Of course it doesn't, even now I wish things were different. Love sucks, yeaaa yeaa

I'm a nice person and being fair, he's keeping the cat I wanted and love. I love him still so like I'm not gonna hurt him minus that drunken night of screaming at him at 1am cause I was upset. Better than most girls though ha

1/16/2008 11:11:03 PM

like I said earlier

1/16/2008 11:12:23 PM

sounds like you have made bad decisions over and over again.

how much debt are you in?

how can your credit be so god awful you can't get a credit card? jesus.

1/16/2008 11:14:25 PM

you can always blackmail him with a rape charge and live rent free forever. and still be his girlfriend!

1/16/2008 11:16:08 PM

you can come live wit me gurl...in my bed

1/16/2008 11:16:19 PM

she was living with a guy - she initiated the break up

Quote :

"it was a mutual break up initiated by me saying it but we both wanted it"

and since she's not on the lease/mortgage he's making her get out - how is she garnering sympathy for this situation?

1/16/2008 11:21:42 PM

I'm confused about how she has nothing that she can sell, but has free rent and a ton of debt.

1/16/2008 11:22:50 PM

I was merely doing it for logical purposes, my heart didn't want it.

1/16/2008 11:23:10 PM

The fact that she comes on here and talks about it and tries to make him look bad where he's going to see it while he's still letting her live in his house (rent free it sounds like) is what blows my mind.

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 11:23 PM. Reason : ]

1/16/2008 11:23:11 PM

go down to Magnolia downtown, tell them that the Sugar Dick Daddy Mr. Long sent you (thats my Knoxville name) and tell them "the eagle only flies at night, unless its hot" and they will take care of you...



also, might want to invest in some knee pads

1/16/2008 11:23:51 PM

why the hell is this on tww?

lock this plz

1/16/2008 11:24:14 PM

I'm confused about how she has nothing that she can sell, but has free rent and a ton of debt.

1/16/2008 11:24:53 PM

Here come the assholes, out of the woodwork.

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 11:25 PM. Reason : haha shannon, nice]

1/16/2008 11:24:57 PM

I can't see how anything anyone has asked in the past few posts makes them an asshole.

They are all legit questions / statements without malice.

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 11:27 PM. Reason : ]

1/16/2008 11:27:00 PM

this thread served it's purpose - it's safe to remove from my topics, now that omar and pruf think they have something to add/prove.

1/16/2008 11:27:47 PM

PELLISSIPPI STATE now offers a 2 year teaching degree

and they have electric darts and tons of COUG

1/16/2008 11:28:23 PM

If she doesn't know that trying to make the person who is letting her live rent free look bad isn't smart then I am the least of her concerns.

1/16/2008 11:28:53 PM

all this thread needs is some more bbehe and xsmp - that's what it's missing

1/16/2008 11:29:38 PM

I know and I've already apologized, I am not trying to make him look bad anymore. I was in dire need of advice and emotionally unstable, bawling and worried sick.

Luckily we have more respect for eachother than most people do.

1/16/2008 11:31:27 PM

funny how a moderator sometimes can be mistaken for a troll

1/16/2008 11:31:50 PM

So dude's girlfriend lives with him rent free, apparantly contributes nothing financially to the relationship, girlfriend decides to break up, and dude lets her stay free for the time, albiet pissed as he is getting $0Texas and $0Love.

Clearly this man is an asshole.

Anyways,

1) $1,300 over the course of three months should not be a major factor in your decision making

2) Deliver pizza and make $15/hr after gas/expenses. Agree to pay your ex $200 for a month for rent which will come out of second job. If you work 20 hours a week thats about $1,200 by the end of the month, $1,000 after "rent", which should be enough to get you a place

3) Just move back to where you have people who will let you stay with them

1/16/2008 11:36:47 PM

Quote :

"Probably the worst kind of break up cause you'll always wonder if maybe you both tried a little harder to make it work would it have?"

lol... kiwi, you know you didnt break up with him or initiate it. he's just telling you that so he doesnt seem like an asshole.

truth is, he couldnt put up with you, realized that he didnt love you, and now wants to move on. you're making it hard on him, and he's being nice enough to let you stay. you're just another cock blocker now, because trust me, he probably been wanting to invite girls to the house.


and really, you have to take my comments with some logical sense, otherwise you'll just live up to your own past expectations.

learn from your mistakes......

1/16/2008 11:38:06 PM

Quote :

"3) Just move back to where you have people who will let you stay with them"

1/16/2008 11:43:00 PM

so yall gonna be friends with benefits now?

1/16/2008 11:47:05 PM

Someone already mentioned this, but unless that $1300 bonus is under the table cash, you're not going to see near all of that... bonuses are taxed at a greater rate than normal earnings.

If you aren't looking to stay in that area anyway, I would move now. You can find one (or two) jobs somewhere else where you have a better support system/free or cheap place to live/less stress.

I know moving back in with your parents sucks (believe me, I know), but if you are working a lot you won't see them much anyway. Think of it as a short-term arrangement.

1/16/2008 11:48:21 PM

another bump for living in Raleigh,with me. I justed kick out my roommate/SO. Rents free if you take care of the house,dog and do my laundry.

1/16/2008 11:49:14 PM

1/16/2008 11:49:32 PM

omg lol!

1/16/2008 11:50:29 PM

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHA

1/16/2008 11:50:36 PM

^^^ holly fuck shit..... thats funny

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 11:51 PM. Reason : ^^ fast ass posters]

1/16/2008 11:50:58 PM

10/10 A+++++++ Will LOL again.

1/16/2008 11:51:18 PM

hahahah i bet she wishes shed kept that weight on now

1/16/2008 11:52:27 PM

HAHAHAHA

1/16/2008 11:53:32 PM

its official, EMCE has too much time on his hands

1/16/2008 11:54:01 PM

rofl

1/16/2008 11:55:20 PM

Five pages and I don't hear a lot of sucking it up and dealing with it. You have nothing you're willing to part with and you are being picky about jobs at this point?

Living rent free for however long you did was a blessing. You didn't plan for anything else, so now you're going to have to bust ass to get on top of things again. It's could be a lot worse, but it's time to recognize that the party is over and you're going to have to take care of yourself. Time to suck it up and move on with your life.

I'm really not trying to sound spiteful. Just being realistic.

I sound like Dr. Freakin' Phil.

[Edited on January 17, 2008 at 12:20 AM. Reason : l]

1/17/2008 12:20:10 AM

I'll be glad to fedex you some cardboard to use for a sign/home

1/17/2008 12:24:08 AM

A+++ gif

1/17/2008 2:48:54 AM

1/17/2008 2:55:27 AM

if you arent doing anything besides work I would definitely get a second job

if not full time then at least part time


12- 16 hour days arent horrible but you will burn out eventually but 3 months should be manageable

1/17/2008 3:00:42 AM

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1/17/2008 3:09:49 AM

You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals
So let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel

1/17/2008 3:14:54 AM

I don't know what to tell you

but good luck and you'll get through it

1/17/2008 3:26:37 AM

$memphis

1/17/2008 3:28:59 AM

you are sitting on a goldmine

sell an egg

1/17/2008 8:06:01 AM

how much money do you need

1/17/2008 8:16:02 AM

Quote :

"I'm confused about how she has nothing that she can sell, but has free rent and a ton of debt."

1/17/2008 8:19:02 AM

You can make bank at hooters

1/17/2008 8:24:56 AM

i havent taken the time to read most of this thread but i think i have the jist of it.

there are no quick fixes. get the second job, quit sulking, and figure it out. it is nobody elses fault but your own. it is nobody elses problem to fix.

1/17/2008 8:36:02 AM

do a whole sale in real estate...do the research and it can put you up 5k on one deal.

1/17/2008 8:38:26 AM