^ keep in mind begonias is like 7' tall

9/15/2013 1:40:52 PM

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"I have worn black, low top Dr Martens for at least the last 15 years. Summer and winter. I have like a dozen pairs that I never throw away for some reason. I am married with two boys, but I never seemed to have much trouble getting women back before I met my wife. Having been out of the game for a while I have no suggestions for picking up chicks, however, I strongly recommend this footwear. You're welcome."

these are fucking hideous, they are straight out of the 90's

do not wear these unless you are trying to pick up dorky girls

9/15/2013 1:47:31 PM

Please don't change who you are for a girl. Try looking other places.

9/15/2013 1:50:02 PM

if no women want you, and you want to find a woman, you should probably change who you are

9/15/2013 3:15:09 PM

Even OJ wouldn't wear those ugly ass shoes.

9/15/2013 3:18:59 PM

I would change anything for begonias

..looking into leg stretching atm

9/15/2013 3:20:02 PM

girls like different things too. the styles described in this thread are not styles that would attract me to a guy. so i say dress in what you are comfortable in, as long as you don't look dirty/like a slob you should do fine.

9/15/2013 3:49:50 PM

I bought a penis pump for ddk. I'm up to 5 inches now. Idk how much longer I should keep working on it

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9/15/2013 3:50:13 PM

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"I must be the only girl who doesn't really care if a guy wears cargo shorts"

Same here, Minka. I never even paid attention until I noticed it being discussed on here so often.

9/15/2013 4:13:14 PM

Gross.

9/15/2013 4:15:29 PM

yeah the yellow stitching wtf

9/15/2013 4:23:04 PM

those shoes are for indians or for caucasian grandfathers

9/15/2013 4:23:45 PM

Or ska/punk fans



...doctor martens good for waffle making kicking through the shin /nofx

9/15/2013 4:27:15 PM

clothes aren't likely your problem, man

any woman who says so is superficial, and you wouldn't want to date her

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"as long as you don't look dirty/like a slob you should do fine"

this

it's probably more a function of where you've been looking for women

9/15/2013 4:27:32 PM

Getting a motorcycle worked for me and I'm the nerdiest motherfucker you will ever meet.

9/15/2013 4:28:35 PM

Bars aren't a good place to meet women for a LTR, but they are good for finding women to sleep with. Having a few more notches on your belt will probably help you be more confident and thus more attractive. If you go this route then you really have to go out with the intention of sleeping with someone. It probably isn't gonna happen on its own, especially if you're unremarkable physically.

Although it's still looked down upon by many people, online dating is one of the best ways to meet women. It's a really mixed bag and a place like OKC has no shortage of crazy, but there are some diamonds in the rough too.

Other than that, never let the things you really enjoy/are passionate about in life take a back seat to the pursuit of women. Those are the things that make you genuine/interesting, and that's critical, especially if you want to attract the "right" kind of woman.

Lastly, please lift. Having a high shoulder:waist ratio makes things so much easier. If you're fat, diet down.

9/15/2013 4:34:24 PM

Learn to not give a fuck
..probably the most important thing I have learned over the years

[Edited on September 15, 2013 at 4:37 PM. Reason : Also..if you have a car..put in on bags for moar low. Sophisticated women love stanced rides. ]

9/15/2013 4:35:38 PM

so this is a thing now... i don't know. to each his own, but i wouldn't wear one, they look clownish.

http://bligidyblog.wordpress.com/tag/shoes-men-blue-pink-yellow-green-grey/










This is one is not bad, though, and I could see myself wearing it. But only blue, not pink or yellow or green like that.



[Edited on September 15, 2013 at 4:36 PM. Reason : ]

9/15/2013 4:36:02 PM

[] Dress shoes
[] Peacocking

Pick one.

9/15/2013 4:38:33 PM

You can match your new iphone5c and floss that plastic

9/15/2013 4:40:51 PM

^^ haha, exactly.

even that last one that i don't object to, you still can't wear it with a suit. has to be worn with khakis or jeans.

^ yeah, coordinate with your ipods, iphones, ipads, etc.


[Edited on September 15, 2013 at 4:42 PM. Reason : ]

9/15/2013 4:41:47 PM

Check out what people wear when going out in chicago/la/ny etc. if they wanted a guy who wears polos and jeans out there are like 1000938 other dudes in your area that probably wear the same shit

[Edited on September 16, 2013 at 12:55 AM. Reason : J]

9/16/2013 12:54:41 AM

The tucked in shirt or not tucked in is CRUCIAL...

What's the verdict?

Does the verdict on tucked or not tucked matter if you're morbidly american?

9/16/2013 1:48:18 AM

It depends on the shirt and the wearer's physique

Never tuck a shirt into skinny jeans unless you are in really good shape

9/16/2013 2:05:29 AM

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"Learn to not give a fuck ..probably the most important thing I have learned over the years"

this is really good advice, no sarcasm

it works in that weird, reverse-psychology sort of way

When you don't give a fuck, then you don't just throw your attention around at girls, you're doing your own thing. Girls love attention, and if you're around and not giving it to them like they expect then first it will bug them, then it will gnaw at them, next thing you know they'll be crawling up your leg to get you to even acknowledge them.

9/16/2013 7:40:00 AM

I wear cargo shorts AND Birkenstocks. Clearly this is why I never get laid.

9/16/2013 9:02:44 AM

Just do the opposite of what your instinct tells you

9/16/2013 9:08:52 AM

In my personal opinion, I like a guy in fashionably cut dark blue denim. Looks best with a type of fitted shirt (button down, designer tshirt, sweater, etc). And yes, decent shoes.

Also EVERYTHING Sayer said. Just because you have X amount of qualities, doesn't mean every girl needs to hear about what an awesome catch you are. Ditto the no undies as well.

9/16/2013 10:17:40 AM

9/16/2013 10:25:07 AM

This thread is hilarious and sad at the same time.

9/16/2013 10:42:49 AM

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"this is really good advice, no sarcasm it works in that weird, reverse-psychology sort of way When you don't give a fuck, then you don't just throw your attention around at girls, you're doing your own thing. Girls love attention, and if you're around and not giving it to them like they expect then first it will bug them, then it will gnaw at them, next thing you know they'll be crawling up your leg to get you to even acknowledge them."

If you're wearing camouflage cargo shorts, sandals, a fedora, and sporting a neckbeard, it's time to start giving a fuck. "Not giving a fuck" is great for guys that already have their shit together for the most part. There's a spectrum that spans from "not trying at all" and "trying too hard". Somewhere in the middle, there's a sweet spot where you actually are trying but it appears effortless.

9/16/2013 10:48:31 AM

when people say that you need to not give a fuck to get girls, they mean that you need to be put together and actually give a fuck, you should just be confident about it and give off the attitude that being put together is not a big deal to you.

9/16/2013 10:51:44 AM

yeah, "don't give a fuck" in this situation doesn't mean dress like a slob and have no self respect

9/16/2013 12:09:36 PM

I personally don't like guys that probably spend more time shopping than me, or guys that look like they spent more time getting ready.....

and I really don't like guys wearing name brands like it is the only thing that matters..... I wouldn't say I like slobs, but I just do not care about these things in life. I think life is supposed to be more than that and so should a relationship.

that being said a guy dressed like he is going kayaking or hiking later is always a turn on,only if they actually do said active things.


[Edited on September 16, 2013 at 1:30 PM. Reason : .]

9/16/2013 1:19:26 PM

how do the ladies feel about sideburns?

9/16/2013 1:23:54 PM

The funny thing for me is that, just being honest here, making the relationship work is actually much more difficult than finding somebody that you want to be with. Yet, most people only seem interested in finding a good fit and then they just give up after that.

9/16/2013 1:26:52 PM

This thread is 90% sad 10% funny

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9/16/2013 1:43:29 PM

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"Please don't change who you are for a girl."

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"i say dress in what you are comfortable in, as long as you don't look dirty/like a slob you should do fine."

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"any woman who says so is superficial, and you wouldn't want to date her"

No no no. If people don't like hanging around you the problem isn't everyone else, the problem is you. Everybody has a reason for improving themselves whether they admit it or not, if you are having trouble attracting women that is a good of a reason as any to start making yourself better. What are the downsides to dressing better? It's work? You might have to try hard? You might have to leave your comfort zone? Those aren't good enough excuses. There isn't a woman out there that is your perfect match who is just waiting for you and you haven't met yet, that's some Disney movie BS. You have to MAKE yourself be the man that women you like want to date. That doesn't mean pretend or put up some facade, actually be the well dressed guy, actually be the interesting guy, actually be the successful guy. And don't say "I shouldn't have to change and if women don't appriciate me then I don't want to be with them anyways", then fine, things will stay the same and you will still be alone, or lower your standards and settle for something else. Yeah you might be a "nice guy" well there's a nice guy right behind you that dresses better, is funnier, and he knows how to dance, who will women go for? Women aren't superficial for wanting these qualities, you want the same thing, you don't notice the average looking poorly dressed woman, she fades into the background, she looks like every other girl. You notice the well dressed average looking woman because she stands out. You do this even if you say you "don't care how a woman dresses" you only don't care after she's caught your eye. Women are the same way. Dress like the man that the type of women you like go after, this is just like going to school for the things that employers you want to hire you hire for, it's not selling out, it's being a man and working for the things you want.

[Edited on September 16, 2013 at 2:12 PM. Reason : I'm in outside sales...]

9/16/2013 2:09:59 PM

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"collared shirt + khaki shorts (above the knee but don't be ridiculous) + NB 993's = panty dropper"

so begonias falls for guys from 2006



add: Holy shit when did New Balance become so expensive?

9/16/2013 2:17:48 PM

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"^ I think that's it...also going by Eric in Greensboro, just fyi"

WhoTF is Eric?

9/16/2013 2:23:25 PM

^^LOL, and 1996. But I still think it's a great generic look for people who want to be as plain as possible and not think about clothes.

9/16/2013 2:32:35 PM

^^^ I had a similar thought . Everyone likes different styles though obviously. I just never wear shorts and very rarely wear polos so obviously that style isn't going to mesh with me anyway.

[Edited on September 16, 2013 at 3:11 PM. Reason : ]

9/16/2013 3:08:20 PM

its a classic look that people have worn for decades, replace the 993's with something else and its what your parents wore to college too

(well not all of your parents, some of your parents were probably dorks)

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"add: Holy shit when did New Balance become so expensive?"

when have they not been that price?

[Edited on September 16, 2013 at 3:14 PM. Reason : .]

9/16/2013 3:14:27 PM

Let's all dress like Steve Jobs.

9/16/2013 3:16:14 PM

Didn't say it was terrible, it's just not my style at all. I don't view it as super classic but I don't think it's bad; I'd just feel like a high schooler.

However, much like womens' fashion, there are several styles that can work for guys but they don't all work for everybody (body types, personality, and other things in varying degrees). There are plenty of styles that look fine that don't work for me and some that work for me that wouldn't work for others.


[Edited on September 16, 2013 at 3:31 PM. Reason : ]

9/16/2013 3:17:26 PM

How come people don't get 993s in fun colors?

9/16/2013 3:18:42 PM

First of all great Thread! But whats the deal on saying No Cargo shorts. Thats the only kind of shorts Ill wear.. just get them Baggy and loose! Never had a problem with women or girl friends. Im married to a very attractive lady and we have 2 kids, and still i wear my cargo shorts! lolol

9/16/2013 4:02:46 PM

You have a wife and kids, I'd say the more cargo pockets the better in your situation.

9/16/2013 4:13:47 PM

obvious alias is obvious

in other news, men should never wear shorts unless they're engaging in vigorous physical activity

9/16/2013 4:16:43 PM

90+ degrees and going to a picnic...jeans?

90+ degrees and being a tourist somewhere walking around all day. Lightweight hiking pants?

9/16/2013 4:19:11 PM