Question for the married people and the people in relationships.

5/18/2009 6:23:29 PM

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5/18/2009 6:25:11 PM

5/18/2009 6:25:13 PM

This is entirely dependent on the exercise and eating habits of the female in question.

5/18/2009 6:25:52 PM

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5/18/2009 6:28:18 PM

ask their dad when their mom got fat

5/18/2009 6:30:54 PM

in all seriousness, the true answer is exactly 1 year after they start dating the man they plan to marry

5/18/2009 6:31:13 PM

17,18,or 19

freashman 15. it goes down hill after that

5/18/2009 6:32:45 PM

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"in all seriousness, the true answer is exactly 1 year after they start dating the man they plan to marry"

That's what I'm scared of. I think you need to meet a skinny 30 year old. If she is skinny at 30 she might not get fat....i think

5/18/2009 6:34:32 PM

Freshman 15 than the pregnant 50

5/18/2009 7:54:52 PM

actually for me it was 20

[Edited on May 18, 2009 at 8:00 PM. Reason : ]

5/18/2009 8:00:18 PM

punch her everytime she eats, so she eats only very reluctantly and often while flinching

PAVLOV IS THE ONLY ANSWER

5/18/2009 8:01:26 PM

0.01 minutes

5/18/2009 8:05:18 PM

Women begin getting fat the moment their boyfriend tells them he loves them.

5/18/2009 8:09:14 PM

i heard its the lub

5/18/2009 8:14:33 PM

what if we were fat when we met the guy we were gonna marry? what then?

5/18/2009 8:20:59 PM

when they're no longer single

5/18/2009 8:23:59 PM

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"what if we were fat when we met the guy we were gonna marry? what then? "

does it really matter? you're just gonna get bigger.

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"punch her everytime she eats, so she eats only very reluctantly and often while flinching PAVLOV IS THE ONLY ANSWER"

hahahahahahhaha

the comments about 'asking her dad' and a 'year after marriage' is pretty true too.

[Edited on May 18, 2009 at 8:37 PM. Reason : eh]

5/18/2009 8:35:34 PM

also annoying is how they gain 35 lbs when they get preggers but only loose 25 for each rug rat.

[Edited on May 18, 2009 at 8:44 PM. Reason : h]

5/18/2009 8:41:28 PM

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"I think you need to meet a skinny 30 year old. If she is skinny at 30 she might not get fat....i think"

ha, i've thought about that before, as an upside to staying single until your 30s.

5/18/2009 8:45:14 PM

i hate how it is much more acceptable for a guy to put on weight than a girl.

and biologically females are supposed to have more fat.

5/18/2009 8:47:39 PM

that might be the case, but i stay in good shape, so i have no problem holding women to the same standard.

5/18/2009 8:51:16 PM

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5/18/2009 8:53:36 PM

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"in all seriousness, the true answer is exactly 1 year after they start dating the man they plan to marry "

Are you actually being serious or just attempting to be funny?

5/18/2009 8:56:14 PM

^

5/18/2009 9:00:41 PM

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"what if we were fat when we met the guy we were gonna marry? what then? "

not to be rude, but if you're fat it's gonna be hard to convince any guy to date you, let alone marry you

5/18/2009 9:05:26 PM

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"not to be rude, but if you're fat it's gonna be hard to convince any guy to date you, let alone marry you"

i've been married for a year

5/18/2009 9:07:34 PM

I agree with EMCE

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"That's what I'm scared of. I think you need to meet a skinny 30 year old. If she is skinny at 30 she might not get fat....i think"

No guarantee. I met a smokin hot divorced 30yo a couple years ago. Saw her at a friend's xmas party 5mos ago and she put on 30-40 pounds.

What happened? She got back with her ex.

5/18/2009 9:11:05 PM

^^
actually yeah, I see fat chicks with guys all the time...I stand corrected

I am tall, skinny and perpetually single, incidentally, so I probably shouldn't talk

5/18/2009 9:16:10 PM

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"not to be rude, but if you're fat it's gonna be hard to convince any guy to date you, let alone marry you"

I was fat when he convinced me to start dating him. It's seven years later and we're married with a kid. In that seven years, I've gained and lost the same 50 pounds a couple of times. Thick or thin, it hasn't made a bit of difference.

5/18/2009 9:40:11 PM

When they stop giving a shit. They shouldn't stop giving a shit unless you give them a reason to. If you're the boyfriend/husband and she starts gaining weight, no one is going to mention it to her except you. You can either deal with her copping an attitude and pretending she's "hurt" that you mentioned her weight, or you can be banging a fatty in a year. If you don't communicate about it, then it's just going to get worse.

To be fair, this isn't just an issue with females. Guys are just as likely to become more sedentary with age. Combine that lifestyle with a lower metabolism and an unhealthy diet, and pretty much anyone will run into weight problems.

5/18/2009 9:53:33 PM

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"not to be rude, but if you're fat it's gonna be hard to convince any guy to date you, let alone marry you"

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"Estimates of the number of obese American adults have been rising steadily, from 19.4% in 1997, 24.5% in 2004[3] to 26.6% in 2007. Should current trends continue, 75% of adults in the US are projected to be overweight and 41% obese by 2015."

5/18/2009 10:12:11 PM

dare I make comment on that statistic's use of bmi?

5/18/2009 10:16:38 PM

BMI is a pretty flawed metric, but just looking around, it seems that those numbers are probably pretty close to accurate.

5/18/2009 10:18:37 PM

sadly, you're right

5/18/2009 10:19:45 PM

yeah i know BMI is a shitty measure, but just looking around something's obviously wrong

5/18/2009 10:23:45 PM

When they join tww or when i fuck them...pretty much the same time

5/18/2009 10:24:06 PM

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5/18/2009 10:27:40 PM

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"in all seriousness, the true answer is exactly 1 year after they start dating the man they plan to marry "

5/18/2009 10:31:16 PM

BMI may be a bad metric, but when you compare it to other countries' BMI, they're still much lower. So it says that at the very least, we are fat fucks compared to EVERYONE ELSE IN THE WORLD.

5/18/2009 11:02:36 PM

i gained more than the freshman 15

5/18/2009 11:44:20 PM

can there be some clause where they're allowed to get fat, or stop giving head without it being a get out of marriage free card, but not both? No man should have to watch a woman who will no longer put his penis in her mouth stuff it with everything else.

5/18/2009 11:47:33 PM

listen. i'm always up for making trades

maybe other women are too.

some call it prostitution. i call it everybody wins

5/18/2009 11:54:54 PM

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"No man should have to watch a woman who will no longer put his penis in her mouth stuff it with everything else."

Agree

5/18/2009 11:59:20 PM

^that's fair

skinny at 30 is no guarantee that they aren't at a low point in their yo-yo dieting. but if this matters to you:

1. date someone who likes to do active things with you. if your dates revolve around making 5 course meals for each other, chances are that someone's ending up fat.
2. tell her in the beginning that staying in shape is something you value and that you expect the same from her. she will thank you or gtfo; either serves your purpose.

the combination of 1 and 2 give you a great out. if she starts putting on weight, you can start by saying that you miss all the active things you used to do together and ask her if anything's wrong. a woman who used to like being in shape who suddenly stops, usually has something else going on. if you help her with whatever is happening that's contributed to said change, again, she will thank you. and you never had to call her fat to get what you want.

3. MOST importantly, don't hold her to a standard you aren't meeting yourself. all bets are off if you're gaining weight right along with her - unless you also get back into shape. again, make it something you do together.

5/19/2009 12:39:53 AM

Women seem to get fat after they squeeze out a baby and can't ever get rid of all of the weight, so I guess it all depends on the age that they have their first child at. Oh, and some women are just naturally fat and others develope poor eating habits when they get older and it becomes easier to gain weight.

5/19/2009 1:19:52 AM

guest at work was asking me about my tastes in women and i told her i look at the womans parents to get an idea of how they will be when they are older

5/19/2009 1:21:16 AM

5/19/2009 3:51:24 AM

In shape doesn't always mean skinny. I met several overweight female hikers on the AT who had hiked 15-20 miles a day for 5+ months. Alison Streeter has swam across the English Channel ... 43 times. she also holds the speed record for swimming the Channel south to north. she's an amazing athlete




[Edited on May 19, 2009 at 6:33 AM. Reason : lol .... maaan ]

5/19/2009 6:32:13 AM

Let me rephrase:

What's the age that ATTRACTIVE non she-beast looking chicks start getting fat

5/19/2009 6:57:45 AM