haha i like how the picture added kind of a nostalgia... I really have a better perspective on this now.

6/17/2008 10:13:27 AM

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"tell her to stop or you're gonna dump her ass then just be happy you were hitting it for a while because in the end you did what you really wanted to do anyway, have sex with her "

6/17/2008 10:14:21 AM

gf and i share a plan anyway...she's welcome to sort through my texts, pics, calls, whatever

*shrug*

6/17/2008 10:14:31 AM

^ that's the point. she is welcome to search his shit but he can't search hers. hence the double standard

6/17/2008 10:16:22 AM

oh...i kind of envisioned it where she asked, he said okay, and then he asked and she said no

i don't know, to me, that's different...granted, i'd be instantly suspicious if the gf didn't want me up in her phone, but then, i have no reason to be up in her phone in the first place

i get it, though, the double standard is teh sucky

6/17/2008 10:17:57 AM

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"So it's ok for the girl to look through your ims, missed calls, texts while you're not around, but when you want to check what time you texted her for some reason right in front of her it's a privacy issue and grounds to overreact?"

yes this the logic of 99.9% of females

6/17/2008 10:18:34 AM

but seriously. dump her.

6/17/2008 10:19:57 AM

only read the first post

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT...at least I am not.

FAIR IS FAIR! She is hiding something!! IMO, people should be open books...even when they have dirty laundry to air.

6/17/2008 10:23:49 AM

okay, a lot of us here could be blowing smoke up your ass or could be giving you equally as bad advice based on our own twisted perspectives based on what has happened to us in the past (read: experience) but i would really listen to sarijoul. if you were to go through his posts you'd find that he isn't the type of person who would say it just to say it or often times speaks bitterly from past mishaps.

6/17/2008 10:23:53 AM

You cheated? When I specifically asked you not to?

6/17/2008 10:24:20 AM

this thread wins just by having Built To Spill make an appearance

6/17/2008 10:27:12 AM

like I said, the apathy is on thick about what most of you are suggesting, to the point where it doesn't bother me a bit until I find some physical evidence of something skeevy going on.





I have not yet begun to defile myself.

6/17/2008 10:28:55 AM

no it's not ok

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"haha one time i got on my exroomies laptop and went through his aim logs of his gf....there were like 4 times while they were together she'd im other dudes and be like "hey you want to come over? i'm horny...""

one can only wonder what your reasoning was for looking at his laptop in the first place...what the hell is wrong with you?

[Edited on June 17, 2008 at 10:31 AM. Reason : ]

6/17/2008 10:31:05 AM

Why anyone would continue dating someone who obviously doesn't trust them is beyond me. Perhaps you're a glutton for drama?

6/17/2008 10:31:18 AM

actually, in light of the nba finals tonight this is probably more appropriate

let's vent!!!!

6/17/2008 10:31:26 AM

hey ratna, where do you stand on this one?

6/17/2008 11:37:27 AM

haha @ daalians office pic!

seriously, she sounds as if she has something to hide. just take a deep breath and pull the trigger.

6/17/2008 12:17:17 PM

you should drop her

6/17/2008 12:30:26 PM

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"So it's ok for the girl to look through your ims, missed calls, texts while you're not around"

No, it's not. If she's going through all your shit, SHE's probably the one who's got something to hide... BTW, it's worth noting that I am female.

6/17/2008 1:15:08 PM

the bitch has something to hide

i've seen it happen 100x, and to me plenty of times.. if she's going through your shit she's paranoid and if she's not letting you go through her shit then she's got something to hide

guess what that adds up to kids

6/17/2008 1:16:38 PM