this is definitely an issue with you and not him

8/10/2008 9:51:54 PM

if you have sex standing up you cant get std's..



DUH!

8/10/2008 9:52:05 PM

Quote :

"damn i hope i have good enough taste to not have sex with a broad with an std"

You realize kids are a STD too and it's pretty much impossible to take the pill at the exact same time every day?

I'd NEVER trust the pill alone. Or maybe a doc offered to fix you for free as a service to humanity so it's not an issue.

8/10/2008 9:54:33 PM

lol nope cant get a dog preggers anyways

8/10/2008 9:58:09 PM

people, how am I crazy for not wanting my man to sleep around while I'm dating him?!

8/11/2008 4:34:18 AM

cuz he isnt your man, and apparently you two arent "dating"


yet you are ready to be all clingy and jealous and shit

8/11/2008 4:50:17 AM

1) He's not yours.
2) You drama'd it all up by posting personal business all over myspace.
3) I am going to speak for Michael here and tell you that you should definitely keep fucking him, regardless of what you decide to do about the relationship.

[Edited on August 11, 2008 at 4:52 AM. Reason : -]

8/11/2008 4:51:48 AM

yeah, we were dating, just not bf gf, which is fine. But he says once he's in a relationship, he wants it to be open, which is not cool with me.

8/11/2008 4:59:17 AM

i think we're all missing the most important thing here, and thats that DNL just admitted to having sex with dogs a few posts up

8/11/2008 5:01:08 AM

You say you were dating. He probably things y'all were just f-buddies. Not trying to offend, just saying.

8/11/2008 5:06:01 AM

What's the difference between an "open relationship" and just plain fucking around?

8/11/2008 5:17:06 AM

you gotta find someone as crazy as you.


and this whole... open relationship thing is golden. keep giving up that ass.

8/11/2008 5:22:33 AM

^^ Exactly.

[Edited on August 11, 2008 at 5:22 AM. Reason : -]

8/11/2008 5:22:43 AM

you want different things in the relationship. you can wait for him to get tired of not being exclusive if you want to. how is it gonna make you feel when you find out that he actually is fucking other girls? i dunno. how much do you want to work to get a person exclusive for you if it can't end in a serious committed relationship anyway. apparently that is what you want.


or you could just take advantage of the deal and fuck other guys....

on that note i just moved back into town
jkjk

8/11/2008 7:13:55 AM

something tells me this broad doesn't want to be judged by the # of dudes she's been with




which probably means its $texas



guys never want to be with chicks that are this easy. no offense, its just a "hmm idk" sorta feelin.

8/11/2008 7:43:03 AM

Is this in the RM area?

8/11/2008 7:44:02 AM

Quote :

"I write about it on myspace"

and there's your problem

8/11/2008 7:45:34 AM

(Didn't read the thread, only the OP)


Coming from a guy's perspective, it's a pretty big leap to go from "having a great time dating lots of girls" to "wow, do I like this girl enough to be exclusive?"

Coming from a guy's perspective who doesn't easily or naturally settle down, he probably hasn't put that much thought into it and is "going with the flow." Once you bluntly put it on the line like that, he might need a little time to figure it out before he commits.

At least he wasn't an asshole and said "sure" knowing full well he wasn't planning on cutting the rest of his life off until he figured out the answer. Don't be hasty and jealous (it's a turnoff for most)...if you really like him, give him the courtesy of a little time to mull it over. But if after a couple more weeks he's still stringing you along, moooove on

8/11/2008 7:47:09 AM

If he is from RM you just have to speak his language.

If you want commitment from him simply get pregnant. Voila!

Rocky Mount is simple once you figure it out.

8/11/2008 7:49:59 AM

Why does every relationship need to be "going somewhere?" What's wrong with just letting your relationship, whatever state it may currently be in, just be? To me that seems to be a major failure for many women, it's like a relationship is only successful if it leads to marriage. Can't it be enjoyable and fulfilling without marriage. Even if it ends badly does it not still have merit because you enjoyed the time it lasted, experienced new things, and learned something about yourself and another person?

It seems to me that you've decided that you're looking for the fast track to marriagetown and you're need to validate that you aren't "wasting your time" by just dating.

8/11/2008 7:57:50 AM

^^ i miss you, nick.

8/11/2008 8:04:51 AM

You gotta give the guy credit. He told you he wanted to see other people. He could have lied to you and then cheated behind your back. You need live with the fact he does not want to be tied down to one girl or move on. I think he has been above board with you.

[Edited on August 11, 2008 at 8:33 AM. Reason : screw you]

8/11/2008 8:22:34 AM

Oh yeah, one more thing, stop the myspace shit. It's old.

[Edited on August 11, 2008 at 8:34 AM. Reason : v]

8/11/2008 8:24:30 AM

^ & ^^

edit post.

8/11/2008 8:27:48 AM

yea the myspace thing would of turned me off to. Atleast he was upfront with you, but I can tell you that Ive been with someoen for going on 4 years now and still not sure about if this is what i want. I think you kind of know upfront if it's meant to happen. Atleast with his being upfront-he was prob saying...yeah im prob going to want to cheat in a month or two....

but ur an adult-do what u want. If u get hurt, suck it up and move on. there are many other fish out there.

8/11/2008 8:31:18 AM

I haven't read any of this...
but someone tell me, is there any room for me to play the 'sympathy' card here and bwn sylvershadow?

8/11/2008 8:45:39 AM

never know til you try

8/11/2008 8:46:49 AM

I know you probably just think we're a bunch of internet retards that don't *really* know the situation, but the advice given in this thread is resoundingly consistent in telling you exactly what you need to hear.

Don't listen to it at your own peril.

8/11/2008 8:47:46 AM

8/11/2008 8:49:24 AM

I read the entire thread...lots of [words]
Here's the deal:

He isn't going to want an exclusive relationship from someone that he is already getting everything he needs from.

As my mom used to say: Why would you buy the cow when you already get the milk for free?

If you want someone to come into your life, sweep you off your feet, and it just be "the two of you" then you are going to have to stop coming off as desparate.

I have quite a few guy friends and they always run into this problem. Girls want to settle down and have a picket fence and nicely groomed yard after two dates. It isn't smart to watch a movie with a girl and two weeks later decorate his room for valentines day. It scares them off.

Guys will fall for a girl who is a little mysterious---who they can't figure out right away. Keep your feelings to yourself for a little while and continue leading a normal active life. Then when he realizes that you have more going on than him, he'll be interested. Right now, you're just laying out there legs spread---

(obligatory: "sorry!" to the guys in this thread since I just said "stop sleeping with every guy you meet"...I realize that will make your lives more difficult)

8/11/2008 9:09:05 AM

^agreed.

8/11/2008 9:27:06 AM

^^ Good thread synopsis.

8/11/2008 1:43:32 PM

^^^lol some of that is accurate and some of it is not, at all, imo

8/11/2008 1:44:56 PM

Quote :

"As my mom used to say: Why would you buy the cow when you already get the milk for free?"

Your mom sounds pretty fucking dumb tbqh

8/11/2008 1:51:19 PM

so why would you want to be with this dude?

8/11/2008 1:56:48 PM

because she cant have him

8/11/2008 1:57:19 PM

Really she should just enjoy herself with him and stop trying to get hitched already

8/11/2008 1:58:19 PM

i read the first page and about 3 posts on this page...

there is some serious irony located in this thread....







[Edited on August 11, 2008 at 2:00 PM. Reason : maybe 6 posts on this page]

8/11/2008 1:59:33 PM

^you misspelled idiocy

8/11/2008 2:01:05 PM

tr00

8/11/2008 2:01:28 PM

This thread is proof that the answer to "Why me?!" is always "Because you're fucking crazy."

8/11/2008 2:02:10 PM

sometimes i ask myself "why?"

and i always answer myself with "you shouldn't have done so much dumb shit when you were younger....you're getting payback for being a shitty person"

8/11/2008 2:03:54 PM

instant karma's gonna get you

8/11/2008 2:05:11 PM

i wasn't all THAT shitty though...

the karma has to be running out pretty soon

8/11/2008 2:06:03 PM

Quote :

"And he knows I'm the jealous type"

Question answered.

8/11/2008 2:31:34 PM

8/11/2008 2:32:15 PM

Just to beat this dead horse one more time...
I thought he was a great guy, he has a great personality and we get along great, just when we had the relationship talk and he informed me he wants to have an open relationship.
Not, let me get to know you until we get serious. A, if we get serious, I still want to have sex w/ other people.

8/11/2008 2:41:44 PM

8/11/2008 2:42:20 PM

pre set em up

8/11/2008 2:42:33 PM

set em up

8/11/2008 2:43:39 PM