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"That was the reason for my 427th trip to the guidance counselor, who, for the record, was a cunt."

haha, post of the day.

7/7/2008 11:25:29 AM

blame Paul Cousins

7/7/2008 11:26:13 AM

i don't do drama.

it would take a LOT for me to hold a grudge for any significant length of time, but i am female so it does happen on occasion (although not so much in the last several years).

if something bothers me, i confront/talk about it immediately. i hate hanging on and letting something eat me alive. i don't stir in it.

girls are overly dramatic idiots

7/7/2008 11:27:00 AM

Quote :

"I'm pretty good at holding grudges. There was this bully who used to give me a hard time in the fourth grade. Three years later, I found out he died of a heart attack. Everyone was looking so sad and I said, "What? That kid was an asshole.""

awesome

[Edited on July 7, 2008 at 11:28 AM. Reason : 

7/7/2008 11:28:01 AM

i only hold grudges on people i already don't like or people that i once liked and fucked me over for no apparent reason....

and it's not really a grudge....i just write them out of my life...


you could sit beside me all day everyday and i could make you feel like you're not there....


as for guilt tripping...i've tried that but it doesn't work...

7/7/2008 11:48:40 AM

forgive and forget. or at least try to.

7/7/2008 11:56:28 AM

all the time, and they deserve it

7/7/2008 1:36:27 PM

Quote :

"I guilt trip women into sleeping with me"

zap brannigan?

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"sometimes i want to hold a grudge, but invariably, I end up forgetting what it was that i was holding a grudge about."

same here. what were we talking about again?

7/7/2008 1:38:47 PM

back to my original post. date a girl for 5 months. she tells you on sunday she might have been in love with you and wants you to come visit. You know she is busy with her work and give her a few days (ie thursday) and call her back. During that conversation she says she regrets ever saying any of that stuff. So you bascially tell her you aren't friends then. turns into big drama and she says she doesnt want to talk for the rest of the summer, so I am like okay but I might end up hating you. She tells me thats not what she wants but she will take that chance. Then 3 weeks later you haven't contacted her once. She can't call you, text you, aim you, or facebook you....then you are at the same party as her (you are playing beer pong with a cute girl, so she calls her friend over to "warn" her about me) then you are at the bar and talk to some cute girl and she tells the girl you are "crazy", then you dont say another damn word because she won't speak to you finally at the end of the night she apologizes only to turn it back around as if you are crazy and to leave her alone. Now we are at saturday and at the bar. Havent said a word all day...comes up and asks can we talk for a second while im playing pool with 4 girls. Finally go outside and talk to her and it has nothing to do with anything and so I switch it around and ask her if I can ask her something. She says leave me alone youve hurt me enough. End the night by her dancing up on your friend, almost kissing him, sleeping in the same bed as her best friend and him in it...says nothing was meant by it even though I am passed out on the couch. havent talked since then 3 days. Grudge/guilt trip/or girl hates me out of the blue? Im leaning on you TWW for advice.

7/7/2008 7:35:48 PM

wordswordswordswords

7/7/2008 7:36:45 PM

wordwordswordswords

and if you never speak to them again is that different than holding a grudge?

i still like my way of dealing with things: TRADES.

7/7/2008 11:02:38 PM

sorry thought that the wolf web would come to my broken heart aid!

7/9/2008 5:07:44 PM

both

but i try not to hold grudges so much

(PS FUCK my ex.)

7/9/2008 6:36:00 PM

it depends really. I try very, very hard not to hold grudges (and if I realize I am, I feel guilty about it for a good long time til I quit being so petty). Best thing to do is confront whomever and try to fix things.

But if it is a serious incident or something, then yea I will. And I mean serious like a best friend betraying me or pulling something like this:
my best friend of over 15 years tried to sleep with my brother right in front of me- she was like a sister to me, and to this day will deny it ever happened. mind you I saw her climb on top of him at a party- blegh. but i hold a grudge for her not owning up to it, and lying for the past 3 years about it. apologies go a long way....

as far as guilt trips go, I try not to but I'm sure it happens now and then. (specifically to Atlas- which makes me feel horrible bc thats the last thing I'd want to do to him.

7/9/2008 7:12:35 PM

GrumpyGOP

a 7th grader had a heart attack?

7/9/2008 7:24:55 PM