w/e i'm just mad you didnt tell me which of those books you had read

3/6/2008 3:53:28 PM

1. Yes.
2. Not at all. She's a bitch if she doesn't tell her boyfriend that there's another guy RIGHT BEHIND him with his cock out, though.

[Edited on March 6, 2008 at 3:55 PM. Reason : You find me a guy who doesn't want two girls at once and I might make you a cupcake.]

3/6/2008 3:54:11 PM

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"her past total number of sexual partners doesnt matter to me at all. I dont want to know it."

But it fucking sucks if you do find out

ignorance is bliss

3/6/2008 3:54:32 PM

you get to a point where you don't ask and don't want to be asked

3/6/2008 3:55:15 PM

As far as a girl like that not being the marrying type, it just depends on the guy. It doesn't make her damaged goods across the board--just to you. And that doesn't make you a bad person, and that doesn't make her a bad person either.

3/6/2008 3:56:27 PM

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"She's a bitch if she doesn't tell her boyfriend that there's another guy RIGHT BEHIND him with his cock out, though."

ahaha, I laughed. I'm not sure that was quite the direction of the thread, but I laughed.

3/6/2008 3:59:41 PM

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"is a guy more of douchebagy/whorish/dirty because he fantasizes about multiple women at once? If he isn't, then women shouldn't be penalized for what amounts to the same thing. "

I think we're talking about doing, not fantasizing. I don't think a girl is whorish at all to fantasize about it.

3/6/2008 4:05:19 PM

That's also true. Girls (and guys) fantasize about things they probably wouldn't want to actually happen to them. That's a totally normal part of human sexuality.

It's like talking dirty--a lot people feel comfortable and even aroused saying things to and with their partner they would never want to hear outside of the bedroom.

3/6/2008 4:08:41 PM

I would like to clone myself and then me and my clone do my girlfriend. She, however, thinks that idea is

3/6/2008 4:11:22 PM

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"I think we're talking about doing, not fantasizing. I don't think a girl is whorish at all to fantasize about it."

The first post says "fantasize about or have you engaged in a sexual encounter."

Either way, being with more than one guy at her own consent and discretion shouldn't make her a whore.

3/6/2008 4:14:34 PM

in my view it does but i'm practically a virgin

3/6/2008 4:15:50 PM

Metricula,mytwocents,Kitty B

please select one of the following:

A. Do you fantasize about a sexual encounter with more than one male partner?
B. Have you engaged in a sexual encounter with more than one male partner?
C. Both

3/6/2008 4:16:30 PM

Getting paid for sex makes her a whore.


Now is she a slut? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The real question is, should she care if someone finds her behavior slutty / whorish? If she does, then perhaps that suggests she herself was not completely comfortable with said acts and did so out of a shallow need for attention.

If she is comfortable, perhaps this indicates an insecurity on the man's part with his own sexuality.


What is important, is that any photographs of sexual acts involving multiple hot females be posted on this website in a timely manner.

3/6/2008 4:18:31 PM

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"Either way, being with more than one guy at her own consent and discretion shouldn't make her a whore."

in your eyes.

3/6/2008 4:19:29 PM

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"What is important, is that any photographs of sexual acts involving multiple hot females be posted on this website in a timely manner."

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3/6/2008 4:20:36 PM

pm sent

3/6/2008 4:26:09 PM

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"Do you fantasize about or have you engaged in a sexual encounter with more than one male partner? "

Fantasize about, yes. Engaged in, no. I probably wouldn't do it IRL either.

3/6/2008 4:35:09 PM

Guy here.

Answers: No, no, and no. I do think that the self-consciousness implicit in the questions you ask are the greater tragedy.

3/6/2008 4:42:37 PM

Yay wobbly H

3/6/2008 4:44:44 PM