i hooked up with a girl last night who has a boyfriend. we almost had sex but as soon as it started she freaked. i stopped and we ended up talking for a few hours and everything was cool. today i get a text from her saying that it would be in my best interes to never contact her again. i think she hates me

[Edited on October 19, 2008 at 2:40 PM. Reason : .]

10/19/2008 2:39:43 PM

whats the problem?

10/19/2008 2:40:13 PM

where's the dilemma? just don't talk to her anymore.

10/19/2008 2:40:35 PM

weve been talking for a while and i really have a thing for her

10/19/2008 2:40:44 PM

Quote :

"JUST TEH TIP"

10/19/2008 2:40:44 PM

^^oh well.

10/19/2008 2:41:25 PM

the problem is that her best friend is with my best friend, and were going to run into each other alot

10/19/2008 2:42:00 PM

She gonna cry rape

10/19/2008 2:42:06 PM

^^oh well.

[Edited on October 19, 2008 at 2:42 PM. Reason : man up dude]

10/19/2008 2:42:14 PM

you could be that guy and keep talking to her knowing she has a boyfriend

those guys are awesome...

10/19/2008 2:42:26 PM

yeah, dudes that keep chasing after a taken girl in hopes that she'll break up with him or something are pathetic imo

10/19/2008 2:43:16 PM

Obviously, the choices in the case are

3some or stalk her

10/19/2008 2:43:18 PM

i dont have any desire to talk to her. we started talking before she got together with the guy. i have no desire to be in a relationship with her. its just going to fuck up everything socially. basically i think she hates me now and thats the last thing i want.

[Edited on October 19, 2008 at 2:43 PM. Reason : .]

10/19/2008 2:43:20 PM

so then what's the dilemma?

10/19/2008 2:44:06 PM

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"ended up talking for a few hours"

this is where you fucked up

in case you were wondering

Quote :

"we almost had sex "

or this...

it's hard to determine

i'm not an expert here

[Edited on October 19, 2008 at 2:47 PM. Reason : .]

10/19/2008 2:44:28 PM

its not you, its her

so fuck it

10/19/2008 2:47:07 PM

where is the dilemma? you didnt get any.

10/19/2008 3:04:23 PM

without reading past the first post

i've had this happen. do not talk to her.. you'll either get a drunken text saying she wants to screw or you'll never hear from her again.

either way, you don't wanna be involved in all the bs that goes with a girl cheating on her bf and him finding out who you are, etc

10/19/2008 3:05:57 PM

hold the fucking phone

how exactly is it SOLELY your fault that yall started to hook up?!?!?!?!?! you act as if she was not even there

10/19/2008 3:07:31 PM

"hit it and quit it"

10/19/2008 3:11:15 PM

who cares if she hates you

the world is filled with billions of people

go find someone who will fuck you who doesnt have a boyfriend

one person hating you isnt going to ruin you life

get over it move on and dont put yourself in such situations in the future

10/19/2008 3:13:47 PM

says the chick with a boyfriend

10/19/2008 3:15:17 PM

She probably told her boyfriend that it happened.
The boyfriend has forgiven her, but he's still hella pissed that it happened at all.
Boyfriend might kapow you in the face.
She's telling you to leave her alone for your own good.

Trust me. I have been in this situation before.

10/19/2008 3:15:30 PM

yeah why are you trying to hook up with girls who have boyfriends?

don't be a piece of shit and you won't get your nose broken

10/19/2008 3:16:32 PM

i miss the days when social drama was considered a "problem"

10/19/2008 3:17:04 PM

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"who cares if she hates you the world is filled with billions of people go find someone who will fuck you who doesnt have a boyfriend one person hating you isnt going to ruin you life get over it move on and dont put yourself in such situations in the future"

heeeeeeeeeyyyyy

10/19/2008 3:42:30 PM

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"She probably told her boyfriend that it happened."

^its "haaaaaaaaaayyyyyy "

[Edited on October 19, 2008 at 3:48 PM. Reason : lk]

10/19/2008 3:48:14 PM

if you want to remain friends give her space now. i'm sure she'll get over the initial shock and be cool with you, on a friendship level, in a little while.

also,

10/19/2008 3:50:48 PM

you'll always be a quitter till you hit her in the shitter

10/19/2008 3:51:40 PM

I too have almost had sex

10/19/2008 3:51:48 PM

Just tell her you were playing "Just the tip"

10/19/2008 3:53:43 PM

why would you want to be friends?

all i see in the future is major dramz

10/19/2008 3:56:03 PM

just for a second

10/19/2008 3:56:14 PM

it's not like she is married or even engaged.

and she CHOSE to be in a situation where she would "hook up" with some other dude. (you)

10/19/2008 3:56:19 PM

10/19/2008 3:59:14 PM

sounds like drama you don't need in your life
be glad you didn't have sex with her or it would have been worse

10/19/2008 4:27:00 PM

SHE A HO

10/19/2008 5:12:12 PM

that has to suck hard.

fucking a girl and then she starts freaking out ?.... damn son, that sucks


i dont feel bad for you because you know she had a boyfriend and yet you still stuck it in her

10/19/2008 5:18:49 PM

the thing is ive had mindblowing sex with her 3 times previously (before she got with this dude)

10/19/2008 5:23:45 PM

i play by 3 rules

1. no b/f
2. nice ass
3. decent face


i suggest you do the same

10/19/2008 5:25:03 PM

no i agree man, i didnt want to do it at all. i made a mistake and ive been cheated on so i know how it feels. i feel that way right now and im pretty unsure of how this is gonna go considering there are so many possibilities

10/19/2008 5:27:23 PM

only read the first like 4 posts...sucks you had a thing for her but like she has a bf and told you not to contact her...whats the latest on the thread?

10/19/2008 5:29:48 PM

ok... well, at least now you know she's a hoe.

10/19/2008 5:30:34 PM

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"the thing is ive had mindblowing sex with her 3 times previously (before she got with this dude)"

there's the other shoe I was waiting for!

Just don't talk to her anymore one-on-one, be polite if you see her, and don't give it any more thought. This is also known as being an adult.

10/19/2008 5:32:14 PM

yea, it sounds like you're looking for drama.


i learned long ago to run away from drama. Run away as fast as you can

10/19/2008 5:35:05 PM

just ignore her for awhile
i cant think of anything good that can come of you stressing and/or trying to get in touch with her now

10/19/2008 6:17:15 PM

dont feel bad

if she is willing to cheat on her bf with you then she woullda been willing to with someone else anyway

10/19/2008 7:24:07 PM

just leave her be. if you run into her socially, just say hey and keep moving. If she comes back wanting to talk to you down the road, tell her that you'll say hey socially but you don't feel like you can talk to her personally anymore. Other than that, just say fuck her(not literally) and move on

10/19/2008 7:29:20 PM

i am sure this slut told ehr boyfriend that you had been persuing her and its not her fault what happened

10/19/2008 7:40:03 PM

----> 2

10/19/2008 7:43:10 PM