I cant begin to form the words.....
hlpe

6/23/2009 7:10:47 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. If there is anything I can do to help, don't hesitate to give me a call.

6/23/2009 7:12:58 PM

thats almost exactly what i wrote, i just think i should do better

6/23/2009 7:15:11 PM

As someone who lost my father recently, I can tell you that it's plenty.

It literally gets to the point that you get sick of people trying to "help". Just saying that your friend is in your thoughts and that you are there for him/her is all it takes.

[Edited on June 23, 2009 at 7:16 PM. Reason : a]

6/23/2009 7:16:20 PM

well, if you're anything like me, you'll flip through the family album with the grieving son and find a funny picture and say "lol who's that fag" to lighten the mood a little and then find out it was the person for whom he was grieving. great icebreaker

6/23/2009 7:18:57 PM

cool, yeah i dont have anything to say to make them feel better so you're right, i might as well not try

6/23/2009 7:19:30 PM

hahaha fermat is great

6/23/2009 7:20:16 PM

6/23/2009 7:24:02 PM

"Sucks to be you."

6/23/2009 7:25:57 PM

karma

6/23/2009 7:26:22 PM

you can't really say anything to make them feel better so just letting them know you are thinking about them is probably enough.

6/23/2009 7:28:26 PM

6/23/2009 8:44:14 PM

i fucked you are mom

6/23/2009 8:44:42 PM

Beware of the RedBox

6/23/2009 8:45:50 PM

I've got 2, do you want one of mine?

6/23/2009 8:54:40 PM

I am available as a shoulder to cry on for $1














































































































































per night

6/23/2009 8:55:48 PM

"Well that sucks!" then buy them a beer.

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"well, if you're anything like me, you'll flip through the family album with the grieving son and find a funny picture and say "lol who's that fag" to lighten the mood a little and then find out it was the person for whom he was grieving. great icebreaker"

ahahaha this is totally something I would do

[Edited on June 23, 2009 at 9:11 PM. Reason : .]

6/23/2009 9:10:41 PM

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"thats almost exactly what i wrote, i just think i should do better"

It would be nice if you could do something more, but unless you have discovered the secret to eternal life there is nothing more for you to do (unless they ask you to help with something).

A death in the family like that (especially if it's one of your parents) is something I believe most people would just like time and space to deal with, with most of the time shortly thereafter spent with their immediate family.

6/23/2009 9:13:37 PM

kiljadn wins the thread

6/23/2009 9:14:52 PM

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"i fucked you are mom"

6/23/2009 9:55:18 PM