single and miserable...its cheaper

8/19/2009 7:56:44 PM

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"i'm just saying...i've been single and miserable for a very long time... i would like to try being in a relationship and miserable for a while "

i think you'd do fine in a relationship. you didnt seem to have any issues. some girls should never get boyfriends. like the codependents and the bipolars. thats just painful for everyone involved

8/19/2009 8:03:27 PM

i don't really have any issues...

i just have really really shitty taste in men

8/19/2009 8:04:33 PM

yea ill never be single and miserable thinking about it. every day is very interesting to me. i always feel like long term girls either a. arent faithful, and if they are, theyre b. trying to train you into what they want. im not down with either of those things.

8/19/2009 8:06:02 PM

yeah from what i remember you migrate to those fucked up hillbilly types.

i tend to always end up matched up with someone who likes knowing more than i do about my day to day life and future job prospects , etc

8/19/2009 8:07:08 PM

haha...i haven't had one of those fucked up hillbilly types in a LONG time....


i've since then drifted into a whole new classification of fucked up dudes

8/19/2009 8:08:34 PM

The only downside to being single is that my friends try to hook me up with their weirdo WoW-obsessed pals.

Oh, and the annoying questions from family members who want to know if I'm seeing anyone. "What was wrong with that last young man? He seemed so nice."

8/19/2009 8:10:22 PM

see if i could get a date with a chick that was like lucy then i'd likely be more into the whole dating thing. i'd totally date her, shes hot and quite the character. but she also seems like the kind of whore that you could take home from the bar just cause you have a bag of coke

8/19/2009 8:12:09 PM

oh yeah...he was a real peach...

especially when he would try to stick his finger up my ass while we were doing it

8/19/2009 8:12:40 PM

Haha, LivinProof, the older you get, the more messed up their probs get.

Seemingly. And ex-wives are scary to deal with!

And travis, you hit the nail on the head!

[Edited on August 19, 2009 at 8:14 PM. Reason : .]

8/19/2009 8:13:05 PM

i bet they aren't as hard to deal with as current wives

8/19/2009 8:14:02 PM

hahaha i have to admit that ive done the butthole finger poke lots of times

its not a sexual thing to me at all, its sort of a benchmark

8/19/2009 8:14:48 PM

ill lick a butthole if shes worth it. ive licked 3 buttholes in my time.

8/19/2009 8:15:27 PM

well i was totally talking about you...


duh

8/19/2009 8:15:45 PM

It's fun to test boundaries. "What can I get away with in bed?"

8/19/2009 8:15:49 PM

If you're single and miserable, at least you have your freedom. You can just be yourself, and not really give a shit what people think about it. You spend your time how you want to. There isn't someone constantly monitoring you, trying to control or change you.

I'm no expert, but I think many people get into miserable relationships because it wasn't based around them being themselves in the first place. They sort of put on a different persona when their girlfriend is around, and we've all seen it. That's no way to live.

8/19/2009 8:17:55 PM

why would you get in a relationship based on not being yourself

i get in relationships based on the amount of sex i'm having

[Edited on August 19, 2009 at 8:20 PM. Reason : asdfds]

8/19/2009 8:19:56 PM

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"why would you get in a relationship based on not being yourself"

Because you're trying to impress the person, and conform to what you think they want.

8/19/2009 8:22:03 PM

Would you stay in a relationship if the sex was bad?

8/19/2009 8:22:44 PM

it's all about quantity...not quality

8/19/2009 8:25:39 PM

can't have both?

8/19/2009 8:29:35 PM

<- Single & not miserable. Horny perhaps, but not miserable.

8/19/2009 8:49:55 PM

I'm pretty content with being single for the most part.

Every once in a while, for about a month or so every year (usually around June or July) I start getting the urge to date someone, then it fades away. It's probably for the best since I'm a borderline sociopath with no capacity for empathy or real emotional connection anyway.

8/19/2009 10:12:05 PM

no shit....

i tried to hit on you at ruckus and you just acted like you didn't even care


asshole

[Edited on August 19, 2009 at 10:14 PM. Reason : asdfd]

8/19/2009 10:13:38 PM

Yeah, sorry about that. If it makes you feel any better we probably would have just had really amazing sex one time and then I would have been cold and distant afterward.

8/19/2009 10:16:11 PM

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"depends on why you're miserable actually"

8/19/2009 10:17:37 PM

well yeah...that's what all guys do...


but it wouldn't have been just one time...


i can guarantee you would call me 3-4 months later at 2:30 a.m. when you were really hammered and want me to come over

8/19/2009 10:17:59 PM

ADD TO MY TOPICS

8/19/2009 10:30:11 PM

I did used to be a pretty bad drunk dialer...

8/19/2009 10:36:02 PM

if it weren't for booty calls i'd never get laid

8/19/2009 10:37:46 PM

Dude, booty texts ftw. Send to 15 people at once. You're bound to hit something.

I just sent H8R a pic of me bewbs.

8/19/2009 10:40:15 PM

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"Dude, booty texts ftw. Send to 15 people at once. You're bound to hit something."

It's like fishing. For cock.

8/19/2009 10:41:07 PM

look...i have a certain level of formality required before putting out...

8/19/2009 10:41:42 PM

bewb texts ftw. i always return the favor tho

8/19/2009 10:41:43 PM

hey casey, lemme get them digits. i wanna send you my tits.

8/19/2009 10:42:25 PM

fine...but i'm not coming over until you call me

8/19/2009 10:43:00 PM

i promise to whisper sweet nothings in your ear

8/19/2009 10:43:21 PM

Uh, can I watch? This warrants a trip to Raleigh.

8/19/2009 10:46:15 PM

haha i'll split the cost of the plane ticket with you

8/19/2009 10:47:04 PM

You ladies should come to Orlando! I will booty text you every hour of the drive!

And I'll send dirty pics of firemen.

8/19/2009 10:48:44 PM

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"i don't really have any issues... i just have really really shitty taste in men "

Amen. Well, it's that or maybe all men are just shitty. I'm kinda starting to suspect it's true...

^I have a free pass to Universal... can I come stay w/ you so I can use it??

Btw, why you act like you're old? I'm the same age as you!

[Edited on August 19, 2009 at 10:51 PM. Reason : fs]

8/19/2009 10:49:45 PM

Come visit! I have a guest room and a pool. (Condo)

And I forget my age sometimes. But I am 26. my friends are all in their 30s and they're bad influences.

8/19/2009 10:55:43 PM

i would way rather be single and miserable dissatisfied.

I did the strike-through because being single has never, ever made me miserable...and I've been single plenty. I'll be 30 in a few months, and I've only dated one person for longer than 2 months (and that was ONLY because we had a child, and I was trying to be patient with her for my daughter's sake). Being in a shitty relationship can be miserable in a way that being single cannot.

I really would like find a girl I like and stick with her. Unless that happens, I'll keep doing what I've done all along, though. I'd much rather keep on banging strangers and casually & briefly dating women that I'm not seriously interested in than to settle.

I just can't figure out how in the hell I've made it to damn near 30 years old and only had one serious girlfriend, and being completely dissatisfied with her for pretty much the entire time.

[Edited on August 19, 2009 at 11:02 PM. Reason : ]

8/19/2009 11:01:47 PM

because youre like me, you dont put up with bullshit

8/19/2009 11:08:36 PM

one more vote for "single"

8/19/2009 11:09:40 PM

Divorced and rich, ftw

8/19/2009 11:10:46 PM

I think i'm agreeing with some of the more recent posts. I'm definitely single and dissatisfied. I just got back from a baseball game..I went with 2 couples, 1 guy without his girlfriend and another single guy. Its amazing how different everyone acts from how i know them with and without their SO.

I definitely do not want to be tied down, but it would be nice to have someone now and then. Honestly though, I plan on fully living and enjoying my twenties. I'm not too worried about. Its more frustrating than miserable right now because i know that a few of my friends have actually settled down with their perfect matches...however the other half have settled down with someone that may give them ass but makes their life worse. Its hard to get that point across to them but hopefully in the future it will all prevail. I'm not too worried about it.

elkaybie...you never have to worry about ruining the dynamic. If anything you are more quick-witted and fun to joke with than any guy in the group.

Slave Famous...we'll definitely have to do it up one night. Might as fucking well, we aren't getting any younger.

8/19/2009 11:13:03 PM

I'd think that if you're miserable, it doesn't matter if you're single or married.


misery is misery.

if you're in either situation and at rock bottom then switching teams can only be better.

8/19/2009 11:48:00 PM

Maybe I'm a lot more independant than most...maybe my measure of a miserable relationship is a whooooole lot more miserable than most...but I just don't see how you can really be miserable just because you are single. You don't have to like it--but miserable seems like an awfully strong word (like maybe you haven't really experienced misery).


but man, I will say that (a) being single definitely hampers your social life as you get older, and (b) I am pretty tired of banging chicks I don't know and/or don't give a shit about just for the sake of getting laid.

I mean, I'm not going to stop doing it (unless I find a girlfriend, and the odds of that aren't high, if history is any indication)...but let the record show that I'm more than ready to retire from womanizing.

8/19/2009 11:57:47 PM

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"I'd think that if you're miserable, it doesn't matter if you're single or married. "

Whether you're miserable because of a relationship, or because life is just kicking your ass; misery is misery.

Personally I'd rather have someone around while I am miserable, to help share the misery and get through it quicker. But that doesn't work if they are the cause/source of said misery.

8/19/2009 11:59:49 PM