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EMCE
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wait, where are your pictures furikuchan?

2/7/2008 1:30:56 AM

nastoute
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actually, family ring is a good point

but seriously, go suck a bag of dicks

[Edited on February 7, 2008 at 1:31 AM. Reason : .]

2/7/2008 1:31:19 AM

furikuchan
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EMCE, linked to my facebook. I'd only be re-posting the same photos if I put it on TWW, so I've never bothered.

2/7/2008 1:33:35 AM

GREEN JAY
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k

i'd start with yours, but we'd be here all night trying to find it

2/7/2008 1:34:03 AM

EMCE
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O I C

I haven't the energy to go facebook stalking. If you just go ahead and tell me if you're hot or not? Then I can proceed in the appropriate manner in terms of whether or not to stalk you.

2/7/2008 1:35:37 AM

arcgreek
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this thread went

2/7/2008 1:37:37 AM

furikuchan
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Sorry, I'm nothing special.

2/7/2008 1:37:41 AM

EMCE
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well in that case, Psychology sucks. Why don't you pick a real major? Slacker.

2/7/2008 1:41:46 AM

StillFuchsia
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Quote :
"maybe i am on my period

fuck you galaxy girl"


you're welcome

2/7/2008 1:45:03 AM

furikuchan
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See, that's more like it.

2/7/2008 1:45:57 AM

EMCE
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j/k

I did cognitive and human factors

2/7/2008 1:47:07 AM

Arab13
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wat

2/7/2008 1:49:40 AM

wdprice3
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"why do hunters put deer heads on their wall? its called a trophy. just a different beast."


lolololololololololololololololololololololololololololol

2/7/2008 6:40:24 AM

Golovko
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this thread has insecure written all over it.

2/7/2008 6:53:23 AM

MinkaGrl01

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Are you going to cut off his penis too... you do know he fucked her with it, right?

I think you have two options here:
1- Ask him about it and then force him to get rid of it because it makes you feel insecure.
or
2- Sell it for him, and tell him about it years later.

Then, in about 3 years after you break up and he moves on with someone else, decide which one made you look like a bitch.

2/7/2008 6:58:22 AM

tchenku
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sell it on ebay

maybe it won't ruin your life, also

2/7/2008 7:29:05 AM

Skack
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"PackBaby"


Grow up.

2/7/2008 8:10:40 AM

bottombaby
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My father saved his wedding band from his first marriage after it ended in divorce. He kept his wedding band in a safe at my grandmother's house. After my father died, my grandmother gave me his old wedding band.

My mother was his second wife and she knew that he still his old wedding band and she she never seemed to care -- probably because she still had her wedding band from her first marriage in her jewlery box.

In my parents' cases, their first marriages were both to their high school sweethearts and I think that the wedding bands had sentimental value for them. I guess since they both knew how the other one felt that it just wasn't an issue that they'd kept their old bands.

2/7/2008 9:12:13 AM

TheTabbyCat
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I think my dad saved his wedding band from his first marriage too...my mom never had a problem with it.

2/7/2008 9:18:07 AM

Wraith
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I think you should probably just break up with this dude right now. If he asks why, just tell him he is a complete jerk face and never speak to him again. Just the mere fact that he has the old wedding band clearly means that he is sleeping with his ex-wife.

[Edited on February 7, 2008 at 10:00 AM. Reason : ]

2/7/2008 10:00:27 AM

Kiwi
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I HATE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THIS WORLDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

2/7/2008 10:01:16 AM

Wraith
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^u r such an ass wipe n bastert!

2/7/2008 10:06:33 AM

sd2nc
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even my lil brothre hates youuuuuuu

2/7/2008 10:08:05 AM

sawahash
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I think that it's okay that he's keeping it since it does have value to it. Maybe he wants to keep it for that reason.

I doubt he is keeping it to reuse it. Most people don't reuse things like that (would a woman wear the same wedding dress twice?)

I don't think she is crazy for wanting to know why he has it, but I think she should just ask him. If they are that serious her asking a question that trivial shouldn't be a big deal.
I'm sure if she asks he will give her the reason he's keeping it and she might then just realize it's not a big deal.

That is how relationship problems start though, the two in the relationship aren't open with each other, they don't ask questions, they don't give answers. I think before the problem that you have with him keeping the wedding ring build up and eventually turn into a fight that you don't need you need to tell him that you're a little bothered by it and you want to know why he is keeping it.
If he answers "I was thinking of keeping it for a while and maybe selling it when the price of gold goes up" then leave it at that.
If he answers "I want to remember my ex with it" then tell him that bothers you, maybe he will get rid of it.

2/7/2008 10:20:46 AM

MeatStick
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My fiance kept some shit his ex's gave him, including an old "promise ring." I could care less. It's not like he rolls in all the old stuff at night and weeps for the past.

You probably should consider years later, that ring will still be with him when you're long gone for being an overbearing bitch.

2/7/2008 10:48:48 AM

ScHpEnXeL
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Quote :
"that ring will still be with him when you're long gone for being an overbearing bitch.

"


ftw

2/7/2008 10:51:56 AM

Sayer
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"GrumpyGOP: if human civilization collapsed right now, a gold wedding band would still be worth a couple of goats or something."


best line of this whole thread

2/7/2008 11:49:11 AM

insanity
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i had a co-worker / friend that got divorced and he got some balloons and tied the ring to it, attached a note stating his hatred for his ex and let the balloons go.

2/7/2008 11:53:35 AM

TroopofEchos
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"maybe it won't ruin your life, also
"

LOL
you suck at photoshop

2/7/2008 12:02:19 PM

saps852
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way to be a bitch

You probably should consider years later, that ring will still be with him when you're long gone for being an overbearing bitch.

i imagine this girl is never coming back

2/7/2008 12:05:55 PM

gunzz
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haha, someone hasnt made a single post in over a year and a half and then gets trolled
lol

i bet it will be another 2 years b4 she comes back

2/7/2008 12:09:39 PM

dannyp45
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"i bet it will be another 2 years b4 she comes back"


"THANK YOU, COME AGAIN"

2/7/2008 12:11:10 PM

DROD900
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BITCH IS JUST A HALEY'S COMET POSTER

2/7/2008 12:12:37 PM

GrumpyGOP
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It was worth it to see nastoute implode in on himself like a dying star.

2/7/2008 12:15:41 PM

jchill2
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You are a bitch.

period

2/7/2008 12:44:56 PM

Mr E Nigma
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2/7/2008 12:58:24 PM

sylvershadow
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what kind of band is it? if its just a plain band, I dont think itd be worth much, and maybe not worth keeping unless there is sentiment attached to it. My exbf kept his old wedding band, but it had 3 diamonds in it. He mentioned getting it made into a piece of jewelry, but he doesnt have the money for it right now.

2/7/2008 1:30:07 PM

Joie
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i agree with not much i've read (but i havent read it all)

but im the person whod get rid of the ring promptly, unless i thought there was a chance we'd get back together, or still had feelings...then i'd keep it.

one thing to keep a sweatshirt
another to keep a symbol of eternal love.

but thats just me folks




[Edited on February 7, 2008 at 2:17 PM. Reason : bhfdgfd]

2/7/2008 2:16:57 PM

TroopofEchos
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. . . if they aren't together anymore it's not really a symbol of anything eternal

It then just becomes an object which may or may not just have sentimental value.

2/7/2008 7:12:32 PM

Joie
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but it WAS a symbol of eternal love.

i'm not trying to argue.

different stokes for different folks

(im not saying this chick is right, as a matter of fact i think she is overreacting a bit....but i just would NEVER keep something like that if i knew the relationship was over for good )

2/7/2008 8:27:54 PM

TroopofEchos
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no worries, i wasn't trying to be hostile or anything either

2/7/2008 8:30:17 PM

Joie
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THATS WHAT I THOUGHT BIOCH



2/7/2008 8:43:44 PM

Mr E Nigma
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Joie, your breasts are a symbol of eternal love.

2/8/2008 9:16:25 AM

BobbyDigital
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So, has the original poster even responded yet, or is the last 3 pages everyone arguing with no one?

2/8/2008 9:18:07 AM

TroopofEchos
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3 pages of arguing with no one

2/8/2008 11:14:03 AM

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