how bout you tell that bitch there are 3 billion other dudes and i'm sure one of them would fuck her and get lovey dovey with her

7/8/2008 5:21:28 PM

you know what. i thought it over. all of you should continue to be miserable ass holes to as many women as possible

that way the good ones can see how normal and sane i am and will overlook all the crazies you guys messed up. cut down on competition, you see.

carry on.

also, most girls don't know about the "i apologize" trick instead of saying "i'm sorry" keep using that one, i promise not to tell the other girls

7/8/2008 5:23:57 PM

You can't escape without being a dick, because you were a dick by not making things clear from the get go.

Just remember Karma is a BITCH

7/8/2008 5:25:28 PM

^ which is why I am trying to do this right (whatever "right" ends up meaning)

7/8/2008 5:26:47 PM

tell her you are no longer interested, wish her the best

and stop talking to her

this is easy, what is the problem?

its a little sharp but it's direct. and anyone who cant appreciate polite honesty is an idiot

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 5:29 PM. Reason : kdjfklsdf]

7/8/2008 5:27:47 PM

^exactly

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 5:29 PM. Reason : i dont get why people keep other people in their lives sometimes...its so fucking easy to ignore]

7/8/2008 5:29:15 PM

dont listen to these womenz.


keep tagging it

but....

no cuddling, makes excsuses for your absence after sex, demand more sex, no dates, more sex...


PROFIT

7/8/2008 5:30:46 PM

that is exactly why i dont talk to ex boyfriends or people i used to date

no point. i have lots of friends, dont need awkwardness caused by ex dudes.

cut it off and move on, its easier than you think.


^^ exactly, fuck bitches and LEAVE, problem solved

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 5:44 PM. Reason : nfskdf]

7/8/2008 5:32:04 PM

Just leave. How hard is it to just leave her? If you do not care about her, go ahead and just be a dick.

7/8/2008 6:14:37 PM

It's pretty hard to just leave.


As much as we men like to posture, deep down if you're not a douchebag, you're not a douchebag, and you'll try and spare someone's feelings if you can. (or even if you can't)

Telling a girl you're not into her and then seeing her wither away emotionally is pretty bad for us, too. Maybe holding off on telling her is a way that we try to achieve our own objectives of not feeling guilty about breaking it off, or for making her feel bad.


"Hit it and quit it" is much easier in theory than it is in application.

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 6:25 PM. Reason : it's ultimately self serving either way]

7/8/2008 6:22:25 PM

call girl and say....

tell her you've been thinking and you came to the conclusion that you feel you are leading her on. you apologize but you are no longer interested. you're sure she understands and you'd prefer to not have contact anymore, to make the transition easier (note, for her, not you, but don't say that). wish her the best and hang up.

do not discuss or analyze-- she will do plenty of that with her girlfriends

do not contact her or answer her attempts at contact

read that line above again

trust me, it'll make things worse. cut it off and move on. it'll suck for a little while but she'll come to appreciate your honesty. more guys ought to be honest and direct.

7/8/2008 6:29:19 PM

users with < 1000 posts

7/8/2008 6:37:56 PM

yeah but if a girl made this thread all you hoes would tell the guy to accept that it was a hookup and quit being such a pussy

fucking backwards ass bullshit.

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 6:41 PM. Reason : .]

7/8/2008 6:41:12 PM

^ agreed

7/8/2008 9:00:30 PM

quit talking to her

NUMBER ONE ANSWER

7/8/2008 9:01:03 PM

Be honest with her, don't go the dick route. She'll just latch on to you even more.

Or just pick whatever you find logical and do the complete opposite of that.

7/8/2008 9:13:51 PM

^^^^

hello double standards

and welcome to society

it is what it is

7/8/2008 9:45:36 PM

life is gay sometimes

7/8/2008 9:46:24 PM

hahah LIFE = ~

7/9/2008 10:27:18 AM

find some balls and tell her.

7/9/2008 12:26:23 PM

^sounds like youre already in a relationship

7/9/2008 12:33:26 PM

Tell her straight up. And make sure you do it before she finds out you've been dating another girl behind her back. That hasn't ended well for you in the past.

7/27/2008 8:37:38 PM

:carlface:

7/27/2008 8:42:22 PM

SHIT JUST GOT REAL

7/27/2008 8:42:50 PM

what's that phone service you can use to call and leave a voice message without her phone actually ringing?

7/27/2008 8:43:31 PM

Quote :

"cut it off and move on, its easier than you think."

7/27/2008 8:45:31 PM

listen to wolfy. she knows what she's talkin about.

7/27/2008 9:04:19 PM

Quote :

"Telling a girl you're not into her and then seeing her wither away emotionally is pretty bad for us, too. "

No shit...This experience really sucks...

7/27/2008 10:02:26 PM

if you're treating her like nothing more than a piece of pussy from the beginning, don't try and act like you it's hard to "let her down" in the end... because from the beginning you didn't give a shit about her.


seriously this is why I stay the fuck out of "hooking up." it's shallow, baseless, and leads to this bullshit.



next time don't be an asshole and stop leading girls on.

7/27/2008 10:05:06 PM

need to put her phone number in your cell phone as "booty #xx" and make sure you have more listings as that. not to mention the ring tone with some stripper music or some shit.

7/27/2008 10:07:16 PM

I haven't kept up with this thread much

I'll just add: Honesty is the best policy. True 99.9 % of the time.

7/27/2008 10:13:05 PM

she doesn't get it

cut all contact, like others have said before

if you want something more, fucking act like it from the get go with a new girl you can respect

7/27/2008 11:02:02 PM

Quote :

"but if he tells you from the beginning that it is just a hook up, and you fall in love. it's your own fault if you get hurt "

True.

7/27/2008 11:06:00 PM

I would def hate to be this girl. I hope this never happens to any of you.

7/27/2008 11:56:05 PM

Terrible story. High school. Around 2001. I was making out with some girl, she goes 'well i guess you know that i like you know', of course i dont say anything in response because it totally caught me off guard. we end up hooking up further. were hanging out after it was over. and she goes, 'i guess this means you like me too'

ughhghghghghgghhg

7/28/2008 12:40:49 AM

love is an angel disguised as lust

- Natalie Merchant paraphrasing Aymes Repplier

[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 1:17 AM. Reason : ]

7/28/2008 1:14:43 AM

Make sure she sees you out with another girl and make sure you ignore her at the same time.

7/28/2008 8:48:19 AM

Situations like this are exactly why I'm almost glad I'm a borderline sociopath.

7/28/2008 9:49:21 AM

DATING IS NOT THIS HARD

what the hell kind of chicks do you people meet, and where are you meeting them?

7/28/2008 10:15:47 AM

It is because they are not looking to "date". They are looking for a booty call only.

7/28/2008 6:07:10 PM

^^the where do you meet them part is whats fucking me over

7/28/2008 6:09:56 PM

did you ever hustle up a pair of balls and fix this situation?

7/28/2008 6:41:55 PM