that is awesome

5/6/2011 3:35:17 PM

FOLLOW UP!

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"Also, the first date was such a success that he invited me over to his house for "a nightcap". No alcohol was served. We stayed up all night "talking". Or something like that. And then the next night and the next and the next. So despite breaking a few of the rules (things not to do on a first date), it worked out quite well. The rules are silly. Break away."

5/6/2011 3:46:02 PM

that dude must be a smooth operator.

Still taking confessions BTW

[Edited on May 6, 2011 at 3:48 PM. Reason : sda]

5/6/2011 3:48:03 PM

Quote :

"In reference to the semen thread...no wonder my girlfriend gets depressed and sad whenever I go out of town "

5/6/2011 4:44:08 PM

I am putting this one down on my bucket list:

Quote :

"I'm currently typing this from the 3rd floor of UNC's neuroscience's rehab unit after threatening some folks and getting really fucked up., getting out monday. woot!"

5/6/2011 5:39:24 PM

^WINNING!

5/6/2011 5:42:57 PM

Quote :

"There is nothing for me to publicly state because it won't change anything. This sort of thing happens all the time, people just notice it today. While I may not agree with the prosecution, they didn't do anything that is legally wrong. Jury selection is a game that is played all the time. Defense and prosecuting attorneys all have their games that they play to get the juries they want. So while I agree that this is a shitty situation, there is nothing that the prosecution did that is out of the scope of the law. Also, while I laud the outrage expressed, since justice was neither served to Nancy Cooper nor Brad, I'll start taking you guys a little more seriously when you pay attention to the black and hispanics this sort of thing happens to every single day. Then again, they're dangerous, reckless minorities and Brad Cooper is middle class and white so you actually connect with him and therefore he deserves justice."

5/7/2011 2:05:00 AM

Eh, if that person can look themselves in the mirror and say all that, that's on them. They shouldn't be upset that there isn't more outrage about the "blacks and hispanics" this happens to, because whatever it takes to initiate change is a good thing. So what if it's some white guy (btw, he's a Canadian, who likes Canadians?).

No matter, this will obviously be changed on appeal. I don't blame the prosecution, more the judge for his obvious bias. I do blame the prosecution for suppressing evidence related to the 2nd expert witness that was not allowed. If they really wanted to get the truth rather than the conviction, they would have requested time to review the credentials of the 2nd expert.

5/7/2011 8:38:59 AM

^ The court system is not about getting the truth. Its a competition, they won. Brad Cooper did kill his wife so get over it.

5/7/2011 8:41:20 AM

^^^ woah somebody's spittin some truth up there

5/7/2011 10:16:14 AM

^

I had to re-read it after that comment. I only read like the first 2 sentences.

Quote :

"Block of text gets ignored"

5/7/2011 10:34:29 AM

It's sunday...confess to me.

5/8/2011 3:40:48 PM

Quote :

"I am in a situation and need guidance. I have fallen in love with a woman other than my fiancée. I don't want to be like the cheater who posted earlier so I would not do anything physical with this woman but I have hung out with her a few times. The questions I ask of you and the others in this thread are does hanging out regularly with this woman still constitute as cheating although nothing physical has taken place? Also what are the thoughts on loving more than one person and what to do about it?"

5/8/2011 9:05:33 PM

Hanging out with someone is not cheating...but if you have feelings for this other person and you hang out with them a lot....then this could lead to physical things happening.

However, if you start hanging out with this other person instead of or as a replacement for your fiance then you're walking a fine line.

5/8/2011 9:10:03 PM

How can it be love if you've only hung out a couple times?


Ill take confessions

5/8/2011 9:10:35 PM

Quote :

" I am surprised about the great quality of dick I have been getting lately."

Hahaha props to you, anonymous tww user

5/8/2011 9:25:05 PM

Quote :

"So last week, I went to my girls house to try and get her to rock that body, but before I left, I had a bit too much Bacardi to drink. Anyways, I rolled up in my '64, and I went to her house to get her out of her pad. She started yelling at me, and the dumb hoe said something that made me upset. It was something I couldn't believe she would say. I was so mad, that I grabbed the stupid bitch by her nappy-ass weave. I thought she would stop yelling, but instead she started talkin' shit, wouldn't you know? That's when I completely lost my cool, and I reached back like a pimp, and I just slapped the hoe. It was right in front of her father too, and then he jumped up and started to shout. In a panic, I knew I had gone too far, but I couldn't stop myself. So I then threw a right cross and knocked his old ass out. I'm not sure what is going to happen next. I'm not always this hard, but I grew up knowing nothing in life but to be legit, so if anyone asks about what happened, I ain't sayin shit. I just needed to get that off my chest. "

Hmmmmm

5/8/2011 9:29:42 PM

Eazy-E or Dynamite Hack version?

5/8/2011 9:32:24 PM

Referring to the confession DivaBaby19 received, it may not be physical cheating but if this person is/has developed feelings for this woman and is hanging out with her (dare I say probably behind his fiancee's back) he is emotionally cheating.

5/8/2011 9:34:28 PM

^d Very TRUE. I am sure that your girl would be pissed if she saw you too having a romantic evening.

[Edited on May 8, 2011 at 9:39 PM. Reason : df]

5/8/2011 9:39:31 PM

^^ I don't know if anyone listens to Howard Stern anymore but that exact scenario with one of the guys on the show (the normal ones, not one of the Wack Pack). It was really interesting to hear the guy's take on how emotional cheating is even worse than physical cheating to some people.

[Edited on May 8, 2011 at 9:42 PM. Reason : it was sal btw for any listeners]

5/8/2011 9:42:19 PM

Yeah... IMO, emotional cheating is MUCH worse

5/8/2011 9:43:21 PM

Quote :

"When I shave, I still cut my hair into funny designs before actually shaving it all off. Also, I want to snuggle with DivaBaby19"

Worrrd

5/8/2011 9:51:49 PM

I wanted to go into more detail about emotional cheating but I'm on the iPad and it sucks donkey balls trying to type.

I agree - emotional cheating is way worse especially if it's the boyfriend doing the emotional cheating on the girlfriend. Girls have stronger ties to emotions and tend to allow emotions to influence them, shape them, weigh on them moreso than other things. It's one thing to cheat on your girl because a smoking hot babe came onto you and you cheated (still wrong) but to cheat on your significant other with someone else by having a deeper level of emotion and connection - waaaaaaaaaaay worse. Suddenly you're basically telling your girl that it's not looks or sex appeal, you're turned on by how someone else thinks, reacts, their philosophy, their brain, their personality. That's stuff that's much harder for girls to grasp onto in terms of change.

Sure I can lose weight, buy new clothes, dye my hair and get a boob job. But its much harder for me to change what I believe in and how I think and interpret the world around me.

5/8/2011 9:54:31 PM

Aw snap

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" I have a bruise of fingerprints on my ass. Caused by sex. "

5/8/2011 9:55:48 PM

forgot i had this one:

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"I fucked a dude tonight. Then as soon as he fell asleep I left. He asked me if I would stay with him all night and I said yeah, but I just wanted to fuck and run. He was hot. And from England."

5/8/2011 10:04:06 PM

I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with connecting with someone else just because they have a different type of genitals than you do, but if you have romantic feeling for the person and aren't being honest with your SO about the way you feel, yeah, that is emotional cheating.

5/8/2011 10:04:36 PM

If you feel guilty, you're probably doing something wrong.

Also, I thought cass was talking about emotional EATING. lol

5/8/2011 10:07:54 PM

bump for confesssssssssssion

Quote :

"I will probably get lipo and Botox within the year."

5/8/2011 10:12:31 PM

Will take moar

5/8/2011 10:18:23 PM

Quote :

" i feel like a jerk"

I asked for details and got this back...

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" i just kinda dumped a guy who is really nice and likes me a lot and whom i might like otherwise but im not at a point in my life (and don't see me getting there anytime soon) where i want a relationship and unfortunately that seems to be what all the boys want these days"

[Edited on May 8, 2011 at 10:43 PM. Reason : .]

5/8/2011 10:39:13 PM

I would like a confession and then to give unsolicited advice to said person.

5/8/2011 10:44:36 PM

Ill take some

5/8/2011 10:45:13 PM

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"My gf and I went to a friend's beach condo for the weekend, but had to stay in separate rooms because the friend's family is super religious. It just meant that I had to fuck her on her bunkbed and then go upstairs to my twin bed to sleep at night. No biggie."

solid confession. bonus points if it was done with someone on the other bed in the bunkbed.

5/8/2011 11:24:42 PM

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"To answer puck_it, when I said a couple of times it was referring to solo and without the knowledge of my fiancée like Cassthesass stated. So non-physical connections can be considered cheating as well? Some are saying it's worse so that makes me a bigger douche than the guy fucking his friend's wife? Any shared thoughts about what to do when you love two people at once would be great."

Oops I had another one too from a diff poster

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"I believe you can love more than one person at a time."

[Edited on May 8, 2011 at 11:45 PM. Reason : moar ]

5/8/2011 11:36:54 PM

bigger douche? probably not. people liking each other is natural. liking somebody isn't being a douche. and even though wanting to bang somebody is natural too, it's a lot easier to know when you're about to step over the line when it comes to banging somebody else who is in a relationship. it can be hard to know how emotionally close you can get with somebody else who is in a relationship before it becomes stepping over the line.

but either way, once you realize the line has been crossed, if you keep it up, yeah you're a douche and you better step off lest you get your bitch ass cut

5/8/2011 11:48:07 PM

I don't know if douche is the right word. But it would definitely be more hurtful, imo. I don't know if that makes sense... To me, it would be much harder to get over the fact my fiance' fell in love with another woman versus my fiance' just screwing someone random. The other guy who is screwing his friend's wife though is just on a whole different level that I feel like has been touched on enough



and I'm like 99% positive I know who sent the bunkbed confession.

5/9/2011 12:03:44 AM

I missed the honesty/cheating discussion, damn


As for the fallen in love with another woman confession... the more you hang out with the other woman, you'll either fall more in love which will complicate life (at some point, you have to make a decision/choice and pull away from one best case, worst case you step over a line and hurt someone worse). If you have really fallen for a woman other than your fiancée, my advice is step away from her for awhile or tell your fiancée about her. Either be open and honest or remove the temptation.

5/9/2011 12:10:03 AM

Give me more confessions.

5/9/2011 12:24:56 AM

confessions? to me?

5/9/2011 1:45:49 AM

Shoot, you women are crazy.

I would much rather my SO have a non-physical emotional "affair" with someone else than a physical one with no emotions involved.

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"Suddenly you're basically telling your girl that it's not looks or sex appeal, you're turned on by how someone else thinks, reacts, their philosophy, their brain, their personality. That's stuff that's much harder for girls to grasp onto in terms of change. "

Clearly since he hasn't left his fiance he's still into her emotionally.

People have emotional connections with so many other people already; parents, siblings, best friends, there's a certain amount of emotional love with each of those connections. But theoretically in a steady monogamous relationship there's only one person you're having a physical sexual relationship with.

Obviously you can't be 100% sure that an emotional affair will never turn physical, but you also can't be sure that a physical affair won't turn emotional.

5/9/2011 2:07:25 AM

i still say the fact he hasn't told her about the other woman kind of implies he knows/feels like he is doing something wrong

and if ya feel like you're doing something wrong, you probably are doing something wrong. or at the very least, a little sketchy

if he actually DOES love his fiancee i feel like he should tell her. maybe HE can love more than one person (maybe we call can, who knows) but maybe she isn't capable of that or of being a part of that. i mean it isn't fair to her to keep this hidden. he is just being selfish. tell her. especially BEFORE you get married. hard now...but much harder after the fact.

i mean maybe she'll be cool or understanding. but the fact that he hasn't told her sort of indicates that he knows she will be hurt/upset/whatever.

5/9/2011 7:38:49 AM

^ or he's looking for a reason to ditch the fiancee.

point of the matter is - either something is not right with his relationship with the fiancee or it's missing an aspect of the relationship the confessor deems important and this is why he's attached himself to this other girl OR he's "falling in love" with certain aspects of this new girl. he said he had only hung out with her a few times and has "fallen." i know you can be in lust after meeting someone rather quickly - but in love already? is this how the first relationship went? sometimes people fall really fast and then reality sets in and you realize that the person you thought you knew really isn't the person you dreamt up in your head at all. a lot of times people will only emphasize on the good or will pick and choose or fantasize in their head how the person is, how everything will play out, etc.

5/9/2011 7:40:20 AM

I'd like to get one of these awesome run of confessions we've had recently!

5/9/2011 8:02:53 AM

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"I am the confessor of the emotional affair. I want DivaBaby to know that I still have love for her but you seem like you have a lot to say and I feel I can benefit from PM discussions with you as well as the advice in the thread. I'll address a few things to make sure we're all on the same page. KHC is right that the reason why I haven't told my fiancée about the other woman is because I can acknowledge that it would hurt her. I agree that we shouldn't intentionally do things that may cause someone pain but I don't think that just because someone would get hurt by an action that the action is implicitly wrong. I am not looking for a reason to ditch my fiancée. I love her and will stay with her. I would never cross a physical line with this other girl and I hope that says at least a little something about my character. When I've said that I have hung out with her a couple of times that is in reference to one on one meet ups we have had after my feelings developed. I have known her for a while and have hung out with others around countless times. CTS is dead on that my current relationship misses something that I deem important. My fiancée and I are wonderful together although we are not much alike, which can be a good thing. Our connection is strong, our times carefree and we have excellent sexual chemistry but I cannot have the type of deep meaningful conversations with her that I can with the new girl. My fiancée is smart but there is an intellectual curiosity and connection lacking that prevents the two of us from having the types of conversations and jokes I have with the other."

5/9/2011 9:17:49 AM

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"So, my life blows. I have a sweet job where I sit on my ass and make lots of money (thank you engineering degree), but it sucks. I have no intrest in what I do. I just...don't care. My wife makes shit tons of money too. We have a nice house, nice cars, and nice toys. We'll retire at 40 or earlier. We make awesome life choices together. The thing that sucks is that it is not what I'm looking for 4 years into our marriage. I've lost 40 pounds, she's gained 30. We don't have sex anymore, and when we do it is boring and repititive. Always the same positions. I can't even get off having sex with my wife. I'm not physically or sexually attracted to my wife. I want a wife I find attractive. I want a wife that wants me. I want I wife I want to fuck. I want a wife I want to make sweet, sweet love to. Do I really have to spend the next decades dreaming of getting more than one blowjob a year? Do I really have to pretend to enjoy sex when I don't? Do I really have to run across other women with nice hair and gorgeous legs and think "I'll never have any tail that looks like?" I'd give up everything I own and start all over if I could just have a satisifying love life. It would be best if it were with my wife. I'd be happy to make love to her again...and enjoy it."

5/9/2011 11:40:09 AM

That really sucks...maybe you should talk to your wife about this. Otherwise you might be shooting out cheating confessions next.

5/9/2011 11:54:38 AM

^Agreed.

^^Pal, talk to your wife. Keeping these feelings bottled up isn't going to change the situation. Also, all pussy tastes and feels the same. I bet you 10 lafta bucks it's 100% lack of emotional attraction that is making you floppy. Get creatively risky and you'll be good to go. I'm talking sex in a public place, illegal places, etc.

5/9/2011 12:04:47 PM

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"My boyfriend told me that he ate ice cream made for dogs because he was curious. "

5/9/2011 12:11:56 PM

I've tried it too. It's salty.

5/9/2011 12:14:24 PM