so wait, you had some chick you are dating, then you fucked a random chick at a bar and potentially impregnated her, and THEN you fucked your ex?

and you're upset about this?

sounds like a good week to me.

are you going to tell this chick you have little judges running around somewhere other than with your ex?

4/8/2008 4:25:04 PM

sounds like your acting like my ex

whose female


grow some balls
deal with the shit and make a decision

4/8/2008 4:26:27 PM

Quote :

"I told her I slept with someone else once. She asked who it was and I said it was someone I got drunk and went home with. I told her it wouldnt happen again. "

Quote :

"I mean, I don't love her, but if I wanted to keep her around, I think she needed to hear it. She's really good to me and right now I could use someone who is there for me 100 percent. ."

You got drama with the x that spans a while back, thats one thing. But this new chick your dating....not only are you cheating on her but you are lying to her because your being selfish and weak. If you care about the girl youll let her go, dont bring her down with you

[Edited on April 8, 2008 at 4:40 PM. Reason : and bw the x and the random fuck your also screwing with her health and thats fucked up]

4/8/2008 4:35:28 PM

Quote :

"did you tell her about possibly impregnating other girl too? or just that you screwed around with your ex?"

A combination. I told her I had slept with a stranger who I didnt know before that night. I didn't tell her about the possibility of getting her pregnant, or that I've had sex with my ex multiple times since Saturday

Quote :

"sounds like a good week to me. are you going to tell this chick you have little judges running around somewhere other than with your ex?"

This has actually been a very trying week, I wouldnt wish it upon any of you. I wont tell the girl I'm dating about what happened friday night, because the thought of getting a girl pregnant got my ex so upset, I can only imagine what it would do to her.

Quote :

"If you care about the girl youll let her go, dont bring her down with you "

I do really care about her, thats why I'm keeping her. She says it hurts so much because she can't understand how I could hurt her, she says she's never felt as happy as she has been around me. Her previous boyfriend years ago used to beat her, so it took her time to want to be in a relationship, and she feels really safe around me.

[Edited on April 8, 2008 at 8:14 PM. Reason : .]

4/8/2008 8:14:16 PM

Quote :

"Every Woman is a Cheating Whore Oh yes, that’s right. That’s what I said. And I said it because it’s true. All women are cheaters. I don’t mean this to be a provocateur or to prance around in the realm of the hypothetical like some kind of dandy. I mean, flat out, that every woman in the world is a cheater, has cheated, and is probably cheating at this very moment. Getting a woman to cheat on her husband or significant other is not like getting a woman to go to the gym — by heaping shitloads of gifts and attention on her like a spoilt child and then ultimately getting no burn for your earn. Getting a woman to cheat is like getting a duck to eat bread crumbs or a rat to eat rubbish. All you have to do is toss it in front of their face. It’s not a hard conclusion to draw, so let’s just look at the facts. Getting attention from men is a woman’s lifeblood. That’s why women worship men in the form of menial tasks that they’re not very good at — because men control our attention like the gods of old controlled the sun and the crypt. We giveth and we can taketh away. Good attention, bad attention, the worst kind of attention; it doesn’t matter. To a woman, being in a Girls Gone Wild video is just as laudable as serving in a highly respected public office. They stack up eyeballs like empty pie plates at a NOW convention. So let’s compare: a woman’s lust for attention versus a man’s desire to consume or waste things — something very manly indeed. Take throwing a sandwich in the street for example. Do you know what’s better than throwing a sandwich in the street? That’s right, throwing two sandwiches in the street. Now what if that sandwich cost twice as much as the first? What if you had to wait in line again to get it? I would probably still do it and I’m betting that most men would. But what if dealing with two sandwiches cost you your dignity, your job, and your soul? Women, of course, have none of those things — or at least don’t have 2 out of 3. That’s why when we change ’sandwiches’ to ‘men’ and ‘throwing them in the street’ to ‘getting any kind of attention from them’, we can easily draw the conclusion that women would do anything, and would stop at the destruction of nothing, for more of it. Not even guilt will stop women from being the cheating harlots that they are. That’s because women think that cheating requires some kind of expressed willingness or premeditation on their part to actually count. I shit you not, that is exactly what they say. To a woman true cheating requires a planning and malice on par with a bank robbery. If the only evidence of infidelity you can produce is that she got drunk and put herself in a compromising position, you’re up argument creek without a chance in hell. Can you believe that? It means if a woman can somehow convince a co-worker to force himself on her, or to “rape” her, that doesn’t count as cheating. It’s just another horrible thing that’s happened to poor defenseless her in this dog eat dog, man-world of rape happy abusers. That’s obviously a bunch of bullshit, but stand back because it gets worse. Women also don’t count miring themselves in twisted, Dynasty-styled emotional affairs as cheating. For instance, a woman may hang around with as many as five or six of her ex-boyfriends without batting an eye. She may accept niceties from male co-workers or university staff members without ever questioning the motive of a free backrub. That’s a perfectly reasonable thing to be handing out, isn’t it? A free backrub? They’re like porno pamphlets in Vegas. Sometimes I can’t even get to work without getting two or three. Bullshit. Like any virus, women are not content with ruining their own lives. Ultimately, they seek out the lives of decent, honest men and tempt and corrupt them until they appear to be cheaters as well when nothing could be further from the truth. Cheating is like getting pregnant. It’s 100% a woman’s fault 100% of the time."

4/8/2008 8:15:49 PM

I also don't know how the current situation with her is going to be. Tonight was really irritating. She came over and started making dinner and was acting really quiet. I started telling her I'm glad she came over and she started crying. I told her I was sorry but she kept saying things like I don't know how you can do this to someone you care about. I told her it wasnt like that, that it was a one time split second error of judgement. She was basically being really annoying. After dinner she didnt want to stay over as usual, saying she doesnt feel right being in bed with me right now. That is really fucking annoying.

4/8/2008 8:21:16 PM

yea but that is a lie it wasn't a one time split second error of judgment. i'm serious. she probably wouldn't even want to try if she knew it was your EX and that it was MULTIPLE times. you should just break it off for real. even if you don't tell her why. spare her

and how did you expect her to act? really normal and friendly? oh yea, i'm so glad you cheated on me. it makes me feel so good. THANKS

[Edited on April 8, 2008 at 8:25 PM. Reason : ,]

4/8/2008 8:24:44 PM

Here's the thing, she is acting like I did an intentionally malicious act when to her knowledge it was a one time split second error in judgement.

4/8/2008 8:26:05 PM

uhhh yea, i'm sure no one is happy with cheating regardless of the circumstances. split second or not, did you expect her to be happy and act normal about it? obviously someone is going to take cheating personally and feel that they weren't good enough for you or that you were trying to hurt them.

4/8/2008 8:27:52 PM

I dont know. She says she loves me, so that should be able to overpower negatives that may come up. The thing is that going through all this has been trying and she needs to be there to support me, not annoy me.

4/8/2008 8:29:55 PM

OK GODAMMIT

JUST PLZ TO MAKE

***THE JUDGES PERPETUAL TALK ABOUT MY EX GF AND CUMMING INSIDE DRUNK HO'S THREAD***

4/8/2008 8:30:50 PM

Quote :

"I also don't know how the current situation with her is going to be. Tonight was really irritating. She came over and started making dinner and was acting really quiet. I started telling her I'm glad she came over and she started crying. I told her I was sorry but she kept saying things like I don't know how you can do this to someone you care about. I told her it wasnt like that, that it was a one time split second error of judgement. She was basically being really annoying. After dinner she didnt want to stay over as usual, saying she doesnt feel right being in bed with me right now. That is really fucking annoying."

I hope you knock up both your ex and the fling

4/8/2008 8:31:34 PM

Quote :

"I told her I slept with someone else once. She asked who it was and I said it was someone I got drunk and went home with. I told her it wouldnt happen again. She started crying in the middle of the restaurant so we went back to my car where I told her I was sorry. She is really distraught, said she doesnt know if she can trust me, doesn't know who I am. I told her I love her and it just made her cry more. She tried pulling herself together and I dropped her back off at her work."

Quote :

"I mean, I don't love her, but if I wanted to keep her around, I think she needed to hear it. She's really good to me and right now I could use someone who is there for me 100 percent."

You are the most horrible person, PERIOD.

You are dating a chick. Your ex is dating a guy. But you are your ex are fucking each other, cheating on your respective current partners.

Go to hell.

And then you make threads like this: /message_topic.aspx?topic=521638 with posts like this:

Quote :

"I asked God last night to kill the chinese behind the atrocities in beijing "

Quote :

"They are GODLESS people and they deserve to suffer"

Quote :

"Yes [assulting the torch-carriers is the right way to do it] it is [the torch carriers] are pawns in the chinese machine to commit atrocities against God and humanity"

Quote :

"Do you believe in God?"

Quote :

"It has EVERYTHING to do with religion The Godless hordes have no compassion for their fellow man and are willing to kill monks. They have no love for their neighbor and kick them out into the streets to build olympic facilities."

But you

1) Believe in God
2) Believe that cheating on your current partner with someone who is also not single is not an atrocity against God or humanity

?

I say:

1) You don't believe in God
2) You are a GODLESS person and you deserve to suffer
3) You being assaulted by your GF and your ex's BF would be the right way for this to go
4) You have no compassion for your fellow man and are willing to sleep with his woman
5) You have no love for your neighbour
6) I am asking God tonight to kill The Judge behind the atrocities against your GF and your ex's BF

4/8/2008 8:33:51 PM

Dude, I made a mistake and I feel really bad about it. Part of the reason I came clean and was honest with her was because I try my best to be a moral person. I didn't want to hurt her at all, and she says she has never felt so special and safe with someone like she does when she is around me. That shows a lot of compassion. I know I've made mistakes, but I want to do right.

4/8/2008 8:37:09 PM

and that you are impotent until you figure out how to use that puppy responsibly.

4/8/2008 8:37:49 PM

honest with the new girl? uhhhh you weren't honest with her

4/8/2008 8:38:00 PM

Quote :

"Part of the reason I came clean and was honest with her was because I try my best to be a moral person."

Quote :

"I told her I love her "

Quote :

"I mean, I don't love her"

How I wish I knew who she was.

4/8/2008 8:39:30 PM

I wish you people did know her. She has to be 100 percent the sweetest most caring person you would ever meet, she's just a ball of sunshine. Thats why I stay with her. She was in a relationship where she was physically abused, and she went through severe depression for years and didnt want to be close to a man until she met me. Being with me makes her so happy, she said she can't remember the last time she would smile so much and she says I make her feel special.

4/8/2008 8:43:02 PM

yea so its selfish of you to want to stay with someone who has obviously been hurt before and just cause her more pain. LET HER LIVE. and let her find a GOOD guy.

4/8/2008 8:43:50 PM

She's obviously not special enough if you can't keep your dick out of other girls.

I can't decide if these threads are better or worse than Amsterdam718, but they sure are entertaining

4/8/2008 8:44:17 PM

yeah well she obviously doesnt deserve you so let her go































(so i can beat)

4/8/2008 8:44:28 PM

Quote :

"She's obviously not special enough if you can't keep your dick out of other girls."

If you think so much of her, do what is best for HER and let her go.

4/8/2008 8:46:27 PM

Poor girl.

1st, physically abused.

2nd, emotionally/mentally abused.

I hate to think what's lined up for the poor creature next.

You have to be the most horrendous person to date someone so nice like that, then cheat on her, and then LIE to her about your [lack of] love for her.

4/8/2008 8:47:22 PM

ok...decision made...don't screw it up...

4/8/2008 8:47:46 PM

I think that I have made my decision katy, I just need her to be there to support me. I'm thinking about calling her in a bit and telling her she should come over, that it would be better for her to be here with me tonight, for her sake.

and khcadwal, I am a good guy, I just made a mistake. I treat her very well and before she knew she told me she's never felt this kind of happiness before

[Edited on April 8, 2008 at 8:52 PM. Reason : .]

4/8/2008 8:50:46 PM

so let's see...is your right hand your current girlfriend and the left your ex or vice-versa?

4/8/2008 8:50:47 PM

HAHAHAHHAHA JACK OFF JOKE

4/8/2008 9:00:46 PM

Alright, I just talked to her. She said she was sorry and that she agrees she acted a bit dramatic about things. She's coming over in a bit to watch a movie and hang out

4/8/2008 9:11:05 PM

make sure to save all these threads so you can have a play by play account of all the dumb shit you did

i'm sure it will make for good reading when you're all pissed

4/8/2008 9:12:22 PM

poor poor girl

4/8/2008 9:14:41 PM

Quote :

"from the way a lot of these posts are worded, i get the feeling that a lot of the people in here have been the "new boyfriend" or "new girlfriend" that get cheated on with the ex."

ive got a couple of expansions but this still pretty much holds true

4/8/2008 9:17:27 PM

I'm glad I've never felt the need to validate my life by telling TWW that I have consistent sex...sometimes with two women.

4/8/2008 9:18:17 PM

I'm glad I've never felt the need to validate my life by talking shit about other TWW users and how they don't have lives

4/8/2008 9:19:30 PM

haha. how did i miss this. you are fucked black.

let me know when the maury show airs about this

4/8/2008 9:28:01 PM

Alright i need to go pick up a couple bottles of wine and see whats at blockbuster

Wish me luck wolfweb!

4/8/2008 9:28:55 PM

YOU ARE A BAD PERSON. YOU AREN'T, AND NEVER WERE, HONEST WITH YOUR "LITTLE BALL OF SUNSHINE." JUST BECAUSE YOU FEEL BAD DOESN'T MAKE YOU LESS OF A FUCKING DICK BAG.*

*caps indicate sandy vagina

4/8/2008 10:17:02 PM

Most women would rather know the truth about the men they are seeing, no matter how bad it is.

At least have the decency to tell her the truth.

4/8/2008 10:20:00 PM

blah blah blah

sex sex sex

RAWR

4/8/2008 10:22:37 PM

Quote :

"Here's the thing, she is acting like I did an intentionally malicious act when to her knowledge it was a one time split second error in judgement."

here's the thing

YOU DID AN INTENTIONALLY MALICIOUS ACT BY KNOWINGLY FUCKING YOUR EX REPEATEDLY

so shut the fuck up: it's your fault, stop being passive aggressive about it

4/8/2008 10:22:50 PM

no balls. no balls at all. well maybe one ball because you DID tell her you cheated. you just didn't tell her the whole truth.

but one ball does not a man make.

[Edited on April 8, 2008 at 10:25 PM. Reason : .]

4/8/2008 10:23:56 PM

i gotta agree with the girls, here, man.

man up. fully disclose everything.



if at that point she still wants to be in a relationship with you, you better love that girl with everything in your heart until the day she dies, because she truly would be something beyond special.

and if she bolts, well, you did it. forgive yourself, and don't take the next girl for granted.

4/8/2008 10:32:55 PM

fucking make a decision

you need to tell your ex you cant do anything ever again unless ur single and she is to

you need to go see your church leader and pray a little


and you need to give yourself to that girl and not fuck her over if shes so good

4/8/2008 10:33:36 PM

my god its hilarious how so many people are like SCREAMING at this dude. sounds like some of you (ESPECIALLY THE PEOPLE WHO ARE YELLING) could use a little counseling to get some of the repressed anger out.

4/8/2008 10:35:56 PM

yeah some have definitely been burned before...

4/8/2008 10:39:05 PM

Quote :

"(so i can beat) "

4/8/2008 10:40:52 PM

yes and the emotions that they feel are very real and very normal

what's not normal is getting all mad and flipping out at some kid on the internet over some story he's telling. haha

4/8/2008 10:41:12 PM

^yea, i can see that but i think its due to the fact of what hes saying and whats going on and the whole experience of relationships


people are fired up because they have issues with it

i know that id try and say, idk what i want but im not going to play this game

and id basically have an ultimatum. and when my ex who i would rather be with wont come. then forget that, leave a back door open for the future. but im going to stay with the new girl whose AMAZING. not stress out, just be happy. shit

4/8/2008 10:42:04 PM

Quote :

"jackleg vitriolic façade 162639 Posts user info edit post HAHAHAHHAHA JACK OFF JOKE"

QUIT YELLING, JACKLEG

YOU DON'T NEED TO BE SO ANGRY

[Edited on April 8, 2008 at 10:44 PM. Reason : ]

4/8/2008 10:43:56 PM

Quote :

"but one ball does not a man make."

exactly, hitler only had one ball.

4/8/2008 10:45:45 PM

Do the right thing.

Give me the Jew.

4/8/2008 10:46:59 PM