Jen All American 10527 Posts user info edit post |
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A Tanzarian drip drip boom 10994 Posts user info edit post |
Holy shit dude.
It's time to move on--this girl is no good for you. 5/11/2010 8:47:49 PM |
simonn best gottfriend 28968 Posts user info edit post |
i wouldn't mind more pics, though. 5/11/2010 9:52:54 PM |
rwoody Save TWW 37515 Posts user info edit post |
why in the world would you give an expenses paid trip to a girl w/out a guarantee of fucking?????
chump move 5/11/2010 9:54:41 PM |
Optimum All American 13716 Posts user info edit post |
Lots of motherfuckers on high horses ITT. If you haven't been hurt by someone you care about, then you're not alive. There's no need to be nasty to him.
You learn by doing, and you're a good person for trying to be a gentleman about the whole thing. I commend you for putting your feelings into actions, and I'm sorry that it didn't turn out like you hoped. But there'll be someone else for you soon enough. Laugh, smile and live life in the mean time. 5/11/2010 9:58:41 PM |
rwoody Save TWW 37515 Posts user info edit post |
whatever man, he got played for a free cruise
even he had gotten laid and/or a relationship out of it, he would spend forever wondering if she liked him or if she just liked his $$ 5/11/2010 10:01:55 PM |
Optimum All American 13716 Posts user info edit post |
And you wanna make a point of rubbing his face in it. Who's the asshole, asshole? 5/11/2010 10:02:33 PM |
rwoody Save TWW 37515 Posts user info edit post |
i never tried to say i wasnt an asshole or that he was, i said he was a chump
i am far from a ladies man, but even little kids know you dont buy love, i mean is there any statement more cliche than that?
[Edited on May 11, 2010 at 10:04 PM. Reason : he is the one who decided to expose his woes on chit chat, what does he expect?] 5/11/2010 10:04:13 PM |
NutGrass All American 3695 Posts user info edit post |
i think it would have been cheaper to ask her before the cruise if she wanted to take the relationship any further than friends... 5/11/2010 10:07:00 PM |
JeffreyBSG All American 10165 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Lots of motherfuckers on high horses ITT. If you haven't been hurt by someone you care about, then you're not alive. There's no need to be nasty to him." |
QFT.
seriously though, Pikey, the only way to acquire confidence is to do the very things that you're incredibly scared of doing...just banish all thoughts and take the plunge
it's amazing how quickly it goes from terrifying to easy
also, TRY not to be in love with this girl, if you can possibly help it...there are many, many women in the world, and lots of them are as awesome, or more so, than her...it might work out, but it might not, and if it doesn't, be prepared to move on. it ain't the end of the world, and you'll have learned a lot.]5/11/2010 10:07:22 PM |
simonn best gottfriend 28968 Posts user info edit post |
^ hold on i've read that before! brb. 5/11/2010 10:15:10 PM |
goalielax All American 11252 Posts user info edit post |
dude, just call her or go to her and tell her. this shit happened to me last winter. i was hanging out with a girl, doing things together multiple times a week. i just had to push whatever fear of "losing a friend" or whatever other BS was running thru my head and tell her how I felt. i mean i was crazy about this girl, and i got crushed when she said she didn't feel that way. but i feel better today having done that than spent the last 5 months hoping and wondering if tomorrow would be the day "we" finally happened.
sack up and do it tomorrow. just get it over with. you'll either be happy tomorrow night or happy in a couple months when you've put her in the rearview
[Edited on May 11, 2010 at 10:29 PM. Reason : /] 5/11/2010 10:27:53 PM |
simonn best gottfriend 28968 Posts user info edit post |
yes, found it
Quote : | "Several years ago, I conquered my fear of women by walking up to random females on campus and conversing with them. During this period of my existence, I became acquainted with the "imaginary boyfriend."
I would walk up to the girl, converse with her for a minute or two, and then say, "Well, you seem pretty cool. Could I give you a call sometime?" And more often than not, she would reply, "Umm, I have a boyfriend."
However, when I got home and looked the lady up on Facebook (in true stalkeresque fashion), her profile usually revealed her to be "Single," and "Interested in a Relationship."
From this I could only conclude that she had an imaginary boyfriend, who could not talk to her, take her out to dinner, or have sex with her, but whose companionship she still valued very much, for some reason or other." |
bold mine, italics gaither's.5/11/2010 10:31:39 PM |
terpball All American 22489 Posts user info edit post |
DUDE YOU'RE PUTTING THE PUSSY ON A PEDESTAL. 5/11/2010 10:38:39 PM |
JeffreyBSG All American 10165 Posts user info edit post |
^^ awesome, man! I was honestly just thinking about that column like a month ago (specifically, how I ran into Will Quick at a bar and he was offended that I had called the entire NCSU student government "imaginary")...I forgot the "Imaginary girlfriend" bit, though. That's so fucking cool, man, it's really, really nice that you remembered that. ] 5/11/2010 10:44:30 PM |
JeffreyBSG All American 10165 Posts user info edit post |
whoops, double post
[Edited on May 11, 2010 at 10:45 PM. Reason : /] 5/11/2010 10:45:27 PM |
vinylbandit All American 48079 Posts user info edit post |
5/12/2010 3:22:25 AM |
jwb9984 All American 14039 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Lots of motherfuckers on high horses ITT. If you haven't been hurt by someone you care about, then you're not alive. There's no need to be nasty to him.
You learn by doing, and you're a good person for trying to be a gentleman about the whole thing. I commend you for putting your feelings into actions, and I'm sorry that it didn't turn out like you hoped. But there'll be someone else for you soon enough. Laugh, smile and live life in the mean time. " |
truth5/12/2010 9:21:59 AM |
billytalent Suspended 12909 Posts user info edit post |
i love this thread 5/12/2010 9:23:18 AM |
FroshKiller All American 51908 Posts user info edit post |
GIRL YOU KNOW IT'S TRUE
OOH, OOH, OOH
I LOVE YOU 5/12/2010 9:23:57 AM |
aimorris All American 15213 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "i wouldn't mind more pics, though." |
5/12/2010 9:39:22 AM |
pilgrimshoes Suspended 63151 Posts user info edit post |
[Edited on May 12, 2010 at 9:41 AM. Reason : ook no it's not]
5/12/2010 9:40:55 AM |
NyM410 J-E-T-S 50084 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Lots of motherfuckers on high horses ITT. If you haven't been hurt by someone you care about, then you're not alive." |
That is what I said and I was promptly called a 9th-grader by someone.
My whole point was that it isn't simply a lack of confidence. This situation is NOT akin to walking up to a girl you find attractive and talk to her or ask her out. The inability to do THAT would show a lack of confidence. It's a totally different story when you have a deep history with the person and obviously very deep emotions with her (I mean he said love not me).
For what it's worth, though, I wouldn't spend that much $$$ on a girl who I wasn't in a serious relationship with.
[Edited on May 12, 2010 at 9:48 AM. Reason : but this is the internet and everyone is don juan and a tough guy]5/12/2010 9:46:43 AM |
pilgrimshoes Suspended 63151 Posts user info edit post |
it's a bad precedent to set 5/12/2010 9:48:06 AM |
marko Tom Joad 72823 Posts user info edit post |
5/12/2010 9:48:11 AM |
NyM410 J-E-T-S 50084 Posts user info edit post |
^^ for real. What is going to happen for her Birthday or V-Day? A Porsche? 5/12/2010 9:48:52 AM |
Stimwalt All American 15292 Posts user info edit post |
It's not that hard to be direct with someone. Try it sometime. 5/12/2010 9:58:41 AM |
aaronburro Sup, B 52877 Posts user info edit post |
bttt 6/3/2010 12:19:47 AM |
gunzz IS NÚMERO UNO 68205 Posts user info edit post |
there is so much awesome in this thread 6/3/2010 12:31:32 AM |
vinylbandit All American 48079 Posts user info edit post |
This one-hip-higher stance drives me nuts. Love it.
6/3/2010 3:43:39 AM |
prb185 All American 1589 Posts user info edit post |
god knows i've been where you are, dude. good luck to you. 6/3/2010 3:43:43 AM |
OopsPowSrprs All American 8383 Posts user info edit post |
I would have beat my dick raw on that ship if I was in that situation. 6/3/2010 9:54:40 AM |