i LOVE that you can count on family for that.

5/22/2012 3:34:54 PM

what? that is fucked up

5/22/2012 3:35:16 PM

it's weird because they do it in the most backwards ways. like they think they're being nice about it. just shut up.

5/22/2012 3:35:50 PM

that used to be my dad's role in my life!

5/22/2012 3:36:07 PM

or maybe they are just mean bitches?

5/22/2012 3:36:21 PM

hahaha sounds like my mother

"when are you gonna get back to working out?"

"when you stop asking me about it"

5/22/2012 3:37:01 PM

my grandmother would always yell at me for gaining weight or losing too much weight. there was never a happy medium.

5/22/2012 3:37:45 PM

that was also my dad's role in my life!

5/22/2012 3:39:03 PM

I think you people are just too sensitive

[Edited on May 22, 2012 at 3:40 PM. Reason : I'd expect my family to tell me if I'm gaining weight and they have before]

5/22/2012 3:39:45 PM

That's why the women in my family carry around a set of scientific weights from 1 gram to 10 kilos so that they can always maintain the same amount of pressure on the floor.

5/22/2012 3:40:22 PM

they're not mean, just nosey as shit. well, my sister is a bit mean.

5/22/2012 3:41:07 PM

Punch her in the cervix.

5/22/2012 3:41:49 PM

My mom always makes fun of my jowls. Says I have chipmunk cheeks. Fuck that bitch.

5/22/2012 3:41:54 PM

my mom thinks everyone should talk about their problems openly. all of their problems. with everyone in the family.

5/22/2012 3:42:41 PM

typically your family cares about you and wants teh best for you, whether or not you liek it they're trying to nudge you in the right direction

I can understand it if it was something like "hey look, theres my fatass daughter meg, whats going on miss piggy"

but more than likely it was something like "it looks like youre gaining weight meg, are you still working out?"

5/22/2012 3:44:08 PM

Quote :

"I think you people are just too sensitive [Edited on May 22, 2012 at 3:40 PM. Reason : I'd expect my family to tell me if I'm gaining weight and they have before]"

I'd see it as sensitive if this just happened every now and again...but my mother used to say some mean ass shit about my weight when I was younger

now she makes jabs every now and again so I just shut her up really quick

[Edited on May 22, 2012 at 3:44 PM. Reason : ^yeah those are the kinds of comments I used to hear haha...she called me a hefer a lot]

5/22/2012 3:44:21 PM

there is a difference though.

a.) Meg is absolutely not fat

b.) if the person they are speaking to has been approximately that size most of their life/ and or it's a healthy weight range.... I think it is none of their business

5/22/2012 3:45:13 PM

ya, being called a hefer is a legit thing to be upset about

^theres a difference between being fat and gaining weight

[Edited on May 22, 2012 at 3:46 PM. Reason : .]

5/22/2012 3:45:32 PM

Quote :

"more than likely it was something like "it looks like youre gaining weight meg, are you still working out?""

true...but after the first 5 times in as many days, i get super pissed off about it

5/22/2012 3:46:06 PM

but talking about or to someone who has gained a little weight like they are morbidly obese is pretty difficult coming from people who should be on your side.



just saying that the women in the family can have a lot of influence on a girl's self esteem

5/22/2012 3:48:03 PM

i am overreacting. i need to hate myself less and get back into my routine. but being reminded about it several times a day the past few days has been unnecessary.



[Edited on May 22, 2012 at 3:52 PM. Reason : ]

5/22/2012 3:49:14 PM

Point of clarification: Heifer

Carry on.

5/22/2012 3:53:21 PM

I's tired. And there is no coffee in the break room

5/22/2012 4:02:31 PM

yeah chrome told me I spelled it wrong

I didn't give a fuck

thanks for the clarification though

5/22/2012 4:02:44 PM

meg how fat do you think you are?

5/22/2012 4:06:51 PM

Um well i think im pretty fat, definitely not the biggest i've ever been but i need to get my shit together or i will be there soon. I dont have cankles though.

5/22/2012 4:18:36 PM

lol

5/22/2012 4:50:32 PM

Quote :

"Seems like they always are unless your appointment is first thing. Even then they're 15 minutes late. "

So true. Today it took 45 minutes to get into my appointment. I lost valuable interneting time

5/22/2012 5:03:14 PM

I am not as much of a people pleaser to a fault as I used to be in a lot of ways, but I have recently realized I tend to feel the need to explain myself to other people when it isn't necessary because of the feeling that I have done something wrong.

5/22/2012 6:24:56 PM

^ Ooooh, I've been noticing that about myself too.

5/22/2012 6:27:07 PM

Yeah. I just ordered something and the guy I was ordering it from messed up a dimension (after getting it correct the first time he said it). I didn't notice the second mistake so he was working off that one, and we had a few back-and-forths on the confusion before we got it straightened out. Then I felt the need to tell him why I had been confused, when there's no reason I should have done that.

5/22/2012 6:29:34 PM

Yeah, I've noticed myself doing it in very minor instances also. Had to switch vehicles the other day while mine was being worked on leaving my employee badge in my car. Got to work and gave the HR dept like a 2-3 minute explanation of what happeneds so I wouldn't get in trouble for "forgetting" my badge. *sigh*


Also, that Cheetos commerical where the construction workers are dancing in the framework of a house while the cheetah stands watching is HILARIOUS to me for some weird reason.




[Edited on May 22, 2012 at 6:35 PM. Reason : .]

5/22/2012 6:34:17 PM

Swinkle - just picked up a new habit last year. When I catch myself wanting to over explain and people are busy, I give them the first half of it. Two things happen: they fill in the rest of the story themselves, and then they believe it better and we move on faster.

5/22/2012 7:35:02 PM

Is a $100 deductible common for broken phones?

5/22/2012 7:49:02 PM

for smart phones, yes

5/22/2012 7:56:38 PM

seriously looking into the junior league of raleigh

5/22/2012 8:31:37 PM

I need some new shirts

5/22/2012 8:32:40 PM

what shall the little guy and I do tomorrow?

5/22/2012 8:51:58 PM

If it's not too hot the art walk at the NCMA is nice.

5/22/2012 8:55:59 PM

Thanks, bmel!

5/22/2012 9:10:16 PM

ooh good idea

5/22/2012 9:15:26 PM

I feel great! Almost 2 weeks straight at the gym and it feels good.

5/22/2012 9:24:08 PM

What would you say your measurements are now?

5/22/2012 9:25:47 PM

You're such a creeper

5/22/2012 9:27:41 PM

Fatty Boombalatty.

Actually, I haven't done any measurements. My first session with the personal trainer is Thursday and she'll be taking measurements.

5/22/2012 9:28:47 PM

LunaK out of fucking nowhere

5/22/2012 9:29:18 PM

The Jackal is an underrated movie.

5/22/2012 9:43:08 PM

Hay baby what's that sound...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JCja-dHi6NI&ob=av2n

oonts oonts oonts...

^ Also yes, and I wish Bruce Willis won in that movie just because he was so much cooler than his opponent.

5/22/2012 9:52:44 PM

Mmmm...codeine. i love you. Tonight was my last dose, plz to not cough all night tomorrow

5/22/2012 10:09:07 PM

5/22/2012 10:09:55 PM