very today

11/3/2009 3:36:17 PM

Today I grabbed my V8 out of my fridge and sat it down on my desk. While reading some homework I picked it up and started shaking it only to realize I had already taken the top off and v8 went everywhere, even on my laptop. Luckily, it seems to be working fine.

11/3/2009 11:00:01 PM

^

11/3/2009 11:01:28 PM

^^LOL, picturing that is hilarious

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11/3/2009 11:02:02 PM

lol an even more embarrassing confession is that isn't the first time it has happened. *blush*

11/3/2009 11:16:11 PM

^LOL

11/3/2009 11:18:27 PM

seen a guy do that with a ketchup bottle, that shit was funny

11/3/2009 11:18:51 PM

Thats almost like holding a bottle in your hand with your watch, and twisting your wrist to read your watch, only to have your drink spill out...


I've only done that once

11/3/2009 11:19:59 PM

i really hated to see that in the news this evening

11/4/2009 12:00:02 AM

^^

11/4/2009 12:01:51 AM

i wanna bwn almost every other girl i see

11/4/2009 12:03:41 AM

my ex won't even talk to me...I passed her today and, as usual, she just pretended not to see me

she told me that she had no wish to be my friend, but I didn't think she really meant it

and it's not like I did anything genuinely terrible to her

it hurts like hell...I hate thinking that she's not even willing to say hello to me

11/4/2009 12:29:57 AM

that's how i handle things too :/

11/4/2009 12:31:03 AM

^^ she's doing you a favor

take a hint and forget her

11/4/2009 12:32:15 AM

it's mean as fuck

11/4/2009 12:32:17 AM

move on, you're better off..

11/4/2009 12:36:48 AM

I guess so...but I'd really like to be able to greet her when I run into her, and in general think of her without bitterness and pain

but she's made that impossible, and it's really annoying

11/4/2009 12:39:07 AM

i'll let you in on a little secret

you have no idea how painful it can be to try to maintain any sort of viable relationship with someone you've cared deeply about...knowing what you've had and lost...so sometimes it's just easier on both parties, in the end, to just make a clean break and pretend like you never knew each other...

it's easy to judge when you're on the end getting shit on...but it's not always easy on the end that's doing the shitting either...


i would bet you money she went home and cried

11/4/2009 12:39:08 AM

doesn't make her less of a cowardly bitch

11/4/2009 12:41:10 AM

thats just stupid


girl logic


fail

11/4/2009 12:41:37 AM

i just plain dont have the energy for a relationship anymore.

My motivation drops pretty much as soon as I get a number. After that it just feels like fucking work

11/4/2009 12:42:17 AM

there is absolutely no logic to it...


it's all a defense mechanism...


the rational part of me hates even admitting that things are like that....but sometimes they just are

11/4/2009 12:43:14 AM

i like girls who think with their vaginas

11/4/2009 12:43:49 AM

maybe you can be friends in the future...

but only after ignoring each other for like 6 months..

just move on, you're much better off and you'll keep your self respect.

11/4/2009 12:43:52 AM

precisely

11/4/2009 12:44:15 AM

Just never expect a woman to treat you with an ounce of decency or to act bounded by any semblance of rationality

then you'll be pleasantly surprised by anybody worth associating with

11/4/2009 12:45:22 AM

well thanks, LivinProof I don't like to think of her crying, but that is comforting

It might be different in this case, tho, cuz I did a lot of stupid shit...after she broke up w/ me she threw a bbq and invited a bunch of my friends and not me, and then I stupidly texted her asking if I could come, and that text-conversation didn't go well

then a week later, I got the mistaken impression from her facebook statuses that she maybe wanted to get back together, so I called her on a Sunday night at 10:30 and asked her if we could talk...she was really annoyed, but said okay...I said is it really over, she said yeah...I said, okay, well, nothing personal, but I'm going to delete you from my facebook friends, cuz I don't wanna know what's going on in your life...then she hung up on me. then I sent her a facebook message saying thanks, I get the message, I'm ready to move on now, and she replied saying "Don't contact me again, You have really creeped me out, I don't want to be your friend, I'm sorry our story had to end this way, I hope you have better luck in future relationships" and then defriended me

I haven't talked to her since, but I've just had that simmering in my gut for the past 3 weeks

11/4/2009 12:46:19 AM

ah...the dreaded Facebook


Facebook fucks up everything


and you're right...your situation may actually be different and she may really hate you

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11/4/2009 12:47:50 AM

^^ that was painful to read

11/4/2009 12:51:22 AM

lol at her pulling out the "you creep me out" card

sounds like a grade A bitch, why are you even upset

11/4/2009 12:54:00 AM

That sucks jeffrey. good luck handling things. try your best to stay civil and be the better man.

11/4/2009 12:55:58 AM

thank you McDanger, H8R, LivinProof and Quinn, for you guys' words of comfort

it really sucks, I can't talk about it much w/ my friends because most of my friends are also HER friends who've known her years longer than they've known me

but I guess it's time to stop worrying about what this girl thinks of me

11/4/2009 1:01:27 AM

wtf... did you cheat on her or some shit ?

11/4/2009 1:04:12 AM

Forget that heffa yo!

11/4/2009 1:04:30 AM

^^
no, the only really reprehensible things I ever did to her are the things I did after we broke up, which I've listed...while we were dating I never cheated on her or really wronged her in any serious way

11/4/2009 1:12:36 AM

how long did you date her for? or has that already been asked

11/4/2009 1:15:06 AM

wtf.. did she break it off or did you ?

... and you didnt cheat on her ?




..... bro, i think she just doesnt like you.

11/4/2009 1:15:12 AM

^^ just 2 months, which probably sounds laughable...but we were definitely in love and she said things at various times that conveyed to me that she was really crazy about me

^ she broke it off

11/4/2009 1:16:49 AM

oh bro, you're over your head on this one.


don't ever tell a girl you lover her.



she probably thought you were too clingy and emotionally unstable... ie.. creeped out by you

11/4/2009 1:19:19 AM

don't ever fall for a woman saying she loves you within the first few months

if you say it back she will not respect you

11/4/2009 1:23:12 AM

^

11/4/2009 1:26:17 AM

seriously it's a classic blunder

just let her make an ass out of herself when you don't say it back and call it a day

she won't get offended and dump you

rather she'll dedicate the next few weeks of her life trying to figure out how to make you say it back

11/4/2009 1:28:03 AM

really, I'm a romantic and an idealist...I don't like to make love confusing with head games...if I love someone I'll tell her so

11/4/2009 1:28:52 AM

have fun getting your shit pushed in like a needy bitch

you can be a romantic and still work from a position of strength

11/4/2009 1:29:54 AM

you play your game, I'll play mine

mine has led to shit in this case, admittedly, but anyway, as I understand it, she dumped me because I had no control w/ respect to alcohol and drugs (and the facts that I'm a graceless klutz and something of a social imbecile probably played their part too)

11/4/2009 1:31:58 AM

Quote :

"you play your game, I'll play mine"

Quote :

"my ex won't even talk to me...I passed her today and, as usual, she just pretended not to see me she told me that she had no wish to be my friend, but I didn't think she really meant it and it's not like I did anything genuinely terrible to her it hurts like hell...I hate thinking that she's not even willing to say hello to me"

go right ahead

to be honest what livinproof said is likely bullshit

the girl probably hasn't thought twice about you since cutting it off, except for your annoying excursions into her life

respect yourself already, jesus, god knows she won't for you

11/4/2009 1:35:23 AM

is she hot ?

11/4/2009 1:36:03 AM

^^
you're probably pretty fucking right...thanks, man

^
yes indeedy, with big ole titties

11/4/2009 1:37:41 AM

not to mention while you're sweating this shit she's probably been banged at least once

you can't let yourself get roped in by such easy shit

11/4/2009 1:37:56 AM

I could have done without that particular point being brought to my attention

11/4/2009 1:38:56 AM