Well first, I would go ahead and drag it out to see if she gets past it. Throw in some personal details to threaten to talk if she doesn't back off.

If she doesn't, then it's apparent that she gets off and gets turn on by the argument. In that case, back down and apologize. She'll egg it on further, but to no avail.

She'll move on after.

9/2/2009 12:52:21 AM

Apocalypse,

I dated this girl about 7 years ago for about a month. And now I created this thread on the interweb about relationship advice and all and she told everyone how small my dick is.

Is there any way I can compensate? Apologize profusely?

thnx

9/2/2009 9:05:45 AM

not exactly sexual advice, buuuut...

i've been talking to this girl for about 3 months now, and we just started actually dating two weeks ago, and i was on her computer this morning checking my email, facebook, etc. and when i close it out i see her desktop and on her desktop is a folder titled with her ex's name and pictures of him in it. Im not a jealous guy, but i would figure that if she was dating me now, that she wouldn't have a folder with pictures of him and her in it on her desktop.....

would you guys ask her about it if you were in my position, or just let it slide for now?

9/17/2009 1:40:18 PM

photoshop his face out and put yours in

[Edited on September 17, 2009 at 1:41 PM. Reason : asdf]

9/17/2009 1:41:47 PM

No

Don't say a thing about it. Do you clean your desktop all the time? I doubt it.

She likely has had that on there since well before. Perhaps even since when they were dating. If so its of no concern.

If you mention it you're just going to look like an insecure snoop. No one finds that sexy.

If there is a log in there of his daily activities then leave, but still don't say anything about it.

9/17/2009 1:52:47 PM

A sex advice thread that I didn't start. Nice.

9/17/2009 1:54:11 PM

who on earth would come to you for sex advice.

i've read about your family issues.

9/17/2009 1:55:21 PM

I have a folder with pics of my ex, but it's not on my desktop.

After we broke up, I put all the pics of him/us in a different folder so I wouldn't have to see him when I was browsing through my photo gallery. Maybe she's doing something similar.

Start to worry when his pic is the background on her desktop.

[Edited on September 17, 2009 at 2:01 PM. Reason : .]

9/17/2009 1:58:15 PM

bring it up in the middle of sex. thats the best time to talk about issues because everyone is so vulnerable.

9/17/2009 2:00:56 PM

and underneath your hands

9/17/2009 2:02:20 PM

HOW DO I PUT IT IN BUTT?

9/17/2009 2:02:23 PM

Quote :

"who on earth would come to you for sex advice. i've read about your family issues."

INCEST?

9/17/2009 2:04:05 PM

sorry to disappoint, but no.

just general fuckup-istry.

9/17/2009 2:10:31 PM

Let it slide man.

She's dating you now, true. But until you have a real relationship with her, that' something she needs to get over on her own. Don't bring it up and be open to the possibility to talking about it when and if she does.

It's actually a good sign if she's collecting and putting it in a folder to place somewhere else.

You're dating her, so show her a good time and how life and times are going to be so great with you.

Patience and time man.

9/17/2009 6:29:10 PM

wolfpack2105, I see where you are coming from. However, if you all just started dating recently, I wouldn't spend too much time thinking about it. I have stuff on my desktop that I NEVER even use (haha, I need to clean it up), so she may never even look at it. I hope that helps!

9/17/2009 6:40:39 PM

Quote :

" Im not a jealous guy, but i would figure that if she was dating me now, that she wouldn't have a folder with pictures of him and her in it on her desktop....."

9/17/2009 6:42:16 PM

typical 22 year old mentality

9/17/2009 6:43:27 PM

I would hope not.

9/17/2009 6:58:34 PM