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5/12/2008 5:53:19 PM

girl 1 is right in my opinion....tell girl 2 that shes being retarded

5/12/2008 5:54:04 PM

Your problem seems to be that you and everyone you associate with have issues.

More importantly though, Walls1441 is quickly becoming my new favorite poster:

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"lets drop this girl 1 girl 2 bs and start referring to them as their phone numbers."

[Edited on May 12, 2008 at 6:05 PM. Reason : .]

5/12/2008 6:04:47 PM

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""Girl 1 starts to date a guy, and he comes over about every other day and spends the night on the weekend"

I'm extrapolating based on past dating activity and current circumstances. He was over here every day of last week, buy luckily girl 2 was at the beach. He spent the evening/night here sat and just the evening on sunday -- that was when she was home and realized she what the circumstances might become.

5/12/2008 6:07:35 PM

eh - i've been girl 2 before (in that i paid rent to a friend who owned the house and during the time she got a serious boyfriend who spent the night fairly often) and i do have to say, that it can be tiring to have guests at the house all the time (even though you may not necessarily view him as a guest she does).

that said, she should get over it (but there are ways you can help)
1) she should get a tv for her own room. tv's are cheap, and even cheaper if you get a used one off of criagslist
2) so she has turned you down a couple of times for going out together, thats cool. what about hanging out at the house together? if you guys (as in you guys the couple) cook a big dinner, invite her to eat with you guys. rent a movie? ask her to join you. the big thing is that she does need to get comfortable around him, but she's kinda being a bitch about it.
3) be mindful if you guys do seem to be totally monopolizing the common areas. i do agree that with it being your place and you paying a higher percentage of the bills, you deserve more time in them, but i would think its more of like a 65/35 split.

if she really does not like it, she'll move out. and be accomodating about the lease terms if she does decide that she wants to move

5/12/2008 6:19:15 PM

^ can i be guy 2?

5/12/2008 6:26:01 PM

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"be mindful if you guys do seem to be totally monopolizing the common areas. i do agree that with it being your place and you paying a higher percentage of the bills, you deserve more time in them, but i would think its more of like a 65/35 split."

Unless you're fucking or constantly making out in the living room, you're not monopolizing it. If she can't deal with two people spooning on the couch while all three watch TV, that's her problem...or maybe she has a crush on your boyfriend and can't stand to see it.

5/12/2008 6:26:01 PM

or they are watching something that she doesnt particularily want to watch? (thus why she should just get a tv for her room).

eh - when i was in that kind of living situation, i felt that my rent entitled me to my bedroom and bathroom. use of the kitchen on a first come first serve basis, and use of the tv in the common room when no one else was using it. when my roommate came in, i usually let her use it unless i had guests over. but that was the mindset that i had when i entered into the living arrangement, this does not seem like the case here

^^ummmm...sure?

[Edited on May 12, 2008 at 6:34 PM. Reason : .]

5/12/2008 6:33:16 PM

she has a tv in her room but no cable jack... I did offer to run a cable line from my bedroom to hers tho, and she can watch tv and tivo on my other tv, though that's less desirable since it's near the cat litter and kind of smelly. I feel that I've been very generous because I let her use my tv and computer (which is hooked to the tv) and laptop (because her laptop keeps flaking out).
Anyhow, he's been over twice when she's been here, and both times were in the evening after she'd been here all day. Hopefully things will work out ok, I'm just worried because she seemed to dislike the idea of my guy being over every other day. But then, she has been kind of stressed lately because of family issues, so maybe she was taking it out on me because it was one thing she felt she could control.

5/12/2008 11:46:23 PM

It depends...Is the boyfriend a child-man?

5/13/2008 12:40:28 AM

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"she's looking... right now the guy she's talking to is in va "

[fail]

post pics

5/13/2008 1:53:58 AM