GrumpyGOP yovo yovo bonsoir 18191 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "I didn't even think of the "defeatist" side of this until people posted about it. " |
I don't think his characterizing it as "defeatist" was fair.
In my case, yes, if I pursued it aggressively enough sooner or later I could probably convince a woman within my attractiveness range to sleep with me. But that's likely to take a while, and it's almost certain to involve a high degree of stress, disappointment, confusion, and probably a lot of money leaving my wallet. I really don't like any of those things. On balance, I'd prefer to not be driven to go through them, at least not until I'm at a place in my life where outside factors (having money, a job with some social status) mitigates those negative aspects to a high degree.3/22/2011 2:37:01 PM |