Str8BacardiL ************ 41754 Posts user info edit post |
Page two says you are. 6/10/2007 10:57:08 AM |
Seotaji All American 34244 Posts user info edit post |
i think most people are assholes, including me.
what you did is nothing worse than what other people are doing to each other.
your wife needs to get a grip. 6/10/2007 11:42:26 AM |
RattlerRyan All American 8660 Posts user info edit post |
I joke with my friends all the time, but for christ's sake I don't tell them I have cancer to get a rise out of them. 6/10/2007 2:32:26 PM |
Wolfpacker06 Suspended 5482 Posts user info edit post |
Not an asshole.
Your wife needs to get a sense of humor about it. I bet she doesn't have brothers.
In fact, I will donate $10 to leukemia research if she has brothers, because if she did then she would understand. 6/10/2007 9:38:16 PM |
hooksaw All American 16500 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "you probably had already cemented your status as an asshole long before this incident took place" |
6/11/2007 12:40:17 AM |
Pred73 Veteran 239 Posts user info edit post |
^^ My wife does have a brother, but he's nothing like me. He's the more sensitive type. Or as I like to call him, a big soggy vagina. But if you still want to spot leukemia reseach the sawbuck, you'd be doing some good. 6/11/2007 10:14:53 PM |
ncsuamyk All American 4806 Posts user info edit post |
so how do you know he's not messing with you this time? 6/11/2007 11:19:05 PM |
Pred73 Veteran 239 Posts user info edit post |
I visited him in the hospital. He's telling the truth. 6/11/2007 11:22:04 PM |
ncsuamyk All American 4806 Posts user info edit post |
i'm sorry that sucks. hopefully he'll recover.. leukemia isn't the death sentence that it used to be. 6/11/2007 11:57:29 PM |
JennMc All American 3989 Posts user info edit post |
Honestly, when people are sick, they really want people to treat them normal and not dwell. I have also been on the receiving side of the joke and speak from experience, he knows that you did not believe him at first and was joking. Honestly, your friend most likely is not dwelling on it, so you should not dwell either.
Take the family dinner at the hospital or gift cards for food. If he has family staying at the hospital with him, it gets expensive quick and you often forget to take care of yourself. 6/12/2007 11:30:25 AM |
synapse play so hard 60939 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "^ Oh, I am an asshole no doubt. I just don't think I was under these circumstances. " |
If you define yourself as an asshole, you probably were being one in this circumstance.
If the guy had joked about having potentially-fatal medical conditions before, then you're not an asshole.
If he hadn't joked about that before, then you're an asshole.]6/12/2007 11:45:53 AM |