Thinking more about it the Internet was far different in 2004... online wasn’t the real world, no one felt like anything said here mattered, even online dating was often mocked and not widely accepted. Facebook was successful because they marketed themselves as NOT a dating site despite being setup just like dating sites of the time.

8/30/2018 8:02:01 PM

Speaking as someone who showed up to his share of fights, "online" most certainly fucking was the "real world."

8/30/2018 9:12:06 PM

Yeah I agree.

But many,many people didn’t view it that way, now we know we were wrong. It was always real

8/30/2018 9:23:09 PM

If You Die In The Game, You Die For Real!

8/30/2018 9:27:57 PM

The internet isn't real

8/30/2018 9:53:58 PM

I don't recall these "n-word rankings" either... any of you guys happen to have a link to the thread?

8/31/2018 8:28:39 AM

Sounds like something I would have done, not nope: https://thewolfweb.com/message_topic.aspx?topic=512578&page=3

8/31/2018 9:06:09 AM

Quote :

"This is prejudice. If someone has gone through all the steps to fully transition into their intended gender and you still can't see past them being Trans in the first place, then that's pretty textbook prejudice. You're prejudging a person based on parts and not on who they are as a person. "

cutting off their dick and leaving a wound that has to be constantly dilated to keep it from healing back does not make them a woman. fuck off with that " prejudiced against trannies cause you won't fuck them" nonsense.

8/31/2018 5:46:37 PM

Wait, what? Jk I don't wish to know any more.

8/31/2018 5:51:32 PM

You sure know a lot about sexual reassignment surgery for a piece of shit transphobe who doesn't seem to understand the first thing about transsexual people.

8/31/2018 5:52:38 PM

But if a trans person shoots someone over parking spot, would he be against them then?

9/2/2018 5:00:46 AM

I'm with the ones that say keep dating her at least a few more times. I mean, it could end up being a very fulfilling relationship. You might find yourself enjoying all aspects of it (including playing with the out of date plumbing).

Or you could get to know them better and decide that the relationship isn't for you. Give it a chance, that way you 1)don't get accused of being bigoted, or 2) aren't left wondering "what if"

9/2/2018 11:20:18 AM

https://twitter.com/angryblkhoemo/status/1037894874316660742?s=21

9/6/2018 11:52:44 PM

Quote :

"Update: We met up for dinner last night and had a good long talk. She was really grateful to have that second date, which made me a bit uncomfortable in a way. Apparently she's had a really hard time in the dating scene in general once she dropped the T-bomb. It's something I've never really considered before, how difficult it must be to date and form meaningful relationships as trans. It's actually a point of concern for me, since she says she's actually never had a relationship that lasted more than a couple dates; maybe I'm psyching myself too much about it, but that's a lot of pressure. It's also ridiculously sad, because she's a pretty awesome person. We talked a good bit about her transition, which turned out to be a pretty interesting topic for me to listen to. And for anyone on TWW that's curious we did talk a good bit about how she approaches physical intimacy. She is pre-SRS,but full transition is an end goal for her. She says she's pretty divorced from her genitalia when it comes to sex, and prefers to not have that area serviced at all; which is kind of a load off my mind in one respect. On the flip side of that I was concerned about how much actual enjoyment she could derive from sex, but she assures me she gets a lot of pleasure out of the journey and doesn't focus/care so much about the destination. However, in talking about all that she did admit that in a lot of respects she's still a virgin, so that'd be an interesting journey. "

9/17/2018 9:34:10 AM

9/17/2018 10:09:59 AM

My inbox is open for business

12/21/2018 10:20:35 AM

Quote :

"Christmas was business as usual. We're still seeing each other, though we're taking things pretty slow. She actually lives (and spends most of her time) in Concord/Charlotte so at this point distance is the biggest factor in how our relationship pans out rather than anything to do with her being trans. Because holidays, we haven't gotten to spend a whole lot of time together recently, and right now we're happy not really putting firm definitions on what our relationship is. Likely it'll be a little bit before we see each other again, as she's actually getting breast augmentation surgery on Thursday, and understandably she doesn't really want to have me see her right off the aftermath of that. The time together we have has been pretty great though, I will say that. As far as physical intimacy we've taken things pretty slow. Partially because positive physical interactions with men are pretty new for her, partially because it's new for me being with a trans-woman, and partially (I think, though she's never explicitly said so) that she kind of wanted to wait until after her surgery since that really brings her a lot closer to feeling comfortable in her body, especially in sexual situations. So tl;dr we're still seeing each other, but taking things at a snail's pace."

1/7/2019 12:53:42 PM

Oh man this confession makes me happy!

Keep it up

1/7/2019 1:07:24 PM

Just went through my Inbox reminiscing, and I used to get tons of confessions. And super cereal ones that I'm proud to say I never shared.Made me miss this thread.

With that said, send me some confessions!

1/12/2019 10:03:46 PM

Wait weren't you SUPPOSED to share them?

[Edited on January 13, 2019 at 7:37 AM. Reason : E]

1/13/2019 7:37:04 AM

BetterOffNotSendingConfessions

1/13/2019 8:35:21 AM

To clarify, never revealed who the sender was.

1/13/2019 7:12:33 PM

congratulations?

1/14/2019 8:53:15 AM

So how's the new flame with an old wick?

Sorry, I couldn't stop myself. Butforrealthoughbestofluck.

2/8/2019 2:48:19 PM

Someone send me a confession. I'm bored and procrastinating right now.

2/8/2019 5:04:33 PM

Quote :

"RE: Greg Fischel, it was porn. I was told from a reliable source working at WRAL"

3/20/2019 2:49:20 PM

^ is the PMer a reliable source though ?

3/20/2019 3:42:08 PM

they misspelled his last name, so there's that

3/20/2019 3:44:06 PM

^^ yes

3/20/2019 3:58:30 PM

how you goin to get fired for porn. was he like hey jennifer come check out the hooters on this bitch

3/20/2019 7:52:52 PM

^
I’m guessing he was using the weather map to record himself over his favorite videos and got caught

3/21/2019 7:01:42 PM

Quote :

"So I think I've concluded this week that my marriage is on the way out. I could barely get out of bed because I was pretty torn up by the prospect on Monday but now I'm coming to terms with it a bit more. I'm not going to force the issue or make moves to end it right away, but it is becoming very clear that happy ever after isn't in our future. The big deal for me is that she is constantly frustrated and complains when things aren't 100% the way she prefers them or goes to her plan. This isn't a new thing. It has been going on since early in our relationship and I just told myself I could deal with it and that if I worked hard to minimize the areas in which she's frustrated that I could make things better. As time passes both are proving to be false. My patience when she gets frustrated has eroded from unwavering to near hair trigger and when I do something to help out (laundry, clean, make breakfast, fill in blank here) I'm fully expecting to hear a complaint about what she would have liked to have seen done differently or what she would have done if it were her. Also, now that there are more things in the mix (house, kid, dog, etc) there are more things about which she has preference and complains (she'd stack the washed bottles x way, why did I pack y fruit as part of baby's lunch when there is a similar fruit for breakfast, etc...). I just really can't take it any more because it's extremely defeating and takes away the joy of spending time with her. If these were serious, life threatening items that required correction, then I'd understand. But they are just her preferences and there isn't room for much other than executing precisely against those. What's worse, is sometimes her preference changes and I hear her complain about that even though I went out of my way to make her happy. I've spoken to her about this, and she's clearly trying, but we've been here before and her efforts last for maybe a month and then it is back in full force. There is always some excuse, whether it be job, parents, weather, etc. By now, I believe I've lost hope that things will change in any meaningful way and that my enthusiasm and engagement for the relationship will continue to dwindle because there is very little room for me to be me. I'm not sure when the end will be but I have to finally admit it's coming."

sorry to hear that ending a relationship that you care about but isn't working is very difficult to do. even if you have come to terms with it, don't underestimate the toll it can take on you. take care of yourself



[Edited on March 22, 2019 at 4:59 PM. Reason : sure ain't good]

3/22/2019 4:51:31 PM

^bummer

mx ex was always complaining about stupid crap too. i dealt with it but eventually the problem solved itself and she left me. no regrats



[Edited on March 22, 2019 at 8:01 PM. Reason : d]

3/22/2019 7:58:13 PM

Quote :

"I know some very disappointing information about a few members of this site. I've never been the kind of person who gossips, but lately sometimes I want to spill"

4/6/2019 12:19:44 PM

That's a lame ass confession

4/6/2019 12:43:40 PM

Quote :

"Bigman157 is really just a combination of EMCE and I, but since EMCE just got married, he wanted to give it up."

4/6/2019 1:59:21 PM

Quote :

"That's a lame ass confession"

lol ikr. "I have some secrets. I won't to tell them but I won't."

4/7/2019 1:15:48 AM

Quote :

" we're still seeing each other, but taking things at a snail's pace"

how's things going?

8/5/2019 10:50:25 AM

I hit 'em up and will update if I get any news.

8/5/2019 12:38:54 PM

Update:

Quote :

"We actually ended things amicably several months ago. In the end it was the distance that did us in rather than any issues with her being trans. For anyone interested, we did spend a good deal of time with each other after the holidays. We went out for dinners and other events like any other couple, and I never once felt like she was something I needed to hide from my friends or the public-at-large. My parents (who she never met) were a mixed bag; my dad didn't really seem to care so long as I was happy, but my fairly liberal minded mother was pretty disconcerted. We did wind up going all the way romantically. :buttsecks gif: Like I had previously mentioned she never wanted/expressed interest in having her plumbing attended to, and actually I never once saw her with less than a thong on. Which, admittedly made sexy time a little strange but nothing too mood-killing. So, all in all we both learned a bit about ourselves and I like to think it was a positive experience for both of us. We've swapped a few texts here and there, but I doubt we'll even spend appreciable amounts of time together again. The distance was the bitch of it all, but I think if it weren't for that we may still be together. I'm actually pretty seriously seeing another lady now. She's cis-gendered, for anyone interested about that. Also, yes I've told the new girl about her."

8/5/2019 1:27:31 PM

Quote :

" it was a positive experience for both of us"

glad to hear. good luck with newlady

8/5/2019 2:12:03 PM

I'm open for confessions. I have been sporadic in TWW use for a few years, but back in the day, confessions thread was a great way to connect with people i didn't normally chat with.

cheesy, but whatevs.

8/5/2019 3:06:57 PM

Gimme them confessions

8/5/2019 5:50:08 PM

Quote :

"Jay-Z is a hugely overrated rapper but I don’t know how to bring this up with my friends Hasn’t been good since “hard knock life” tbh "

8/5/2019 10:06:57 PM

Give me the dirt TWW-ers!

8/6/2019 11:10:47 AM

Quote :

""So I think I've concluded this week that my marriage is on the way out. I could barely get out of bed because I was pretty torn up by the prospect on Monday but now I'm coming to terms with it a bit more. I'm not going to force the issue or make moves to end it right away, but it is becoming very clear that happy ever after isn't in our future. The big deal for me is that she is constantly frustrated and complains when things aren't 100% the way she prefers them or goes to her plan. This isn't a new thing. It has been going on since early in our relationship and I just told myself I could deal with it and that if I worked hard to minimize the areas in which she's frustrated that I could make things better. As time passes both are proving to be false. My patience when she gets frustrated has eroded from unwavering to near hair trigger and when I do something to help out (laundry, clean, make breakfast, fill in blank here) I'm fully expecting to hear a complaint about what she would have liked to have seen done differently or what she would have done if it were her. Also, now that there are more things in the mix (house, kid, dog, etc) there are more things about which she has preference and complains (she'd stack the washed bottles x way, why did I pack y fruit as part of baby's lunch when there is a similar fruit for breakfast, etc...). I just really can't take it any more because it's extremely defeating and takes away the joy of spending time with her. If these were serious, life threatening items that required correction, then I'd understand. But they are just her preferences and there isn't room for much other than executing precisely against those. What's worse, is sometimes her preference changes and I hear her complain about that even though I went out of my way to make her happy. I've spoken to her about this, and she's clearly trying, but we've been here before and her efforts last for maybe a month and then it is back in full force. There is always some excuse, whether it be job, parents, weather, etc. By now, I believe I've lost hope that things will change in any meaningful way and that my enthusiasm and engagement for the relationship will continue to dwindle because there is very little room for me to be me. I'm not sure when the end will be but I have to finally admit it's coming.""

So, this is a very eloquent way of describing exactly what was going on with my marriage about a year before it ended. I later found out that her period of never being satisfied correlated almost exactly to her starting, and then prolonging, an affair. She ended up getting knocked up by this other guy, and then she tried to pin it all on me as being an emotionally detached person that was never there for her or was not concerned about her needs. Since I stayed in the fight and fought for so long, I ended up losing much more than just my marriage. Our marriage counselor ended up telling me straight up that I needed to get out. She basically called me a fool for staying with her for so long.

My advice would be to draw a line between you fighting for your marriage on one hand, and not letting this stress get to your professional life on the other. I'm not saying that she is having an affair, but something is definitely not working out when she is constantly complaining about the shit that you do. Your main focus should be quality control. Don't let this marriage bring down other aspects of your own personal life with it. Furthermore, don't be afraid to shut the door on somebody that doesn't want to be with you, or simply just respect you, solely because you have a child. You still have your rights as a parent.

[Edited on August 6, 2019 at 5:58 PM. Reason : g]

8/6/2019 5:55:13 PM

Quote :

"Our marriage counselor ended up telling me straight up that I needed to get out. She basically called me a fool for staying with her for so long."

god damn

8/6/2019 8:02:32 PM

I'd love a green inbox.

8/8/2019 1:50:45 AM

i've got the weirdest boner right now

8/8/2019 6:59:15 AM

Green inboxes can do that to people.




[Edited on August 8, 2019 at 7:07 AM. Reason : red x]

8/8/2019 7:05:09 AM