i had to google it

8/18/2011 10:46:06 AM

oh wow...the wikipedia article is interesting.

8/18/2011 10:52:42 AM

confess to me

8/18/2011 10:56:08 AM

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"oh wow...the wikipedia article is interesting"

'tis.

I still don't know what a CD is in reference to it though.

8/18/2011 11:03:17 AM

send me some confessions yo

8/18/2011 11:09:03 AM

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"might be pregnant "

8/19/2011 8:53:37 AM

^^^ Cross Dresser

8/19/2011 9:00:10 AM

confess to me on my day off peoples.

8/19/2011 12:20:12 PM

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"Should I get a vasectomy? I am 29, 2 kids, tired of BC, etc. The $ would be covered until October when my insurance deductible resets. Pros: no more condoms, pills for her, etc. Happily married. Don't want any more kids. Cons: expensive to reverse, getting junk cut open Help me decide, TWW. "

I say go for it.

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"follow up to the guy looking into the vasectomy: there's obviously a small rate of there being a complication with the procedure, which I wouldn't bring up if I didn't actually KNOW the person and seen how it has affected his jobs (he's been to several specialists, can't sit in an area for too long at a time, gets disability treatments at work until the bosses just pin that he has "poor performance" and toss him). Even still knowing someone that had complications and gone through all of that still hasn't stopped me from going down that path."

[Edited on August 19, 2011 at 2:17 PM. Reason : .]

8/19/2011 2:06:13 PM

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"so i think it's funny that someone posted the confession last week that said it would be funny if GoldenGirl was premium so she could see all the shit that was talked about her in the chatterbox and she went on and on about how she didn't care.....but i guess it got to the best of her because she became premie today. her quote was: "that's cool TWW opinions are the last opinions on earth that I actually care about. Its funny that people waste their time on me even in a bad way ahha.""

8/19/2011 3:47:45 PM

yep

[Edited on August 19, 2011 at 4:10 PM. Reason : meaning I'll take a confession]

8/19/2011 3:52:20 PM

Too bad, so sad, not premie.

Oh N00bs

8/19/2011 3:53:42 PM

my first welcome thread was a fail

8/19/2011 4:11:04 PM

I thought only premies could change their status thing

8/19/2011 5:03:15 PM

There is always a higher power

8/19/2011 5:04:33 PM

i want my gnarly gnarlington back

8/19/2011 5:08:31 PM

Why have a vasectomy? Have your wife get an IUD. It's just as effective, it's easy, it starts working right away (unlike the snip), it's reversible and renewable at the end of the life of the IUD, it's not surgery, and has the bonus of reducing or eliminating her periods. And heaven forbid, but something could happen to your wife and/or children and you'd wish that you hadn't opted for surgical sterilization. I put that forth because I can think of two different people that I know who ended up wanting more children down the road because of changes in circumstance (one being the very tragic death of a child).

8/19/2011 5:37:15 PM

I wish more people would embrace IUDs. They're fucking awesome.

8/19/2011 5:41:11 PM

i don't trust my wife's IUD. i don't see how you can claim it's more effective than a vasectomy.

8/19/2011 5:48:52 PM

I'm getting my second IUD a week from Monday.

I'm 29 with two kids and I definitely do not want to get pregnant again. Even so, the IUD won out over surgical sterilization for either of us. I even talked to my doctor extensively about having my tubes tied or the Essure procedure and the IUD trumped them both.

^You do realize that a vasectomy isn't immediately effective and there is a failure rate, right?

The failure rate for a vasectomy is nearly 1 percent and it's .2 percent for the hormonal IUD.

[Edited on August 19, 2011 at 5:56 PM. Reason : ]

8/19/2011 5:52:30 PM

^Why is that? Just what you said above? Or...? I just always thought tube tying was the way to go?

[Edited on August 19, 2011 at 5:54 PM. Reason : ]

8/19/2011 5:53:36 PM

I've had my IUD 5 years, and I'd be getting another but I've found studies that say there are some negative effects in women who have what I have, and I've been experiencing those effects. Didn't know it was from the IUD though, and that makes me a sad panda.

8/19/2011 5:55:23 PM

She didn't say it was more effective. She said AS effective, which (depending where you get your numbers) it is, or within a very close margin.

8/19/2011 5:56:09 PM

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"^You do realize that a vasectomy isn't immediately effective and there is a failure rate, right? The failure rate for a vasectomy is nearly 1 percent and it's .2 percent for the hormonal IUD. "

as long as you wait like they tell you to, go back and make sure you're shooting blanks, and she doesn't fuck someone else, the failure rate is pretty much 0.

i don't like my chances even at .2%

[Edited on August 19, 2011 at 6:01 PM. Reason : can't count someone not waiting as a failure imo]

8/19/2011 5:59:19 PM

Tubal ligation actually has a higher failure rate than the hormonal IUD. (I know someone who got pregnant after having her tubes tied.) It can also put you at risk for etopic pregnancy. AND it doesn't stop your period.

The failure rate is not 0. In the long term, you can have recanalization where basically the things they snipped grow back. The recanalization rate is .4 percent.

[Edited on August 19, 2011 at 6:02 PM. Reason : .]

8/19/2011 5:59:54 PM

don't get me wrong, the IUD is great. i love that she's never on the rag anymore. only bad thing i have to say about it is that it can cause some discomfort during sex if i bottom out in her.

8/19/2011 6:09:36 PM

Just from the strings? You must have the most sensitive dick ever.

8/19/2011 6:12:01 PM

I got a vasectomy a little over a year ago when I was 27. I'm married with three kids and neither of us wants any more. I was happy to stop after the first, but the wife wanted more.

As long as you go back and make sure you're shooting blanks after the proper amount of time and don't just assume you are, it works great.

8/19/2011 6:12:14 PM

^^what she said.

or her IUD is about to fall out.

8/19/2011 6:14:51 PM

yeah, i guess it's the string. only really bothers me when it hits the end of my urethra. feels like a piece of heavy mono fishing line.

8/19/2011 6:44:19 PM

Her doctor can fix that for you by cutting the strings shorter or tucking them out of the way.

8/19/2011 6:45:31 PM

While they are all debating birth control

SEND ME A CONFESSION...

8/19/2011 6:49:36 PM

If I were to ever get a vasectomy, I would bank some of my "boys" for safe keeping, in case I ever changed my mind.

8/19/2011 7:43:33 PM

Can you freeze them for a rainy day?

8/19/2011 7:44:28 PM

there are private banks out there, but they are $$

(pun intended)

8/19/2011 7:49:33 PM

Yes, you can freeze theme for a rainy day for relatively little. We had a friend with testicular cancer who froze his boys in case the treatment left him sterile. It's the IVF that's expensive -- even if you're using your own banked sperm & eggs.

8/19/2011 9:24:08 PM

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"I broke up with my fiancee, who I had been with for nearly 5 years, about 8 months ago and I am scared shitless to start dating again. "

I broke up with my fiancé almost 10 months ago and I haven't gotten up enough nerve yet to start dating again either. I think I'm ready to but I dont know where to start. Good luck!

8/19/2011 10:20:33 PM

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"Why have a vasectomy? Have your wife get an IUD. It's just as effective, it's easy, it starts working right away (unlike the snip), it's reversible and renewable at the end of the life of the IUD, it's not surgery, and has the bonus of reducing or eliminating her periods. And heaven forbid, but something could happen to your wife and/or children and you'd wish that you hadn't opted for surgical sterilization. I put that forth because I can think of two different people that I know who ended up wanting more children down the road because of changes in circumstance (one being the very tragic death of a child)."

I am not a fan of the mirena iud. I had most of the side effects listed (plus random ones) and I just don't like the probability of an ectopic pregnancy . I think a vasectomy works for us. I am thinking about getting the adiana done just to be fair about the future childrens clause.

[Edited on August 19, 2011 at 10:43 PM. Reason : I am very sensitive to any hormone stuffs. The ring is the least problemsome. ]

8/19/2011 10:42:14 PM

I am interested in these side effects. I have to take low dose hormone pill as well, wondering if I wont respond well to an iud

8/19/2011 10:47:24 PM

I only want interesting confessions.

8/19/2011 10:50:44 PM

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"I have sworn off white women and only pursue Hispanics/Asians/Islander. My parents are traditionalist and have no idea. Im pretty sure my family would not approve of my current mexican gf. Sucks."

8/19/2011 11:27:56 PM

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"current mexican gf. Sucks"

8/19/2011 11:43:56 PM

i'm home recovering from last night still. confess to me

8/19/2011 11:49:05 PM

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"feels like a piece of heavy mono fishing line."

and how does that not turn you on more NRR? I thought you loved fishing..

8/20/2011 12:37:38 AM

I woke up to:

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"Everyone seems to love sex confessions, so here goes. 1) I'm on anti depressants, so orgasms are very coveted (can be hard to achieve at times, even when I'm really turned on). 2) I'm a white guy dating a very attractive black girl, which is a first and is VERY hot. 3) I'm a total ass man. I love everything about a woman's ass. I fantasize about putting my face in between a beautiful girls cheeks and smelling her essence. And I mean her fucking asshole. I love to toss salad, but a lot of girls are weary of it (boo). I couldn't care less what kind of titties a girl has, as long as her ass is rotund. "

8/20/2011 8:09:56 AM

"Weary" just makes that hilarious

8/20/2011 8:15:56 AM

I'll take confessions

8/20/2011 8:57:52 AM

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"So I went to use the restroom in EB2 on my way to class this morning. I walk into an empty bathroom and thought to myself, "Awesome! I get to pick my toilet station today!" As I approach the urinal, I feel as if something is wrong. I feel uncomfortable. Nevertheless, I unzip my zipper and proceed to infiltrate my cargo shorts with my left hand. To my surprise, I was unable to free the hostage. There was a wall with no entrance. I was baffled. I had set myself up to urinate in this marvelously clean urinal and I couldn't find the hole in my boxers! I searched drastically with my left hand first... After a 3 second attempt, the pressure in my bladder started to exceed safe conditions. I needed to relieve the pressure and quickly if I were to enjoy any portion of my remaining morning. I go in, forearm deep and still nothing. Then, reinforcements arrive as my right hand joins the search party. Nothing! Then it hit me... I put my damn boxers on backwards this morning. Alas, I declared a retreat and scurried my ass into a stall, just in time as another person whom I did not see entered the facility. By now, the excitement of urinating in that wonderfully clean latrine had passed, however, the toilet in the stall was equally clean. I enjoyed myself for about 45 seconds and afterwards corrected my undergarment. Best of all? Its Friday; Friday. Gotta get down on Friday. Everybody looks forward to the weekend; weekend. "

8/20/2011 10:28:51 AM

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"Everybody looks forward to the weekend; weekend. "

Young trolls be free tonight, time is on your side.

8/20/2011 11:17:25 AM

I'll take confessions.

8/20/2011 3:20:02 PM