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HAY

what should i get the boyfriend for his birthday? its not till sept 3, which happens to the be the game against SC, so im planning an epic tailgate for him...but giftwise, i have no fucking clue. he's all about some golf and traveling to cool places and ocean stuff.

[Edited on July 21, 2009 at 11:06 PM. Reason : hai]

7/21/2009 11:05:11 PM

It wasnt very crowded at all...i'd say that there were maybe 30 people there and they only played for about a half hour but it was fucking awesome

set list was

Silja Line
Drunkards Worst Nightmare
Boxcar
Nice Fox
Bow to the Middle - ended with this with the crowd dancing

7/21/2009 11:05:29 PM

^^ do you have a budget? a tailgate is cool. how good is he at golf? would he like lessons from a pro? that is always a good gift for a recreational golfer. or maybe you could plan a weekend trip for you both to the beach (ocean) or the mtns. they have golf courses at both so you could give him that and you could just go to a spa or on the beach while he golfs haha.

7/21/2009 11:46:28 PM

oh dear. he's so good at golf he's already turned down playing at a couple of colleges and will be trying out for the sole walk-on spot for State this season. My birthday is actually 2 days before his, so the trip with golf/spa would be a win-win! He's played so many golf courses on the East Coast, itd be hard to find a really nice one to take him to. He's dying to play Bethpage in NY, where the US Open was...but it takes an act of God to get an out-of-state tee time. I may have a connection or two for someone that could get an in-state resident tee time for him though, idk.

I'm usually great with gifts, but he's not much of a person to go out and buy or want things, he's more of a...hey, lets go scuba in the keys and play golf...person. And Lindsey is not rich

7/21/2009 11:50:33 PM

haha. well maybe he can just settle for a course he's already played and you can go to the mtns and stay in a cute place and do the spa/golf thing and then have like a romantic getaway!

or just go to the beach for a weekend. that is always fun. gifts are hard because i am someone that would rather go on a vacation or do something cool than like, get new clothes or a dvd or something.

7/21/2009 11:58:19 PM

im liking the spa part of that. he did mention wanting to go on a trip the weekend of our birthdays...Labor Day ftw.

7/22/2009 12:20:06 AM

you should go to tampa!

[Edited on July 22, 2009 at 12:39 AM. Reason : .]

7/22/2009 12:21:47 AM

no fucking way id go to miami

7/22/2009 12:32:10 AM

I said tampa anyways

[Edited on July 22, 2009 at 12:39 AM. Reason : .]

7/22/2009 12:33:04 AM

im not even gonna ask what youre trying to imply.

7/22/2009 12:35:05 AM

lol u can figure it out for yourself!

[Edited on July 22, 2009 at 12:40 AM. Reason : /]

7/22/2009 12:37:01 AM

Is that girl who fell through the table in your gallery laughing or crying?

7/22/2009 12:40:09 AM

haha she is laughing luckily

her legs and back were pretty cut/bruised but LUCKILY no gashes. i thought we were going to have to go to the hospital for real.

7/22/2009 12:42:38 AM

quit drinking your wine?

7/22/2009 12:43:44 AM

me??? i was never drinking wine tonight. i just said i liked wine

7/22/2009 12:44:45 AM

my mistake.

7/22/2009 12:57:23 AM

why did it take me so long to get around to listening to the bowerbirds?

holy shit

7/22/2009 1:10:11 AM

are you having indigestion probs right now by chance?

7/22/2009 1:38:45 AM

no. can't sleep.

7/22/2009 1:39:12 AM

7/22/2009 1:41:18 AM

oh =/ i took a tylenol pm about 40 minutes ago. tried the ambien yet?

7/22/2009 1:41:58 AM

nope. i still haven't.

7/22/2009 1:42:32 AM

give me some plz



my feet hurt too much to sleep

7/22/2009 1:43:59 AM

i'm scared because i heard it makes some people hallucinate and i really don't want to hallucinate. i'm also scared of not waking up during an emergency. or if i have to pee.

7/22/2009 1:45:56 AM

hope you dont mind if i say the pee comment made me lol

7/22/2009 1:47:42 AM

haha i don't. but i'm serious! this is also probably why i take anti-anxiety medicine. regular people don't sit here and think "omg what if an ax murderer comes in my house but i took an ambien" OR "what if a rabid raccoon busts through a window and gets in our house but i took an ambien" OR "what if there is a fire and the alarm goes off but i took an ambien"

the scenarios i come up with are endless really. the pee one has also crossed my mind. and, if nothing else, i really don't want to hallucinate/feel weird. i feel weird enough as it is.

7/22/2009 1:49:47 AM

anti-anxiety meds? yes plz

7/22/2009 1:50:41 AM

idk i think you are grossly overestimating its effects on you. imo at least.

7/22/2009 1:51:16 AM

well i thought so but the dr told me i am small so i probably don't need a lot of sleeping medicine. and this is just what i've heard from other people (hallucinating, etc).

so she told me to start with rozerem which is another sleeping medicine but i am scared to take that too because i read a lot about the side effects of it and some just seem kind of weird/unhealthy to me.

^^ haha. i am like a mini pharmacy



[Edited on July 22, 2009 at 1:52 AM. Reason : .]

7/22/2009 1:52:31 AM

You realize by taking drugs and medications you are simply weakening your immune system and creating a dependency on a drug that will soon no longer work?

7/22/2009 2:39:30 AM

i wish that argument worked on more ppl

7/22/2009 2:42:58 AM

^^ duh. i don't take sleeping medicine. just antianxiety/antidepressants. and i don't want to be on them for life anyway. it is a necessary evil.

7/22/2009 9:16:04 AM

sup howie?

7/22/2009 9:16:53 AM

nothingggg. waiting to go to work. what about youuuu?

7/22/2009 9:18:08 AM

Should I take it personally when someone I throw a surprise going-away party for doesn't say thank you? And when that same person doesn't thank you for me buying their birthday dinner?

7/22/2009 9:23:37 AM

oh just waiting to get off of work figuring out this whole breakfast thing and trying to avoid meetings. lol

hows your monkey toes?

7/22/2009 9:28:34 AM

^^ no they are probably just rude and are like that to everyone

^ eww. i'm meeting with an interior designer right now. then worky. ugh. i'm sleepy today.

7/22/2009 9:32:36 AM

can you get the designer to post in this thread?

[Edited on July 22, 2009 at 9:34 AM. Reason : form of a question]

7/22/2009 9:33:47 AM

^2 Even if it's my best friend/roommate? :\

[Edited on July 22, 2009 at 9:34 AM. Reason : .]

7/22/2009 9:34:00 AM

^i hope it's not one of them, aren't they both on TWW?

7/22/2009 9:39:11 AM

^ They're my future roommates (in t-minus like a week and a half)... I'm talking about my current roomie, of 4 years. :\

7/22/2009 9:49:29 AM

Quote :

"Should I take it personally when someone I throw a surprise going-away party for doesn't say thank you? And when that same person doesn't thank you for me buying their birthday dinner?"

i would, but then again not saying thank you is a pet peeve of mine

7/22/2009 1:08:04 PM

^5 oops i didn't get her to post here. my bad.

i guess if it was your roommate i'd be kind of mad. is she always that rude? maybe the thank you was implied haha...too bad i don't think that works. i would totally be mad.

7/22/2009 8:57:30 PM

hello friend?

7/22/2009 8:58:33 PM

what up?

7/22/2009 9:01:11 PM

i'm flying to Vegas in less than 12hrs. we have extra space. wanna come?

7/22/2009 9:01:47 PM

YES!!! haha

7/22/2009 9:02:14 PM

book a flight and move yer ass!

7/22/2009 9:03:02 PM

Can you make your booty clap?

7/22/2009 9:04:14 PM

no i cannot make my booty clap

7/22/2009 9:07:49 PM