$5 scandal

6/19/2009 12:14:23 PM

4 pages.

[Edited on June 19, 2009 at 12:15 PM. Reason : damn this shit is slow.]

6/19/2009 12:15:00 PM

Actually, it would have been a $4.09 scandal, cuz if I'd let him pay, I'd have gotten the large.

6/19/2009 12:15:11 PM

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"I'm gonna stalk out the guy from Starbucks and ask him what his intentions were. I think that's the only real solution to this nonsense."

No need to do so. 99.9% chance he was trying to hit that.

And he did this:

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"he was out the door with his coffee while i waited for my latte."

...because you declined to let him pay. Had you accepted, he would have tried to run some more game.

6/19/2009 12:23:12 PM

Man, what kinda guy tries to pick up married women in a coffee shop at 8am when it's obvious they're on their way to work and don't have time to sit around and chat?

6/19/2009 12:25:19 PM

This is four fucking pages and it was just about a latte?

6/19/2009 12:28:12 PM

You can thank Samwise's idiocy for it getting past page 2. We spent 2 pages telling her she's nuts for thinking anyone could (or would want to) slip roofies in my latte at 8am on a Friday in a fucking Starbucks.

6/19/2009 12:29:06 PM

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"Man, what kinda guy tries to pick up married women in a coffee shop at 8am when it's obvious they're on their way to work and don't have time to sit around and chat?"

Guys try to pick up women all the time and in many different places. A lot of guys like coffee shops and grocery stores as opposed to bars and parties. The time and place shouldn't matter...the marriage thing maybe. I know that when I was younger, you could have shoved a wedding ring right in my face and I wouldn't have noticed it. Now the first thing I do is look for a ring. And then there are the guys where that doesn't matter. They look at is as a "hey...if she's gonna cheat she's gonna cheat...might as well be with me."

[Edited on June 19, 2009 at 12:33 PM. Reason : .]

6/19/2009 12:32:28 PM

Guys buy my girl drinks all the time when she is out. The way I see it, that's less I have to buy. They spend the money to get her drunk then she comes home and fucks me. Pretty good deal, actually.

6/19/2009 12:36:41 PM

its an older guy. rules change on whats fair game. just because they didnt succeed with the taken women mentioned here doesnt mean theyve never taken a wife/gf home before

hell, people on here talk about banging wives and gfs. you people have blinders on in this thread

6/19/2009 12:51:39 PM

Agreed. Some dudes are really ballsy. I was at a bar with my arm around my girl once and a dude walked up and offered to buy her a beer.

6/19/2009 12:54:21 PM

I mean, I'd say you shouldn't take it, simply because you're sending the wrong message to him. Now, if you don't give a flying fuck and you're willing to deal with him possibly being a crazy person who doesn't take "no" very well, then sure, let him buy you a drink son.

6/19/2009 12:54:48 PM

Guys are ballsy and girls are sloots. Men go after married women and married women are actively looking to get fucked all the time. It happens a lot more than you people would like to think.

6/19/2009 12:56:48 PM

I thought this thread was going to be about sticking the tip in.

6/19/2009 1:00:43 PM

I'm married. It's all or nothin' homey.

6/19/2009 1:01:47 PM

I know when I was single the first thing I looked for before talking to a chick was a ring.

But as already said in this thread, a lot of guys don't give a shit.

6/19/2009 1:06:24 PM

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"I thought this thread was going to be about sticking the tip in."

So did I my son.

So did I.

6/19/2009 1:08:44 PM

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"You can thank Samwise's idiocy for it getting past page 2. We spent 2 pages telling her she's nuts for thinking anyone could (or would want to) slip roofies in my latte at 8am on a Friday in a fucking Starbucks."

No, it was about a big misunderstanding and you guys being bitchy. Yes, I'm nuts for thinking that after seeing this kind of thing happen to women at all hours of the day, and in a lot of "friendly/safe" situations. Even if I hadn't responded, it would have probably still gone this far due to you being fucking ridiculous and over-analyzing the situation at hand.

6/19/2009 1:11:10 PM

I, personally, like to do most of my fucking before 9AM

6/19/2009 1:12:35 PM

6/19/2009 1:12:41 PM

6/19/2009 1:13:06 PM

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"Men go after married women and married women are actively looking to get fucked all the time. It happens a lot more than you people would like to think."

this is true because married women are likely to keep things easy and discreet and don't want to be seen in public with you or out and about.

6/19/2009 1:15:20 PM

married women are easier to bag than single women...

[Edited on June 19, 2009 at 1:29 PM. Reason : bag]

6/19/2009 1:26:15 PM

is that orange cat declawed?

6/19/2009 1:34:39 PM

if so, he's fucked

6/19/2009 1:35:22 PM

i wish i could see the cat picture ^^^^ up there

something has that site blocked here at work

6/19/2009 1:35:27 PM

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"No, it was about a big misunderstanding and you guys being bitchy."

Neither one of us was being bitchy.

6/19/2009 1:47:23 PM

well, I trust my girlfriend that she wouldn't cheat on me at all, but I still wouldn't like her accepting drinks (coffee, etc.) from some flirty guy. That's just me though. It definitely leaves an impression on the buyer.

6/19/2009 2:27:50 PM

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"is that orange cat declawed?"

looks like it.


that cat's face is gonna be

6/19/2009 2:29:37 PM

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" having a guy buy your wife and her friends drinks at a bar, especially if you are there, is one thing. Letting a guy buy her drink at a Starbucks in the morning is another, imho. "

no it's not. it's all about trust. If your spouse is trustworthy, it doesn't matter where or when these things occur. My wife was on a trip with her girls to vegas last year, and she and her whole group ended up riding around in a limo with Richard Jefferson who paid for a lot of drinks, and took them to a strip club, paid their cover, etc.

You think i'm going to get butthurt over some fucking coffee? You have some serious jealousy problems if you have a problem with this kind of shit.

6/19/2009 2:51:20 PM

You would think that if you went through all of the trouble of marrying someone, you trust them.

6/19/2009 3:46:57 PM

insecure men ITT

6/19/2009 3:50:03 PM

I agree with everything BobbyDigital said. And if anyone should have trust issues, it's me.

and I don't

It kind of comes with the territory of dating a hot chick. If you don't want guys to buy your girl drinks or to flirt with her, then date ugly chicks.

[Edited on June 19, 2009 at 4:24 PM. Reason : a]

6/19/2009 4:23:45 PM

he's buying the coffee because he wants to fuck

if you aren't eligible to fuck, don't accept the coffee

it's simple

6/19/2009 4:31:57 PM

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"ELIGIBLE TO FUCK"

6/19/2009 4:35:15 PM

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"I thought this thread was going to be about sticking the tip in. something other than some attention-seeker bragging that a stranger paid attention to her"

6/19/2009 4:38:43 PM

"BAM, In Yo Face!!"

6/19/2009 4:44:02 PM

do i get credit for the threadkill here

6/20/2009 1:16:00 PM

im not reading 4 pages

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"Should I have let him buy my latte? Is that considered "wrong" in the realm of marriage to let another man you've never met and will likely never see again buy your drink if he offers? I mean, he saw the ring, he's not stupid. And it's his money."

no. you did the right thing by declining. it would have been inappropriate to let him buy you the drink.

--how would you feel if your husband offered to buy a woman in line her drink? its his money and she saw his ring, right?

--it would be different if you were with a male friend or coworker that your husband knows about and has met. you're on lunch break and he buys your coffee, you buy his sometimes, its a mutual thing. i don't see that as an issue. a stranger, however, is a different story

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"I was sort of taken aback, cuz this kinda thing doesn't happen to me that much."

even if it did happen everyday. you're a married woman and you should never feel ok about strange men buying you things while out in public.


ok i read the last page

and

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"My wife was on a trip with her girls to vegas last year, and she and her whole group ended up riding around in a limo with Richard Jefferson who paid for a lot of drinks, and took them to a strip club, paid their cover, etc."

i see what you're saying but this is a little different because your wife was in a group and not by herself. if she were alone in vegas on business and this happened, what would you think?

if thumper was with a group of girlfriends at starbucks and the dude offered to buy everyones drinks, i would say it would have been ok to accept. the being alone part is where i'm not in agreement

[Edited on June 20, 2009 at 1:44 PM. Reason : dlkjfkdsjf]

6/20/2009 1:20:47 PM