I have hooked up with this girl 4 times (yes that means have sex). The first few times she was all over me, I could do no wrong. Now all of a sudden I start talking about maybe just hanging out exclusively and getting to know each other better and all the attraction goes out the window... apparently i'm only the 3rd person to have sex with her since she lost her virginity 3 years ago and naturally I think to myself that's a good thing?

I have said once that I could see her as gf material... yet naturally, now i'm the one getting blown off because i'm trying to move too fast... we hooked up for the first time like a month ago....

please tell me there is some comfort up here

6/27/2009 3:13:16 AM

so tuff

6/27/2009 3:14:54 AM

tl;dr

6/27/2009 3:17:25 AM

cunts that are malignant sound dangerous and nasty and you should probably not penetrate malignant cunts K?

6/27/2009 3:23:23 AM

not gonna work bruh

move on

6/27/2009 3:26:00 AM

just pisses me off... I should be happy about this situation but I feel inadequate

6/27/2009 3:30:15 AM

Carcinoma in situ, son.

6/27/2009 3:31:09 AM

you should be happy that she's not pushing you for a relationship

6/27/2009 3:33:50 AM

"hookup" used to mean "meet"

what does "meet" mean now

6/27/2009 3:34:29 AM

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"(yes that means have sex)"

DON'T PATRONIZE ME BRO

6/27/2009 3:35:37 AM

my apologies, replace "hooked up" with "fucked"

6/27/2009 3:36:54 AM

Quote :

"you should be happy that she's not pushing you for a relationship"

6/27/2009 3:37:36 AM

yeah yeah i know... i just haven't fucked her in like a week or so, so that's why i'm bitching

6/27/2009 3:39:53 AM

in that FWB shit, someone always catches feelings



you started actin weird, she saw that, that's why she bounced

6/27/2009 3:51:00 AM

i never acted weird... I was just trying to do right by her and tell her I wasen't ready for a new relationship but would let her know. Things seemed ok until this week all of a sudden... who knows, if she's found another guy good for her... i'd just like a heads up

on second thought, i don't know why i'm getting pissed at her...

[Edited on June 27, 2009 at 3:55 AM. Reason : .]

6/27/2009 3:53:32 AM

Quote :

"Fermat All American 41140 Posts user info edit post "hookup" used to mean "meet" what does "meet" mean now"

from time to time i'll still say "hey we should hook up sometime" and then later think "oh yeah they changed that phrase... "

6/27/2009 3:58:13 AM

Quote :

"what does "meet" mean now"

"meet" means "meat" now.

6/27/2009 7:57:43 AM

Whatever you do, don't mistake "stake" for "steak."

6/27/2009 8:01:28 AM

BTW DG fwiw, I've had sex on the first date with a dude and he and I hit it off soon thereafter - the sex was something we just agreed we wanted to get done right away for different reasons. It didn't drive either of us apart, it was more a consequence of us being single for so long and just needing comfort at the get-go. We never relied on it since then. She's probably just not the right one.

[Edited on June 27, 2009 at 8:05 AM. Reason : .]

6/27/2009 8:03:42 AM

She's banging the mail man.

6/27/2009 8:58:50 AM

hook up doesn't exclusively mean sex

it can include other things in the foreplay spectrum

6/27/2009 9:07:43 AM

dude

she sounds crazy

move along

6/27/2009 9:15:34 AM

sounds like you're the asshole

6/27/2009 9:29:19 AM

I was in a similar situation w a friend about a year ago, she hasn't spoken to me in a few months :/

6/27/2009 9:30:24 AM

so wait, you're all bent out of shape and fighting mad because this girl doesn't want to be your girlfriend?

you've got a difficult road ahead if you don't learn to chill out and not worry about stuff like that.

6/27/2009 9:34:53 AM

And by mail man I meant Karl Malone.

6/27/2009 9:42:31 AM

malignant cunt?

6/27/2009 9:48:31 AM

This is way to easy.....

She doesn't think you are bf material.


/thread

6/27/2009 11:06:46 AM

lol this is why I shouldn't make threads.

I really do come off like an asshole

6/27/2009 11:11:17 AM

Just ignore her then!!!

6/27/2009 11:12:37 AM

I am now, I was just texting/calling her once every couple of days or so but last night I called and she said that she just wanted to hang out and that when i got drunk I asked her about being in a relationship and she didn't want that...(this happened once). I was drunk and was just calling to see if she wanted to "hang out" at 2 in the morning. Apparently that pissed me off when she said no... hence the rage thread.

6/27/2009 11:16:00 AM

malignant double post

[Edited on June 27, 2009 at 11:16 AM. Reason : .]

6/27/2009 11:16:00 AM

Translation: She's fucking multiple other dudes and the you being the 3rd person bit is complete bullshit.

6/27/2009 11:18:06 AM

I don't know what you mean by 3rd person bit. She told me I was the third person she'd had sex with... which is hard to believe considering it happened the second time we hung out.

6/27/2009 11:21:12 AM

Give me this chicks number. I'll straighten her out for you.

6/27/2009 11:29:13 AM

I mean girls always say you're the 3rd. you're more like the 3rd this year.

obviously you've figured that out though

6/27/2009 11:29:14 AM

I think that's what pissed me off more than anything... her trying to playoff all innocent and that I had a fragile heart in my hands. I wanted to do right by her and then I turn around a week later and i'm getting blown off.

Stuff like this is why guys just hit it and quit it ladies.

6/27/2009 11:36:38 AM

maybe she just doesnt want a serious relationship right now and would rather keep things casual? if she slept with you a second (third and fourth) time she clearly doesn't dislike you so maybe in time things will turn around.

complicated cunts...ftl

6/27/2009 11:36:44 AM

Quote :

"She told me I was the third person she'd had sex with... which is hard to believe considering it happened the second time we hung out."

Why is this hard to believe? Maybe she waited forever and realizes what she was missing and is now making up for lost time.

I dated a wolfweb girl onces that had fucked like 12 dudes when I was on girl # 3 or 4 or something and she was all about not fucking on the 3rd date even though she wanted it hard (we went straight to oral on date 2). People, guys and girls, do different things at different times in their life. Have second and third thoughts, and just generally act weird about shit. If she is a typical girl, ignore her for a couple weeks and then go back to fucking like you never discussed a relationship. Step your damn game up, stop crying to the wolfweb.

6/27/2009 11:52:17 AM

Quote :

"Translation: She's fucking other dudes"

6/27/2009 12:07:57 PM

6/27/2009 12:23:21 PM

she's just not that into you.

6/27/2009 12:26:33 PM

Quote :

"in that FWB shit, someone always catches feelings you started actin weird, she saw that, that's why she bounced"

This is true.. you can act weird without even knowing it. Calling the bitch a few more times than usual or anything that you didn't do back when you really didn't give a shit can have consequences.

6/27/2009 12:30:02 PM

I thought this thread was about Hilary Clinton

6/27/2009 12:36:32 PM

she just wanted dick but you screwed it up



CARCINOMA IN MY VAGINA?
IT'S MORE COMMON THAN YOU THINK!

6/27/2009 5:38:18 PM