So...let me give you a run down right fast:

Met this female a little over a year back, we didn't get along. Instantly was attracted to her...but being a male, was a jerk to her then.
We decide to go lunch during the summer following and we started hanging out quite a bit after that. Fall comes, she says she was kinda talking to this guy back home...I'm whatever (a little hurt, but a little unsure why). I started fooling around with this another girl who is completely different than the female of this story....and I drop her cause she is a freak (good and bad ways).

Well the female and I started to get closer and I finally just said hey, you know I could see us being more...and I get rejected. I said fine, and I start to get over it while maintaining our friendship.

She calls one night and asks what I was doing. I tell her I was going to see an ex-gf. She flips out. I told her to get a grip, she wasn't into me and has no right to get upset if I'm going to hang out with a female that finds me attractive. She wants to know if I'm going to get a booty call, my response is I don't know I didn't think that far ahead.

Well we started getting more touchy with each other, and finally it came up last week where we started holding each other and at 3am she leans over and kisses me. I have no idea what just happened because I was pretty much asleep at 1 AM. She goes to bed, and leaves me hanging on the couch where I just fall asleep. I wake up early the next day before she is up, and leaves.

We talk the next day and she is not cool with anything that happened. I told her, I didn't do anything she kissed me. She claims it was a mistake...and I'm like WTF.

I call her about 2 days later, and we started talking about stuff and she flips out again..."I DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT THIS ANYMORE." She still wants to hang out...but just not let it get to that level again...

My response was, hey I'm going to roll out, and if you want to call me great...but if I don't hear from you...whatever.


See...I kinda have a few small things I would like to get back from her...but then again it wouldn't be the worst $100 I've ever lost.

My thoughts - run. she is flip flopping, and she doesn't want to be with me. our frienship isn't really salvageable because the whole relationship thoughts are there. I also screwed up and didn't kiss her because I was asleep, I could have had her all night long.

6/4/2008 9:56:11 AM

run

6/4/2008 9:57:41 AM

umm run like hell

6/4/2008 9:58:20 AM

there's something wrong with your dumb ass if you've even gotten this far with that girl

6/4/2008 10:01:26 AM

I don't deny it....

there is....

this whole situation makes me feel like I'm in high school again.

6/4/2008 10:02:43 AM

I think "run" is pretty sage advice.

6/4/2008 10:02:54 AM

this is kind of like an amsterdam post without the style

6/4/2008 10:03:07 AM

hit and run son

6/4/2008 10:03:14 AM

6/4/2008 10:04:13 AM

i find it amusing that you refer to her as "female" all the time

is this national geographic? were you planning on copulating with this female when she's in season?

6/4/2008 10:07:42 AM

pics or it never happened

6/4/2008 10:08:11 AM

^^ ha. Run. She wants to keep you on a string.

[Edited on June 4, 2008 at 10:10 AM. Reason : ]

6/4/2008 10:09:56 AM

^^^

thats the one thing i noticed too

[Edited on June 4, 2008 at 10:10 AM. Reason : ^^]

6/4/2008 10:10:11 AM

Yea that "female" is nuts. Is she way young?

Just leave her alone like everyone else is saying. You'll get another girl sooner or later.

6/4/2008 10:12:33 AM

sounds like she wants you around without having to make it official. she's wasting your time and needs to grow up, which shouldn't be made into your problem in the first place.

6/4/2008 10:13:33 AM

the "female" thing is just creepy

but i guess you are a ComputerGuy so what should we expect

6/4/2008 10:14:54 AM

next time she comes over ask her "hey why don't you come over here try some of this bottle of GHB"

[Edited on June 4, 2008 at 10:15 AM. Reason : .]

6/4/2008 10:14:57 AM

She is 21 - goes to Meredith...so make your assumptions right there.

I originally typed the post with her name, and then replaced said name with "female". Can't having TWW telling said female.

6/4/2008 10:15:22 AM

6/4/2008 10:15:25 AM

So wait...you're not still in high school?

6/4/2008 10:15:48 AM

Propose IMMEDIATELY

6/4/2008 10:16:27 AM

from a girl's pt. of view she is using you chris. you're like the backup/rebound/comfort buddy till she gets things straightened out b/c she rather have someone there then be totally alone.

6/4/2008 10:16:29 AM

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"goes to Meredith"

there's your problem

6/4/2008 10:17:22 AM

RAWR RAWR RAWR RABBLE RABBLE RABBLE

oh, and i'll defend meredith girls...my meredith girl and i have been together for 6 years, and she's not an uptight, wealthy, daddy's-girl bitch

[Edited on June 4, 2008 at 10:18 AM. Reason : .]

6/4/2008 10:17:43 AM

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"Propose IMMEDIATELY"

Hahahaha

6/4/2008 10:20:44 AM

quick run down in 3 sentences or less?

6/4/2008 10:21:28 AM

^^^ ladies and gentleman, step right up! have quagmire02 introduce you to one of the maybe four girls to ever go to Meredith who weren't completely mental!

gg, q

[Edited on June 4, 2008 at 10:22 AM. Reason : damn ^'s]

6/4/2008 10:21:55 AM

Crystal - thanks for that one...-btw how are you?

She goes to Meredith...and isn't a rich girl at all (not hating) but has a lot of the same qualities of the typical Meredith standard.

^ yeah Quagmire help a brother out.

[Edited on June 4, 2008 at 10:22 AM. Reason : s]

6/4/2008 10:22:27 AM

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"hey, you know I could see us being more..."

Dont tell me this is the way you put it to her. "I could see myself letting someone like you be my girlfriend" is what it says in crazy girl translation. And BTW, crazy exists in 90% of women - its just something you're going to have to deal with.

If you get her a little drunk, maybe she'll expose her true feelings

6/4/2008 10:22:41 AM

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"have quagmire02 introduce you to one of the maybe four girls to ever go to Meredith who weren't completely mental!"

i've only dated one meredith girl, so she's my only experience...a couple of her friends are obviously crazy, but a few aren't too bad

6/4/2008 10:23:26 AM

No I did not put it that way. She brought it up, and I just rolled with the punches.

6/4/2008 10:24:04 AM

I'm good back in the NC but wishing I was back in Cali, but i'm only here till dec. anyways.
How bout you what you up to?

6/4/2008 10:26:46 AM

my buddy's sister went to Meredith and she is cool as hell. However, the same buddy dated a Meredith girl who tried to suck his wallet dry after she found out his dad is a lawyer and that he (at the time) wanted to go to law school.

true story. watch for it on 60 Minutes

6/4/2008 10:27:48 AM

run like hell

6/4/2008 10:29:07 AM

there are so many things i could comment on in this thread...

but alas...i will refrain

6/4/2008 10:30:04 AM

Run like Forrest, b/c she's just keepin you on the leash, tryin to get you to hang around longer until the dude she's REALLY interested in lets her know something.

plus it sounds like she's crazy.

RUN FORREST RUN!!

6/4/2008 10:32:24 AM

if you want to fuck her do this:
Setup a date with another women, let her know you had a good time and plan to again.
She will get jealous and tongue your asshole

if you don't want to fuck her do this:
Ask your self why you are even talking to a female you don't want to fuck, wipe peanut butter on your asshole and let your puppy tongue it for you.

6/4/2008 10:32:39 AM

i laffed

6/4/2008 10:33:48 AM

^^

i almost spilled my coffee on the computer

6/4/2008 10:34:21 AM

Quote :

"is this national geographic? were you planning on copulating with this female when she's in season?"

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

6/4/2008 10:34:37 AM

6/4/2008 10:35:40 AM

she's playin' you

I'd say you let her go as a potential love interest. If she wants to come over and hang out, then whatever...
but I wouldn't make any plans with her, or give her any priority over anything else in your life. Like, if she wants to come over, and you kind of want to go doorbell shopping, then blow her off...

6/4/2008 10:35:53 AM

6/4/2008 10:36:50 AM

jeff...have i ever told you how much i love you?

6/4/2008 10:37:22 AM

not lately

but I've been writing 'Casey + Jeff 4ever', and 'Casey Lawrence', and 'Jeffasey' on my notebook in whiteout...then coloring it in with a sharpie pen

6/4/2008 10:39:42 AM

I now have a broken heart.

6/4/2008 10:40:47 AM

^^OMG....ME TOO!

6/4/2008 10:42:03 AM

What exactly do you want? Do you want to be friends, lovers, fuck buddies or what?

If you want to be more than friends then ignore her for a while.

6/4/2008 10:42:42 AM

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"Like, if she wants to come over, and you kind of want to go doorbell shopping, then blow her off..."

This man speaks the tr00f

6/4/2008 10:44:33 AM

set em up

6/4/2008 10:44:52 AM