Personally, I believe that the negatives of porn far outweigh the positives.

But I'm probably in the minority on that one.

[Edited on May 5, 2008 at 2:44 AM. Reason : Oh and 3.]

5/5/2008 2:44:11 AM

srsly

most of these folks need to ask themselves some questions.

5/5/2008 6:56:11 AM

I really don't see the big deal or why any girl would get upset. It's just porn.

5/5/2008 7:17:16 AM

Ok, had the talk and patched things up and made it all ok.

She doesn't like the porn because it makes her feel bad thinking about me watching someone else. She's fixated on the "someone else" part and thinks it objectifies women, blah blah. But she's ok with me doing it, she just doesn't like to see it or have to confront it. Don't ask, don't tell from now on.

She would be ok with trying out watching it together at least.

She conceded that she was more pissed about my reaction than to the actual porn. Apparently I got pretty defensive about it the night she found it (which I did, rightfully so I maintain) and that was a much bigger issue overall.

Summary:
-Chick found my pron and got mad.
-still doesn't like it, but don't ask don't tell from now on.
-More upset with my belligerent and defensive "tone" in the argument.
-Need to get her to watch it with me.
-Don't let chicks find your pron.

5/5/2008 8:35:11 AM

find chick that likes pron
...
profit

5/5/2008 8:36:59 AM

try this "dirty latin maid" vid one for your first porn together

http://www.redtube.com/8100

it's a bit more realistic and not about using every possible position. Just simple and nice. It really did the trick in my case with a girl who was all *eww* about porn

5/5/2008 9:11:40 AM

yeah, when you find a chick that's cool with porn and will watch it with you,

marry her.

5/5/2008 9:23:49 AM

5/5/2008 9:29:25 AM

lock that computer yo, get her a limited account on your machine and log out of yours.

5/5/2008 9:44:05 AM

windows key + L ftw

[Edited on May 5, 2008 at 9:45 AM. Reason : although it does seem sketchy and makes them 100x as curious]

5/5/2008 9:44:53 AM

Quote :

"yeah, when you find a chick that's cool with porn and will watch it with you, marry her."

I'm all about some porn with the boys!

5/5/2008 9:48:24 AM

porn is good most of the time

it means we don't have to put out

FREE TIME

5/5/2008 9:50:40 AM

Quote :

" I'm all about some porn with the boys!"

me too!

5/5/2008 9:54:21 AM

slackerb, you should just switch to cartoon porn

that way she can't get mad about you being attracted to "someone else"

5/5/2008 10:07:20 AM

Quote :

"It's like a guy not wanting his girlfriend to own a vibrator (buy one from me). "

hahah

5/5/2008 11:24:18 AM

Quote :

"A woman bothered by the thought of her man fapping to anyone but her is someone you might not want to be with. She's likely to be jealous, controlling, unreasonable, and perhaps immature."

You should never have to hide your porn from your GF. Maybe she's jealous because she wants you to spend more time screwing her and less time screwing yourself?

5/5/2008 11:51:37 AM

Quote :

"porn is good most of the time it means we don't have to put out FREE TIME"

If you consider having sex with your partner as "putting out", then you suck at sex and probably relationships. If you dont want to have sex, dont. If its a chore, then obviously you dont really like the other person.

5/5/2008 12:06:59 PM

Quote :

"try this "dirty latin maid" vid one for your first porn together http://www.redtube.com/8100 it's a bit more realistic and not about using every possible position. Just simple and nice. It really did the trick in my case with a girl who was all *eww* about porn"

I gotta say if you're with a girl that thinks that porn does nothing more than objectify women, that video has got to be the worst possible example of something to show her.

Everything about that video was just nasty.

5/5/2008 12:43:32 PM

yeah. I would try some amateurish "couple" stuff. Its a little less "OMG COCK" and a little more intimate.

http://www.redtube.com/2077 < voyeur
http://www.redtube.com/3258 < more porny but still less intimidating than a lot

5/5/2008 1:03:48 PM

I think if you stay with this girl you should respect that she does not want you to look at this stuff. A lot of times women feel that they are not fulfilling you enough if you have to go beat off to someone else (that a lot of times is hotter or kinkier). I think people who enjoy porn should be with others that enjoy porn. Maybe you should go with someone else bc you obviously think how she feels is trivial.

For deleteing things:
Ken told me that if you want to clear out the drop down just start typing the address, press the down arrow and then press shift and delete at the same time and clear out everything that starts with youporn.

I know I love watching porn, most types, but I also notice how it starts effecting how I get off with Ken. A lot of times its easier for me to pleasure myself bc it can be faster. I want to help Ken out with knowing that he can still pleasure me bc he like doing that. When I am having sex, I want to think of Ken and not the theatrics of someone I don't know. That is just me and that is why I don't watch porn anymore.

5/5/2008 1:18:54 PM

^^thats better. If the intent is to show that porn isn't bad, showing one like latina maids where a woman is exploited and paid for sex is not one to start with. Not saying I didn't enjoy it.

5/5/2008 1:24:10 PM