Quote :

"How many times do you get hit on when you are single vs when you have a SO. the answer is 43 times more likely."

this is patently wrong. and spoken like a man who's never been in that position before.

or hit on.

9/6/2012 1:13:29 PM

I've never debated paying for some quim when I was in a relationship. I know that much.

9/6/2012 1:23:47 PM

I've never debated paying for some quim when I was in a relationship. I know that much.

9/6/2012 1:24:14 PM

I've never debated paying for some quim when I was in a relationship. I know that much.

9/6/2012 7:13:16 PM

i don't think that is what is being debated.

9/6/2012 7:32:20 PM

Anybody wanna confess tonight?

9/6/2012 11:08:13 PM

Quote :

" I met a woman through work this spring. She is highly attractive, and wicked smart ( cheme phd) and a little older (mid 30's). She doesn't work at my site but works at one of the plants in Denmark. during her visit we got to know each other and eventually hooked up . While I was Denmark this summer we moved beyond the one night stand and had a few dates/ outings while i was there. We still talk almost weekly for a few minutes and just shoot the shit. Recently a coworker told me she is engaged and has a teenage son. I dont know how I feel about this as I never asked and deep down I know that is bad and probably shows a little of the crazy in her. I don't think this is going to go anywhere but I know we are attracted to one another( she has told me this) and when we spend time together it seems perfect ( minus her maybe having a fiancee and kid). It was brought up at work this past week that I may be expatriated and work in denmark for a few years. I would love the opportunity but part of me says on a personal note I would get hurt if i continue talking to her/ seeing her when the chance arises. Its very confusing. "

9/6/2012 11:43:44 PM

Affairs are different in Europe. Way more accepted & casual.

If you get a chance to go the Denmark for work, go & just don't expect this to turn into anything. She prob won't be weird if you're not. So don't be weird about it

9/6/2012 11:57:56 PM

^ really....i did not know that. is being a swinger in Europe just the norm?

9/7/2012 8:14:55 AM

man what am i still doing in america

9/7/2012 8:18:39 AM

http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/marital-infidelity

I remember thinking that the casual handling of the affair in The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo was so strange.

9/7/2012 8:28:12 AM

to freshmonkey's confessor: Refer to the movie Up in the Air.

9/7/2012 9:57:56 AM

you're the one getting attached after a one nighter and a couple of dates, but she's the crazy one...

right...

9/7/2012 10:03:15 AM

Can we get an update about the married guy who has been sleeping with his friend's wife (I think it was his friend, I know she was married though ) How's that working out?

9/7/2012 10:22:10 AM

ooo that was a good one. especially with all the ass and cock grabbing behind the SOs backs.

9/7/2012 10:35:57 AM

Sparky, I wouldn't say being a swinger is the norm

However, men & women have affairs (more common for men) & it's just not as big of a devastation as it is here. It's seen as sexual & not emotional. It's not like dudes are telling their wives "bye honey, off to fuck my mistress!" it's definitely secretive but the women usually suspect & just don't do anything about it.

This may contribute to the fact that people in Europe get married later in life & start families later too. My American friend married a European & got pregnant on their honeymoon (oops). People legit asked her if she was keeping the kid.

Which reminds me, abortions in Europe are fucking standard too. No big deal. Also, lots of pregnant women smoking, at least in Switzerland. It was a big wtf for me.

9/7/2012 11:31:03 AM

Quote :

"However, men & women have affairs (more common for men)"

So what you're saying is that unmarried women in Europe have a lot of sex with married men

9/7/2012 11:41:48 AM

^^ ah so it's pretty much accepted and maybe even expected but for the most part it's out of sight out of mind. hrrmmmmm....not sure how to feel about that.

9/7/2012 3:54:35 PM

I'm unsure who is safe for sending confessions to nowadays Ah well, I have little to confess these days anyway.

9/7/2012 7:07:27 PM

I tell no one all of your secrets.

9/7/2012 7:09:23 PM

You probably tell elise. And the two of you spend your Sunday nights gulping wine and laughing about the sad lives of random TWWers.

9/7/2012 7:11:45 PM

your secret is safe with me

9/7/2012 7:55:03 PM

*lol*

I don't drink wine. And elise and I no longer live together or even near one another.

9/7/2012 9:04:07 PM

Sad. That sounded like a fun idea in my head.

9/7/2012 9:46:35 PM

i'm safe with confessions and i'm open to taking them.


send 'em on!

9/7/2012 9:53:51 PM

Bring ze confessions!

And I do drink wine. Yum. The last glass of this TJ's Petite Shiraz tonight. Malbec tomorrow.

[Edited on September 7, 2012 at 9:56 PM. Reason : Vino]

9/7/2012 9:54:49 PM

I DON'T HATE PEOPLE WITH SECRETS.

I envy you.

9/7/2012 9:54:51 PM

Getting married in <9 days!

Send me all your wedding/marriage secrets/stories/advice/convince me not to do it, etc.

9/7/2012 9:57:43 PM

<666

9/7/2012 10:06:18 PM

BubbleBobble <666

Here's some advice:

Quote :

"Don't stop doing it with your hubby. Ever. Greatest gift of marriage is the love. Cherish it every day and never forget what got you where you are in your relationship. Don't let yourself go. You're a beautiful person, inside and out. I've got more, but you don't need to hear them from me you're ready for it!."

Fuck like rabbits. Mmkay.. got it!

[Edited on September 7, 2012 at 10:18 PM. Reason : Thank you ]

9/7/2012 10:16:48 PM

Quote :

" You can tell me. I don't hang out with the gossip crowd of T-dub anymore. I used to hang with Elise and bottombaby, but that boat sailed LONG ago. (thank goodness). And tbh, your right about that assumption you posted. But that's our secret... "

Orly?

9/7/2012 10:21:48 PM

Meg was not right. I can't drink wine. The sulfites fuck me up something awful. The rest was on point.

9/7/2012 10:23:36 PM

Vodka?

Sulfite free wines? I thought Orleans Hill was OK

[Edited on September 7, 2012 at 10:25 PM. Reason : ]

9/7/2012 10:24:29 PM

I think when I was living with Erica I was drinking this:




or chocolate cake shots...or my homemade lemon verbena brandy.

9/7/2012 10:25:52 PM

Quote :

"The older I get, the more I realize how naive and stupid I used to be. This causes me embarrassment, shame, and humiliation. It makes me wish life had a "Do Over" button for certain things. I think about all the "first impression" moments I've had over the years that I fucked up without even caring about future repercussions. I think about all the bad decisions I've made, all the chances I didn't take because it was easier to do nothing. Those thoughts are enough to actually make me feel some semblance of regret. I never thought I'd see the day that I felt regret for anything. Obviously, that was a very naive and stupid notion assumed by a very naive and stupid person."

9/7/2012 10:34:26 PM

If you had a do-over button you wouldn't be the person you are now.

9/7/2012 10:39:06 PM

I agree. Also I feel it's never too late to make a first impression.

Then again I tend to get burned by giving people multiple times to prove or redeem themselves to the point it's ridiculous. So maybe you shouldn't take that part of my advice...or at least don't be discouraged if people don't think/believe in the "new" you.

But regret is silly.

So if you regret so much that you hate yourself or where you are...fix it. Don't just wallow in regret. fix it.

9/7/2012 10:47:10 PM

Agree. Regrets are ok, just fix it and don't fuck up anymore. Or try not to, anyway.

9/7/2012 10:51:46 PM

Quote :

"He isn't your better half. You don't get married to become 100% because you already are 100% by yourself. Be his biggest fan. Be team [your new last name here]. (I will not say your soon to be last name just in case you don't want these people to know it.). The iron that sharpens iron per se. Budget your money (Dave Ramsey worked wonders for me and my SO). Change is beautiful and what happens just as long as you both stay in the same direction and on the same path. Dialogue daily, date weekly, and depart monthly. ALWAYS say "I love you" even when he has shit all over your day and has made you so amazingly livid that you could melt his face with your venom rage."

I love this. Thanks. I was thinking the confessions thread would output more "DON'T DO IT" and "WHAT ARE YOU THINKING!?" and hilarious horror stories.. but these have been nice thus far

9/7/2012 10:54:48 PM

Quote :

"If you had a do-over button you wouldn't be the person you are now."

Amen. Every mistake that you make contributes to you being the wonderful person that you are. As long as you like who you are, you should be grateful for the mistakes that you have made and try to live your life without feeling regret. I am an imperfect person, but I love myself and embrace my imperfection.

Quote :

"You can tell me. I don't hang out with the gossip crowd of T-dub anymore. I used to hang with Elise and bottombaby, but that boat sailed LONG ago."

*snort* Gossip. TWW is like a sitcom. 99% of you are little more than screen names and cheap entertainment. The TWWers I've actually met in person stopped posting 8 years ago. elise is my best friend and that's pretty much it. The rest of you guys, I'll probably never encounter to spill dirty secrets because I don't even live in Raleigh anymore.

9/7/2012 11:33:58 PM

Quote :

"99% of you are little more than screen names and cheap entertainment."

[Edited on September 7, 2012 at 11:39 PM. Reason : .]

9/7/2012 11:38:57 PM

That did sound rather imperious, did it not?

DANCE MONKEY DANCE!

9/7/2012 11:40:30 PM

Quote :

"vodka makes me fart post this it will make me laugh when i see it "

I just found the Glazed Doughnut Vodka that elise recommended.
My nose is grateful that I'm not sharing it with you.

9/8/2012 9:29:22 PM

i'll take confessions

9/8/2012 9:31:39 PM

Quote :

"This causes me embarrassment, shame, and humiliation."

Don't you want to take a leap of faith? Or become an old man, filled with regret, waiting to die alone!

9/8/2012 10:53:07 PM

Is Inception going to be one of those movies people quote in the future? I thought it was great, but not in that sense.

9/8/2012 11:13:43 PM

I thought the 'We will be together quote" was pretty good.

9/8/2012 11:15:09 PM

Quote :

" i'm less than 20lbs from my goal weight i feel sexy as hell these days tonight i decided to take a picture and share PS - haters gonna hate, but ain't nobody gonna breaka my stride "

I'd hit it. all night long.

9/11/2012 12:35:20 AM

BOY IF ONLY SOME SUPER DETECTIVE COULD TELL US WHO THAT IS, MAYBE BATMAN?

9/11/2012 12:38:58 AM

i have it on good authority that the following was not posted with that confession:


/not-so-anonymous confession

9/11/2012 12:40:10 AM