I was workin the door at Alivias, and this dude had just got thrown out of the Federal, a bar down the street, for pickin fights and being a 5 year old. So my coach comes down to Alivias to point the dude out and tell me not to let him in, some 40 year old potbellied fellow.

He is obviously intoxicated, dancing in the street like a typical uncoordinated white dude gyrating his hips, and he makes his way to me. Im not in the mood, so im like "dude keep movin you aint comin in here" hes like "ok ok ok i understand" then he see coach sittin next to me and starts arguin with him about why he shouldnt have gotten thrown out of the Federal.

I done had enough so i tell this dude he better step on, but hes bein an ignant ass and hes obviously pushin my buttons, at one point he makes like hes gonna dash into the bar, i wrap him up by the neck and toss him back outside the wall. hes like "MAAN MAAAN IM A JOKER" and im like "youre done, get the fuck out of here im done with you"

then THIS motherfucker looks at my coach, looks at me in the eye and says "hey man, let me tell you somethin...dont be this mans nigger!" and starts kinda saunterin off all smug like

i start laughin and i get up slow and started to walk out onto the side walk to grab him by the neck and move him from our section of the sidewalk, but i got restrained by this big black dude (who heard it also as i was checkin his id when he walked in) so we were both talkin shit to this dude while the black dude is restrainin me. I told this dude he better not cross this sidewalk while im work and he "better cross to the other side of the street in front of Alivias" and i was back to checkin Ids

it looked real bad, but i wasnt actually gonna fight that dude man, i wasnt even that mad i just wanted to put my hands on him is all. I was cool not like i aint really see it comin, but i guess he go the reaction he wanted

7/25/2009 1:27:01 PM

if the shoe fits

[Edited on July 25, 2009 at 1:28 PM. Reason : also tl;dr]

7/25/2009 1:27:52 PM

yo homes

7/25/2009 1:28:12 PM

that sucks man, at least you didn't do anything stupid.

7/25/2009 1:28:26 PM

fuck yall niggers

7/25/2009 1:29:10 PM

in on page 1 ITT

7/25/2009 1:30:17 PM

I, too, physically assault people who call me names

7/25/2009 1:35:56 PM

why you gotta be talkin' bout alivia's?! now i want a shrimp po boy...grrrrrrr

7/25/2009 1:36:32 PM

^^its not about physical assault itts about doin my job

i dont think you understand anything ever, you just make dumb ass comments.

im the least violent person in the world, youre a fuckin dolt

^you should come out then

[Edited on July 25, 2009 at 1:37 PM. Reason : f]

7/25/2009 1:36:52 PM

the federal in durham?

7/25/2009 1:38:33 PM

7/25/2009 1:40:06 PM

yes

the fed, the joyce and alivias are all kinda co-owned so if someone gets kicked out of one bar they aint gettin in the other two

they can take their asses to devines

7/25/2009 1:40:10 PM

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"im the least violent person in the world, youre a fuckin dolt"

This is 100% Grade-A bullshit son and you damn well know it.

You were manhandling the dude, grabbing him by the neck. That's pretty serious shit. Grab my neck and you get to die son. :-/

Anyway son, sounds like you were being a dick to some dude who was being a dick to you. Nobody won and you both looked stupid.

Yay?

7/25/2009 1:41:16 PM

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"then THIS motherfucker looks at my coach, looks at me in the eye and says "hey man, let me tell you somethin...dont be this mans nigger!" and starts kinda saunterin off all smug like i start laughin and i get up slow and started to walk out onto the side walk to grab him by the neck and move him from our section of the sidewalk, but i got restrained by this big black dude (who heard it also as i was checkin his id when he walked in) so we were both talkin shit to this dude while the black dude is restrainin me. I told this dude he better not cross this sidewalk while im work and he "better cross to the other side of the street in front of Alivias" and i was back to checkin Ids it looked real bad, but i wasnt actually gonna fight that dude man, i wasnt even that mad i just wanted to put my hands on him is all. I was cool not like i aint really see it comin, but i guess he go the reaction he wanted"

you admit he was walking away. your job is to assault people that are leaving the area of the restaurant/bar you work at?

7/25/2009 1:41:17 PM

TOUGH SHIT

[Edited on July 25, 2009 at 1:41 PM. Reason : ]

7/25/2009 1:41:34 PM

^^i feel you

he was comin going to turn around he had done that two or three times, walkin off and turning around

thats why I went back to checkin ids repeatedly, he and dude would argue and then hed leave and turn around and come back to press more buttons


he got the black and white cab in the end, i probably should have removed him sooner rather than when i did, he had already disturbed the atmosphere of the bar, i was just gonna let him and coach work it out amongst themselves and do my other duties as a bouncer


[Edited on July 25, 2009 at 1:45 PM. Reason : d]

7/25/2009 1:43:44 PM

7/25/2009 1:44:08 PM

^ God that was beautiful.

7/25/2009 1:44:50 PM

I haven't been called a nigger in the direct racist context in years

Except on Xbox Live

Where it happens 32 times a day

7/25/2009 1:45:36 PM

i would have never struck that dude

haha i think that be hard to defend, but id have wrestled him to the ground without hurting him if need be.

bisping sucks

at the sametime you gotta show the patrons that you can control the situation so that they feel comfortable being there. you cant be doorman and get walked over

this bum 2 weeks ago looked at me in the eye and threw his trash on the sidewalk right after i told him to quit soliciting the people eatin dinner. I got in his face too and made him pick it up and not come back around


honestly he was scary cuz that dude was on drugs hardcore

[Edited on July 25, 2009 at 1:49 PM. Reason : d]

7/25/2009 1:46:32 PM

I hate Bisping

7/25/2009 1:48:15 PM

7/25/2009 1:49:20 PM

Who is the 'coach' guy? Is he your fighting coach or something, or like a bouncer coach

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"but i got restrained by this big black dude (who heard it also as i was checkin his id when he walked in) so we were both talkin shit to this dude while the black dude is restrainin me."

so another big black guy (guessing a customer) restrained you, and the two of you were talking shit to the drunkard?

Just trying to see if I got the story straight. Kinda funny, but its good that you kept your cool

7/25/2009 2:17:28 PM

lucky you got restrained because that drunk fool woulda had him a fat lawsuit.

7/25/2009 2:32:31 PM

how would you have justified assaulting a guy that was walking away? bouncers are such meat heads.

7/25/2009 2:33:21 PM

That sucks by the way. People who drop the n-bomb in a situation like that deserve to get their asses beat.

[Edited on July 25, 2009 at 2:39 PM. Reason : ]

7/25/2009 2:39:06 PM

No one deserves to be beaten for simply saying anything. This isn't fucking Saudi Arabia.


It sound like in this case the guy was doing more than just talking though (trying to run into the bar).

7/25/2009 3:18:32 PM

BHS i'm surprised you made a thread about being called a nigger. the rest of the story, sure that's typical BHS storytellin, but i am surprised you framed this thread in the context of being called a name. you're one of the most f-that-i-just-live people i know, black or white. despite having brushed it off, does being called a nigger (especially by a drunk old dude) bother you? not saying that it shouldn't either. i'm just surprised that it would.

7/25/2009 3:30:32 PM

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"No one deserves to be beaten for simply saying anything. This isn't fucking Saudi Arabia."

you have freedom to say anything, but that doesn't mean there are not consequences. say the n word? you get your ass beat.

7/25/2009 4:07:20 PM

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" but hes bein an ignant ass "

7/25/2009 4:34:01 PM

dude you would have killed him if you fought...good job being the bigger man

7/25/2009 4:36:48 PM

he wasn't the bigger man, the patron who held him back was

7/25/2009 5:07:21 PM

it doesnt help racial tension when people act so ignorant.

drunk people do stupid shit, especially guys with big mouths.

7/25/2009 5:11:20 PM

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"drunk people do stupid shit, especially guys with big mouths. "

[Edited on July 25, 2009 at 5:12 PM. Reason : .]

7/25/2009 5:12:27 PM

HAAAAY O

7/25/2009 5:13:56 PM

yea its been a while since i've been called that in a derogatory way outside of the internet. i tend to try the maki piefer(sp) in shaft approach. i probably woulda just pointed and said something like "klan rally is that way have a great night buddy"

7/25/2009 5:44:50 PM

"you have freedom to say anything, but that doesn't mean there are not consequences. say the n word? you get your ass beat"

I agree. Its aight Chris, If I'd heard him call you that I would have kicked his ass. Sometimes you have to set peoples perspectives straight. and sometimes you cant do that by turning the other cheek.

I've done plenty of stupid shit while drunk/ high, but nothin like that.

7/25/2009 5:58:21 PM

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"he wasn't the bigger man, the patron who held him back was"

word.

that guy saved BHS and his restaurant a serious lawsuit.

7/25/2009 5:58:47 PM

^^^ hah. the internet is the great equalizer. i didn't even know you were black.

[Edited on July 25, 2009 at 5:59 PM. Reason : but then again, i bet most people on here didn't know i was either]

7/25/2009 5:59:39 PM

what? black people can't post on message boards?

7/25/2009 6:04:10 PM

YEAH THAT'S RIGHT

[Edited on July 25, 2009 at 6:10 PM. Reason : you think this is called theblackweb.com or something what's up]

7/25/2009 6:10:31 PM

7/25/2009 6:13:21 PM

Every time I've seen shit go down and cops show up the cops usually side with the sober guys working the door and not the drunk idiot who got knocked around.

7/25/2009 6:16:02 PM

yeah it's true. cops are so racist against alcoholics. that's why i always try to punch a bouncer in the face whenever i get the opportunity

7/25/2009 6:17:42 PM

sorry, but even if someone says something stupid you are not legally entitled to beat their ass and should be prosecuted if you do. stay tuff

7/25/2009 6:18:13 PM

ha i wasnt gonna beat his ass

thats part of the reason i regretted the entire scene, it almost looked like a fight was gonna break out, i was gonna move him along because I had enough of him disturbin my bar

trust me, i wouldnt need to actually fight that dude to control him

it was fun to get some shit talk in though, i love to talk shit so i got my clown on a little

7/25/2009 8:05:02 PM

7/25/2009 8:09:38 PM

obligatory this is my side of town post...

7/25/2009 8:11:28 PM

7/25/2009 8:17:49 PM

and you are getting called a nigger again today... nigger

7/25/2009 8:39:51 PM