MinkaGrl01
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lol
[Edited on February 27, 2013 at 2:05 PM. Reason : weird transition to the top of a page ] 2/27/2013 2:02:45 PM |
grimx #maketwwgreatagain 32337 Posts user info edit post |
i'm not sure what that certain age is, but i'm certainly not pushing for that kind of speed in a relationship 2/27/2013 2:08:04 PM |
Meg All American 6759 Posts user info edit post |
i had some coworkers who got engaged 6 months after knowing each other. another got married maybe 5 months after meeting the guy.
what in the world 2/27/2013 2:12:45 PM |
grimx #maketwwgreatagain 32337 Posts user info edit post |
i had a coworker do that.
divorced, 6 months later remarried 2/27/2013 2:16:26 PM |
jaZon All American 27048 Posts user info edit post |
I know a chick that got married after knowing a dude for a month 2/27/2013 2:31:43 PM |
dropdeadkate nerdlord 11725 Posts user info edit post |
^^ that sounds like they were bwning prior to the divorce and were just waiting for the first marriage to be over] 2/27/2013 2:31:47 PM |
Tarun almost 11687 Posts user info edit post |
why wait when its true love at first sight etc etc 2/27/2013 2:33:19 PM |
grimx #maketwwgreatagain 32337 Posts user info edit post |
^^ she was bwning another dude during the separation, she split from her bwn-mate when she divorced and met new guy after that 2/27/2013 2:35:34 PM |
punchmonk Double Entendre 22300 Posts user info edit post |
I know of a dude that proposed after knowing her three days and they have been married for 40 years. It sometimes works.
Ken and I got engaged after 4 months. We have had our share of stupid while being married (mostly me) but commitment in the end did win out even over crazy. Commitment=love to me. 2/27/2013 2:36:45 PM |
Meg All American 6759 Posts user info edit post |
i don't necessarily think there's anything wrong with it, at least one of the couples i'm referring to i THINK will turn out fine. i am skeptical of the process in general though.
[Edited on February 27, 2013 at 2:43 PM. Reason : ] 2/27/2013 2:42:57 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
for every jack there's a jill 2/27/2013 2:56:51 PM |
Slave Famous Become Wrath 34079 Posts user info edit post |
For every Jeep username there's a fat dyke with aids 2/27/2013 2:58:57 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
scarily, yes. you are probably right. 2/27/2013 3:02:18 PM |
mrfrog ☯ 15145 Posts user info edit post |
I think that 6 months should be the standard minimum before getting hitched.
By that time you should at least be getting on the same page about if you want the same thing or not. After that point, either some external factor is causing you to put it off (finances, school, bankruptcy, etc), you don't value marriage, or it's just not going well. "Information gathering" isn't a very good excuse. Life is only so long. 2/27/2013 3:06:44 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "In light of the recent posts with the douche who is cheating with his friend's wife, I need to confess something myself.
Recently, I went on a business trip to a major city not because I have to but because there is a girl there I have crushed on for years and I wanted to see her again. We used to see each other all the time but life has gotten busy and it's been four years since our last visit. This wouldn't be a problem in general but I'm married and the only reason I came was to slip away from the crowd and meet her for dinner. What is worse is that my wife knows of her and can sense the chemistry between the other girl and myself. We were two people who were removed by large distance and never single at the same time, so that tension still sort of surrounds us. So not only did I travel here under false pretense but I also lied to my wife about what I did the night on the town with my old crush. I feel bad. I didn't and would never do anything with her but there was something in me that wanted a secret rendezvous and hang out like we used to. Now I'm living with this lie." |
to be honest, i think that if you didn't do anything with the crush besides reconnect and spend some time together then this may be a secret to keep to yourself. especially if you can say you finally got that thought in the back of your mind about her out of there.
did it take you lying and traveling to see her? yes. but if nothing came of it and nothing will come of it then I think you are OK. it's if you are planning another trip to do it again that will make this a problem.2/27/2013 6:25:44 PM |
Meg All American 6759 Posts user info edit post |
If I ever found out my SO had done something like that I'd be completely heartbroken. 2/27/2013 9:06:00 PM |
ShawnaC123 2019 Egg Champ 46681 Posts user info edit post |
Damn, somebody on page 304 lost their virginity the day before I did. 2/27/2013 9:17:10 PM |
freshmonkey HULK SMASH 3870 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "in response to
"The 2nd one...has it happened 4 or 5 times with the SAME girl?"
Yes, with the same girl. I will unfortunately see her again as we have some of the same friends but hopefully we won't talk to each other. She wont tell anyone because then she would have to admit her sexual history. I feel bad, but at the same time I'm kinda relieved that she won't talk to me again. I've pretty much forced myself to act like her friend since the first time. It's bad, but seeing her sad hurts me more than I could have ever imagined and yet I really am disgusted by her. I'm messed up, I know. " |
2/28/2013 11:49:37 PM |
Wraith All American 27257 Posts user info edit post |
Slow Friday @ work + finished up with most of my tasks for the week = accepting confessions 3/1/2013 10:00:45 AM |
punchmonk Double Entendre 22300 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "regarding a fuck..I want to fuck you...period." |
It's been a while since I got a confession like this.
So....does this mean I draw the penis? 3/2/2013 11:00:51 AM |
Tarun almost 11687 Posts user info edit post |
fred confessing to you doesnt count 3/2/2013 11:02:32 AM |
BubbleBobble Super Duper Veteran 114358 Posts user info edit post |
BubbleBobble is now accepting confessions, bruhs :3
3/2/2013 9:28:56 PM |
BubbleBobble Super Duper Veteran 114358 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "I just met someone about 2 months ago and we just started dating yesterday... How soon is too soon to bwn?" |
3/2/2013 11:29:37 PM |
richthofen All American 15758 Posts user info edit post |
I maintain that on the first date or two is a bad idea if you want the relationship to last. After that, YMMV. 3/2/2013 11:30:56 PM |
freshmonkey HULK SMASH 3870 Posts user info edit post |
Confess to me 3/4/2013 10:52:53 PM |
likeaboss New Recruit 6 Posts user info edit post |
punchmonk
I cant blame him for asking you for a fuck....
[Edited on March 4, 2013 at 10:59 PM. Reason : ntng] 3/4/2013 10:58:19 PM |
MinkaGrl01
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[Edited on March 4, 2013 at 11:06 PM. Reason : Nvm. It's not my business I guess]
3/4/2013 11:04:46 PM |
settledown Suspended 11583 Posts user info edit post |
I ADMIT IT
i sent that confession to punchmonk 3/4/2013 11:09:21 PM |
qntmfred retired 40726 Posts user info edit post |
3/4/2013 11:25:54 PM |
settledown Suspended 11583 Posts user info edit post |
I TAKE IT BACK
IT WASN'T ME
[Edited on March 4, 2013 at 11:35 PM. Reason : oh shit qntmfred is pissed] 3/4/2013 11:35:29 PM |
punchmonk Double Entendre 22300 Posts user info edit post |
3/5/2013 12:02:33 AM |
sparky Garage Mod 12301 Posts user info edit post |
question is....who doesn't dream about fucking punchmonk 3/5/2013 8:32:01 AM |
DivaBaby19 Davidbaby19 45208 Posts user info edit post |
I know I do 3/5/2013 8:45:46 AM |
Krallum 56A0D3 15294 Posts user info edit post |
I have not, but I don't get to choose what I dream about
I'm Krallum and I approved this message. 3/5/2013 9:00:14 AM |
settledown Suspended 11583 Posts user info edit post |
it's got to be awkward being the overlord of a message board full of dudes that want to fuck your wife 3/5/2013 9:08:36 AM |
sparky Garage Mod 12301 Posts user info edit post |
i'm sure its awkward but fulfilling at the same time 3/5/2013 9:15:15 AM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
i'm sure it makes their sex life that much better.
Roll play night baby, who should i be tonight?
10 minutes later
Hi, i'm EMCE 3/5/2013 9:22:54 AM |
sparky Garage Mod 12301 Posts user info edit post |
HAHAHAHA 3/5/2013 9:33:56 AM |
LunaK LOSER :( 23634 Posts user info edit post |
well that'd be slightly awkward 3/5/2013 9:34:49 AM |
pttyndal WINGS!!!!! 35217 Posts user info edit post |
3/5/2013 9:36:38 AM |
Krallum 56A0D3 15294 Posts user info edit post |
I'm always flattered when people say my wife is beautiful
I'm Krallum and I approved this message. 3/5/2013 9:40:07 AM |
punchmonk Double Entendre 22300 Posts user info edit post |
3/5/2013 11:50:05 AM |
BigHitSunday Dick Danger 51059 Posts user info edit post |
3/5/2013 12:42:55 PM |
settledown Suspended 11583 Posts user info edit post |
hahhhahahahhhahhhhhaahh 3/5/2013 2:15:08 PM |
freshmonkey HULK SMASH 3870 Posts user info edit post |
confess to me please 3/6/2013 10:48:14 PM |
freshmonkey HULK SMASH 3870 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "update on the girl who I have hurt emotionally 4 or 5 times...
She confronted me when we were around a group of friends. I had been trying to ignore and avoid eye contact but she waited a little bit and then she made a b line towards me and started tearing/crying up and made a small scene. She showed me the text i had sent her and told me how I could do that to her. The girls in our group stepped us aside and talked with us. I really wanted to let it all out but I didnt because it would ruin her reputation with this group and wouldve made me seem like a guy with anger management problems. We went to Moes after...
I sent her a text the next day telling her to stop talking to me and to delete my number. I told her i was cool with hanging with the same group of people but that I would prefer if she kept her distance. I got a call, an hour or two after I had sent the text, from one of the girls in the group asking me what I had said to her in the text. Apparently she had gotten upset and told another girl in the group who then told the girl that called me. I ended up telling the girl that called me almost everything I knew about the main girl. She understood where i was coming from but said that she would still be friends with both of us. When I was telling her the things I noticed she was kinda shocked. I probably shouldnt have told her but I really needed to let her know why I had done the things I did with the main girl. I really hope... i really really hope she doesnt talk to me when our group of friends meet up again." |
3/6/2013 11:11:34 PM |
moron All American 34142 Posts user info edit post |
^ where's the backstory on that... 3/6/2013 11:39:13 PM |
LuckezCharm All American 3552 Posts user info edit post |
^^that seriously sounds like some immature middle school bullshit. also, you sound like a woman 3/7/2013 1:12:51 AM |
Exiled Eyes up here ^^ 5918 Posts user info edit post |
^This
Also, I'll take confessions! 3/7/2013 7:15:39 AM |
raiden All American 10505 Posts user info edit post |
^^ 3/7/2013 7:20:05 AM |