Vix All American 8522 Posts user info edit post |
I can't stand the kids in ANY generation that sound like these losers.
Quote : | "
Six months ago, I moved to Washington, D.C., and was lucky enough to land a well-paying job with great career prospects as an assistant at a law firm. The problem is that one of the partners I assist is particularly challenging. She's intelligent and distinguished, but she is also a perfectionist. She's an extremely daunting supervisor—especially for a legal neophyte and nonperfectionist like me. I'm functioning in high gear all day long, but I struggle to keep up. What's worse is that she is heavy on the criticism and light on the positive reinforcement.
I have been paying my school loans back on my own since I graduated, but I'm not able to save much month-to-month. My parents are divorced and somewhat low-income...But I really feel that they should offer to assist with these loans. Am I wrong? If not, how do I ask my parents to help?" |
http://www.slate.com/id/2187428/?GT1=38000
Is anyone else fed up with whiny losers like the kids in the article, or am I the only one that encounters them on a daily basis?3/29/2008 5:51:23 PM |
zorthage 1+1=5 17148 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "anyone else fed up with whiny losers like the kids in the article" |
yes3/29/2008 5:53:01 PM |
theDuke866 All American 52807 Posts user info edit post |
one of the things i like most about my job is the group of people i work with
shitstains like that are few and far between, and they aren't well tolerated. 3/29/2008 5:53:34 PM |
bmdurham All American 2668 Posts user info edit post |
I don't understand. Why should others pay for your education. Unless you have some super outstanding circumstance, or seek out funding (grants, scholarships, etc) there is no reason to ask your parents to support you once you have landed on your feet. They have already carried you this far, what more do you need? 3/29/2008 5:55:21 PM |
jackleg All American 170957 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "At any point, you can turn to her and say, "I need things to be different around here." She will likely agree and respond, "Let's start by having you clear out your desk by noon."" |
3/29/2008 5:56:02 PM |
Vix All American 8522 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | " Jeffrey Zaslow had a column in the Wall Street Journal describing young workers' need for and expectation of constant praise, and how some employers are realizing that they'd better be generous with the stroking if they want to retain them." |
Fuck that, you shouldn't be generously praised for merely meeting your jobs requirements.
And hell if I would praise someone who can't get shit right like the first chick. I'd rather do something myself than have someone else do it just to fuck it up.3/29/2008 6:00:49 PM |
AxlBonBach All American 45550 Posts user info edit post |
the criticism / positive reinforcement has been shown to produce good results. happy workers = productive workers.
however i agree with everything else. 3/29/2008 6:01:11 PM |
ShinAntonio Zinc Saucier 18947 Posts user info edit post |
I have a friend like the second example. She bitches that her dad wants her to pay her own cell phone bill once she gets a job. 3/29/2008 6:02:56 PM |
GoldenViper All American 16056 Posts user info edit post |
What's the big deal?
Most supervisors are unpleasant.
People have been complaining about them for ages.
It's not a new phenomenon. 3/29/2008 6:05:06 PM |
jackleg All American 170957 Posts user info edit post |
tell her to just get a good job and big daddy comptroller will take care of it! 3/29/2008 6:06:53 PM |
AxlBonBach All American 45550 Posts user info edit post |
just because it's tradition doesn't make it a good thing.
omg, the conservative says that to a liberal who thinks the bourgeois supervisors are rightful to put their proletariat staff members through hell. 3/29/2008 6:07:27 PM |
The Judge Suspended 3405 Posts user info edit post |
You realize you're bitching about people bitching
that's like some kind of infinite loop of whine 3/29/2008 6:08:55 PM |
AxlBonBach All American 45550 Posts user info edit post |
3/29/2008 6:10:01 PM |
jackleg All American 170957 Posts user info edit post |
both of my immediate supervisors are VERY nice to me... to the point where its like WTF. always asking about my family, calling them by name when speaking about them and everything. very very nice and understanding about any time off.
i really think they've been trained lately to do stuff like that, learn the names of the people important to their employees...
and i guess they're nice about giving time off cause they know the people might quit. it can be a tough job. i saw 4 different people come through the next office over within 2 months.... and i KNOW they spent a lot on employing, training and losing those people. they actually ended up transferring someone over who had been with the company for a few months, because they were so scared someone else would quit.
and in turn, that really grinds on the person who trains. and they really dont wanna lose that person.
when you have quality workers, you will do a lot to keep them 3/29/2008 6:11:59 PM |
Vix All American 8522 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "You realize you're bitching about people bitching" |
It's not the bitching that bothers me
It's the type of person these individuals are that bothers me3/29/2008 6:12:57 PM |
mrfrog ☯ 15145 Posts user info edit post |
people requiring more praise and support from their coworkers and superiors is probably a natural consequence of the shrinking family size after the baby boom generation.
just a thought. 3/29/2008 6:13:01 PM |
ShawnaC123 2019 Egg Champ 46681 Posts user info edit post |
jackleg can I get a job 3/29/2008 6:13:19 PM |
Sonia All American 14028 Posts user info edit post |
Does this kid know s/he needs to be working 60-80 hours a week?
BILL THEM HOURS 3/29/2008 6:14:14 PM |
The Judge Suspended 3405 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "It's the type of person these individuals are that bothers me" |
And they're bothered by the types of individuals their bosses are
Just shut up3/29/2008 6:14:44 PM |
CharlesHF All American 5543 Posts user info edit post |
I thought this was pretty funny:
Dear Prudie, I recently had breast-enhancement surgery, and there is a noticeable difference. My question is, How do I respond when people make remarks about it? I know that it is an obvious change, and people do notice, but it is not as if I'm flaunting it in revealing tops. How do I respond when someone says, "Wow, you got a boob job!" I find it very rude when mere acquaintances make such comments, as I would not comment if they got dentures!
—Newly Enhanced
Dear Newly, There's a Bible verse for every situation, and Psalms 23.5 seems appropriate here. But what a bunch of jugheads your acquaintances are if they feel the need to keep abreast of your personal developments. Don't get into a tit for tat with them. Just turn away as you say, "Ta ta."
—Prudie 3/29/2008 6:16:00 PM |
theDuke866 All American 52807 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "She bitches that her dad wants her to pay her own cell phone bill once she gets a job. " |
what a dumb bitch.
Quote : | "What's the big deal?
Most supervisors are unpleasant.
People have been complaining about them for ages.
It's not a new phenomenon.
" |
People complain about the boss sometimes not because he's unpleasant, but because he's, well, the boss.
At any rate, not taking any shit and having high expectations don't necessarily equate to being unpleasant.
they're just unpleasant if you suck.3/29/2008 6:17:05 PM |
Vix All American 8522 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "And they're bothered by the types of individuals their bosses are" |
These people are clearly wusses who
1. Are unable to do their job correctly 2. Think other people owe them an education3/29/2008 6:18:36 PM |
The Judge Suspended 3405 Posts user info edit post |
Who are you to call other people wusses?
Basically every time you post on here its crying about having a nervous breakdown from schoolwork or being hungry with no money.
You're like an emotionally fragile hobo 3/29/2008 6:19:48 PM |
AxlBonBach All American 45550 Posts user info edit post |
hah...ouch... 3/29/2008 6:20:10 PM |
CharlesHF All American 5543 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "one of the things i like most about my job is the group of people i work with
shitstains like that are few and far between, and they aren't well tolerated." |
That's definitely one thing (out of many) I like about the Marines.3/29/2008 6:20:29 PM |
Vix All American 8522 Posts user info edit post |
I'm actually capable of doing my work correctly and don't think other people should have to pay for my shit
Which puts me way ahead of these losers IMO 3/29/2008 6:21:54 PM |
The Judge Suspended 3405 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Who are you to call other people wusses?" |
3/29/2008 6:22:24 PM |
Vix All American 8522 Posts user info edit post |
I don't go ask for help regarding my work or food situation, so I'm not a wuss. I can take care of myself unlike those losers. 3/29/2008 6:25:08 PM |
Spontaneous All American 27372 Posts user info edit post |
These kids are the exception and not the rule, right? 3/29/2008 6:27:05 PM |
jackleg All American 170957 Posts user info edit post |
i have no part in the hiring process. i could put in a good word if you were applying for something you could do. 3/29/2008 6:30:10 PM |
ShawnaC123 2019 Egg Champ 46681 Posts user info edit post |
do you have any positions open for giving blow jobs?
or doing trigonometry?
That's about all I've got 3/29/2008 6:31:06 PM |
Spontaneous All American 27372 Posts user info edit post |
I might. 3/29/2008 6:31:51 PM |
ShawnaC123 2019 Egg Champ 46681 Posts user info edit post |
I like proofs the best
especially with the sum to product formulas 3/29/2008 6:33:14 PM |
Spontaneous All American 27372 Posts user info edit post |
You got it. 3/29/2008 6:34:15 PM |
FykalJpn All American 17209 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "You realize you're bitching about people bitching" |
[Edited on March 29, 2008 at 7:13 PM. Reason : qft]3/29/2008 7:13:23 PM |
The Judge Suspended 3405 Posts user info edit post |
^ 3/29/2008 10:46:10 PM |