dooce

8/13/2008 10:52:31 AM

what is her tdub name

8/13/2008 10:52:35 AM

If you wanna be happy
For the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall.
As soon as he marries her
Then she starts to do
The things that will break his heart.
But if you make an ugly woman your wife,
You'll be happy for the rest of your life,
An ugly woman cooks her meals on time,
She'll always give you peace of mind.

Don't let your friends say
You have no taste,
Go ahead and marry anyway,
Though her face is ugly,
Her eyes don't match,
Take it from me she's a better catch.

8/13/2008 10:53:03 AM

^^message_topic.aspx?topic=537404

8/13/2008 10:53:18 AM

,

them

8/13/2008 10:54:38 AM

i think it's time for me to quit TWW again. i really gotta get my shit together

8/13/2008 10:55:43 AM

You probably dated the wrong girls.

[Edited on August 13, 2008 at 10:56 AM. Reason : to the leg]

8/13/2008 10:56:12 AM

naw

quitting is never the answer

8/13/2008 10:56:21 AM

but who will I send my daily cleavage pic to?

8/13/2008 10:56:22 AM

come on now djeternal.

you dont have to go doing all that.


lets talk things out here

8/13/2008 10:56:36 AM

i probably should have never even came back to he honest. but i was really hurt, and had a hard time getting over it. looking back, this wasn't the right way to get over it.

8/13/2008 10:58:53 AM

I'm glad my ex with whom I had a really awful break up, my personal worst, wasn't on TWW. That would have been entertaining.

There were no anal beads, so perhaps not as entertaining.

8/13/2008 10:59:47 AM

no anal beads with this one either, nor did I ever say there were

8/13/2008 11:01:15 AM

are yall getting back together or something

this sounds like a "hey ill appease her with my posts while she reads it and sees that i'll stop posting on here again if i can have her back"

8/13/2008 11:03:23 AM

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"You probably dated the wrong girls. [Edited on August 13, 2008 at 10:56 AM. Reason : to the leg]"

nah its not about which girls i've dated. ive dated right and wrong. been the good guy, been the bad guy. its more about the way i used to react to news i didnt want to hear. these days my attitude is... "you don't give a fuck, so why should i give a fuck?" instead of holding a grudge or getting mad if someone cheated on me or lied to me or blah blah. it just seems totally pointless to have the attitude "omg i wasted x amount of time with you" because all you're doing is wasting even more time dwelling on it.

8/13/2008 11:04:04 AM

tdub is destructive

8/13/2008 11:04:07 AM

i mean relationships are usually dead anyway before someone cheats

its just easier to have a good reason like, "i fucked your buddy mike or lisa"

than "its not you its me, no you cant change and you shouldnt, blah blah blah, please stop crying, no i wont go to couples counseling with you, stop begging for another chance, this is pathetic........................................................................................................................
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[Edited on August 13, 2008 at 11:07 AM. Reason : f]

8/13/2008 11:04:35 AM

nope, no chance of getting back together. neither of us would EVER want to be back together.

8/13/2008 11:04:36 AM

Quote :

"this sounds like a "hey ill appease her with my posts while she reads it and sees that i'll stop posting on here again if i can have her back""

Pussy's a hell-uva drug.

8/13/2008 11:05:20 AM

pussy has nothing to do with it. i have no problems getting pussy

8/13/2008 11:06:18 AM

Quote :

""this sounds like a "hey ill appease her with my posts while she reads it and sees that i'll stop posting on here again if i can have her back"""

hahah thats just retarded... i couldnt see a girl seriously saying to a guy, "you have to make a choice. either you choose me, or you choose that internet site you always read, with the wolf"

8/13/2008 11:08:29 AM

Yes, we know, you make that abundantly clear.

Maybe she cheated because of your huge ego?

[Edited on August 13, 2008 at 11:09 AM. Reason : ^^]

8/13/2008 11:09:17 AM

hey chance hows your love life?

8/13/2008 11:09:45 AM

djeternal gets my seal of approval

8/13/2008 11:10:00 AM

^^^ yeah, that was probably it

[Edited on August 13, 2008 at 11:10 AM. Reason : a]

8/13/2008 11:10:17 AM

How do you think it is?

8/13/2008 11:10:34 AM

Quote :

"I think djeternal may be bitter about his ex "

I think Mr Grace pays an unhealthy amount of attention to other peoples' personal lives

8/13/2008 11:10:44 AM

Quote :

"hahah thats just retarded... i couldnt see a girl seriously saying to a guy, "you have to make a choice. either you choose me, or you choose that internet site you always read, with the wolf" "

dude

he already did it once.

8/13/2008 11:11:31 AM

Quote :

"I think Mr Grace pays an unhealthy amount of attention to other peoples' personal lives"

nah, that's not it. i was a dumbass for putting my personal shit on here for everyone to read. i should have learned after the first time. but like i said, i was hurt

8/13/2008 11:11:47 AM

It's hard to miss the bitterness when hes made it a point near daily when he posts.

8/13/2008 11:11:52 AM

^ truth

8/13/2008 11:12:34 AM

hey chance hows your love life?

8/13/2008 11:13:13 AM

Yeah I guess but I don't pay close enough attention or care enough to troll him or ponder the situation

8/13/2008 11:13:27 AM

bitter rage is the best fuel for

8/13/2008 11:14:05 AM

BUT NOW THAT I'M EMBROILED

when it boils down to it, you really can't get bent out of shape on account of other peoples' behavior. You only have control over yourself, after all.

Not to say you shouldn't move on from things and sever relationships at times, but getting your ass in the air about it is counterproductive. Just chalk it up to people acting like people and move along. People do what they feel they have to, and it doesn't always benefit you personally. No reason adding insult to injury by poisoning yourself with negative emotions.

sup

8/13/2008 11:15:03 AM

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"pussy has nothing to do with it. i have no problems getting pussy"

Uh, it was a joke, implying that in absence you do crazy shit. Absence can be that one you really really want. Everyone knows there some that you just can't live without no matter how much you get elsewhere.

That's why people keep getting back together with crazy bitches.

8/13/2008 11:15:47 AM

well what happens is that i rarely post on here anymore


so when i see someone posting about a slut cheating with a guy from myspace 5-6 times in a row, i

draw conclusions.

8/13/2008 11:15:47 AM

Quote :

"Yeah I guess but I don't pay close enough attention or care enough to troll him or ponder the situation"

That's kinda the point. I'm not paying attention either, but when I scroll the page and read posts, you can pick the djeternals posts out when its talking about "women cheating" or the similar.

It's been kinda painful the past week or so in some of these threads. It's like coming across a wounded animal in the woods or something.

8/13/2008 11:17:03 AM

myspace, the black pit of the internet...
















































well part of it, with 4chan...

8/13/2008 11:17:52 AM

Quote :

"jackleg one in a million 165436 Posts user info edit post block user hey chance hows your love life?"

I answered this already

Quote :

"How do you think it is?"

8/13/2008 11:17:54 AM

dropping that soap huh?

8/13/2008 11:18:22 AM

Quote :

" That's kinda the point. I'm not paying attention either, but when I scroll the page and read posts, you can pick the djeternals posts out when its talking about "women cheating" or the similar. It's been kinda painful the past week or so in some of these threads. It's like coming across a wounded animal in the woods or something."

Getting cheated on fucking sucks, and homeboy should do whatever the fuck makes him feel better, even if that's bleeding onto TWW.

8/13/2008 11:19:26 AM

I'm not sure anyone is saying otherwise. It's just a thread man.

Personally, I'd be the lesser man about it and drag her name through the mud.

8/13/2008 11:20:49 AM

i got a couple friends that kill a nigga for fitty bucks

8/13/2008 11:22:01 AM

WARNING: BLOG COMING.




I guess that posting here after it all went down helped me deal with it in a way. I mean, I spent over 3 years with 1 woman, and coming here to tell the story made me feel better about myself in a way. At first, it was the fact that I wanted everyone to say "God what a bitch, you can do so much better, you are better off" yada yada yada. And that happened, and it didn't help all that much. Especially because I am at a really low point in my life right now in general. I lost my job and my engine blew up in my car on the same day. I am broke. It just makes everything hard to deal with, and I guess it is just easier to blame it all on her in some way.

Honestly I really wanted to hurt her like she hurt me. I didn't want her to move on and be happy after what she did to me. I wanted her to suffer. I wanted HER to be alone like I am. I wanted HER to sit at home every night wondering what went wrong and when. But that didn't happen. She is over it. There is nothing I can do on here or any other place that will hurt her, nor should I even want to hurt her anymore. I am better than this, and I need to be over it.

The truth is we had a lot of problems, mostly starting when we moved in together. I started drinking A LOT, and so did she. She was never a big drinker, so I can only assume she drank because I was drunk all the time. We argued pretty much daily. I had anger management issues, and I was abusive. She was abusive in her own ways as well. None of this excuses what she did, but she had plenty of opportunities to leave me (especially when our lease was up in March) and didn't. IN FACT, we moved into a house together. So yeah, things weren't perfect by any means, but obviously we both were interested in making it work if we moved into a house together. If she was unhappy enough to cheat or feel threatened, she had the opportunity for a clean break rather than moving into another place with me. (she was already talking to the guy on MySpace before we moved)

All that being said, this low in my life is not her fault. I should have been over it months ago. I should not have come here crying about it to get some sort of satisfaction. So this is the last I will say about it, and I am going to focus on bettering myself. I quit drinking the day she left, so that is a positive. I start a new job on Monday. Should be getting my car back Friday. Things will be tough financially for a couple months, but it will get better. I just need to get back to the person I was before I ever met her. And I will get there.

[Edited on August 13, 2008 at 11:33 AM. Reason : a]

8/13/2008 11:27:58 AM

well now im the asshole


thanks a lot buddy.

8/13/2008 11:31:03 AM

Yeah, but we already knew that.

8/13/2008 11:33:34 AM

does djeternal play an instrument? music is always a good avenue for stress release.
i got a keyboard with reason 4, guitars and basses, and a huge set of speakers. let's make some noise and call it 'bitches be crazy' and put this puppy to bed.

8/13/2008 11:33:49 AM

dude...this is chit chat

you don't owe anybody any explanation for anything in chit chat

8/13/2008 11:33:51 AM

set'em up

8/13/2008 11:34:45 AM