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7/4/2009 11:36:52 PM

V.02!

7/4/2009 11:37:56 PM

Dating is like eating sushi. So many tasty choices. I always order multiple rolls.

7/4/2009 11:47:09 PM

i went on about 15 dates from dating sites before i met my husband- yes, from a dating site. and we had worked in adjacent buildings on campus for the previous 3 years.

7/4/2009 11:49:40 PM

Lucy, plz to answer the following questions in the True of False format.

Quote :

"Q1. Rationale and Reason are the same thing. Q2. A cheerleader AND/OR schoolgirl outfit is a wardrobe must. Q3. Talking in your 'cute voice' just before you put my balls in your mouth is sexy. Q4. Learning body language and communication cues is important. Q5. 'Anchorman' and 'Superbad' are hilarious movies. Q6. "But it's cute when I do it" should be a legally viable defense. Q7. Chest hair is gross. Q8. Bono is probably the most important political figure of our generation. Q9. Sex is an important part of a relationship, and should be had frequently, often, whenever possible - within moderation, of course. Q10. A relationship is metaphorically a two way street. So is your butt. "

--stolen from cL

[Edited on July 5, 2009 at 12:07 AM. Reason : copy - paste fail, good catch]

7/4/2009 11:59:50 PM

lol for shits and giggles i checked it out and did all my preferences. and got only 2 people with exactly what I want and only 2 pages of others lol. Good to know though.

7/5/2009 12:00:39 AM

some chick named MyrtleMaude winked at me

7/5/2009 12:03:55 AM

Quote :

"Q3. Talking in your 'cute voice' just before you put my balls in my mouth is sexy."

wat

7/5/2009 12:05:50 AM

I went on a dating spree after my 2.5 year relationship was over...and it was fun. I met my guys IRL life mostly because of my marketing job...I had to go out to lots of bars and talk to lots of people so it just happened naturally. I like to call it Serial Dating.

However, I am now in a committed relationship with a man who was on of my best friends through the serial dating and I would NOT want to date again. I am glad I did because I really learned more about what I like and need...but it was just such a hassle keeping up with it. Exhausting even...but best of luck to all in the field.

7/5/2009 3:00:04 AM

7/5/2009 4:16:46 AM

I say false to questions 1, 8 and 10.

Q1: Reason can be used as a verb. Rationale can not.

Q8: ROFL

Q9: Perhaps if my vajayjay were the Grand Canyon, I'd say yes to this statement.

7/5/2009 9:09:38 AM

Rationale can also be synonymous with "girl logic". You can have your rationale, but it can be one helluva stupid reason.

7/5/2009 9:13:02 AM

Good point, Duke. My favorite misguided rationale is, "This was a great purchase because it was on sale!"

Well, yeah, but that still doesn't mean you need it or can even afford it.

7/5/2009 9:18:09 AM

At the very least.

7/5/2009 10:20:24 AM

Finally, a date where I know what to wear: spin class followed by smoothies. HUZZAH!

7/8/2009 3:54:41 PM

Are there guys in spin class or would I get labeled gay for trying it?

7/8/2009 3:58:00 PM

I met my last long-term bf in spin class.

And I'm seeing a guy who is a spin instructor.

If you have a sweet ass, throw on some tight shorts, hop on a spin bike and show off for the ladies.

7/8/2009 3:59:30 PM

Tight shorts eh?

I just need something to replace running for a bit since my knees are killing me.

7/8/2009 4:00:24 PM

It's an awesome workout and the class is usually filled with sexy chicks with tight asses. Great way to enjoy eye candy.

7/8/2009 4:01:45 PM

First date? I'd say something casual. I'd wear either a nice button down or a golf shirt and some sort of shorts or rolled up dockers. As for the girl, I guess it depends on the time of year. I really love sun dresses, but if it's fall/winter then nice jeans and a nice top is fine. If it's spring maybe a skirt and a nice top, etc.

And spin class? Ride a real bicycle.

[Edited on July 8, 2009 at 4:04 PM. Reason : Bike]

7/8/2009 4:03:44 PM

Spin class was a major success. WHEW. That could be my last first date forever.

7/10/2009 3:11:22 PM

7/10/2009 3:39:05 PM

sandwich board or a barrel

7/10/2009 3:49:14 PM

Gorilla costume can be fun. It screams, "I like wild monkey sex."

Though I met the latest guy while wearing a bikini and wakeboarding. First date outfit: spandex cycling pants and tank top. Great success!

Show as much skin as possible and you're bound to win at something.

7/10/2009 3:59:19 PM

what was your worst first date?

7/10/2009 4:09:42 PM

One guy was super hot, but he said he was a real estate investor who purchased distressed properties AND he didn't believe in banks, refused to use cards and ONLY used cash. He was hot, but absolutely FULL of SHIT.

And he wanted to go to a strip club.

7/10/2009 4:15:25 PM

first date attire: leopard skin man thong, need nothing else

7/10/2009 4:16:16 PM

^true...it works well huh

7/10/2009 4:17:12 PM

i tried eharmony and my first real date from the site was a nightmare. My friend met his wife on there so I thought I would try.

she started crying after two beers and talking about her ex. Then she excused herself for 20 mins to go to the bathroom. When she came out she was still crying. Then she told me that I looked just like her ex, and then started crying again. Then she said she had to go, that she could not take it.

she was wearing a silver dress, and was cute, but I doon't remember anything really but the crying

7/10/2009 4:19:31 PM

that sounds really scary.

i have a friend that is dating someone off match.com and it seems to be going well, but she had some strange dates before she found this guy.

p.s. is there a real difference between eharmony and match.com? is one better than the other? honest question.

7/10/2009 4:22:27 PM

I only tried eharmony.

in the end i dated 3 girls. two were batshit crazy and one was ok but she was very boring.

The one that was boring we dated for about 3 months, she was an engineer ( went to GT for undergrad and ncsu for grad). I learned at that point that two engineers should not date hahaha
but i suppose it was ok.

7/10/2009 4:35:02 PM

The difference between match and eharmony is that eharmony prohibits married people from joining.

That said, one of my dates via match was with a man who was waiting for his divorce to get finalized.

I dated 4 people from match. One was a pathological liar, one was like a little brother, one was married and one turned into a crazy obsessive psycho after 2 dates. After I told him we should never speak again (long story, but he started screaming at me for hanging out with my girlfriends), he proceeded to call ten times and text me five times. He sent me a hate message via match yesterday. But I disabled my account today because of the really awesome guy that I met at the 4th of July party.

I do not recommend match.

7/10/2009 5:01:03 PM

I DO recommend match, but at the same time I am aware I've been on it for a long time and am still single.

7/10/2009 5:13:33 PM

I hear plentyoffish.com is the worst. It's free, and you get what you pay for. Good hookers ain't cheap.

7/10/2009 5:16:43 PM

general dating question


do you feel if u like a person more than they like u (but they do like u a little), u are at a big disadvantage here for starting a relationship?

7/10/2009 5:18:43 PM

So none of your guys (lucy) from match.com ended up working?

7/10/2009 5:20:34 PM

None of the guys from match worked. Waste of $30. I ended up meeting a gorgeous, awesome guy at a party. I wasn't going to talk to him because he's, imo, out-of-my-league-hot.

But he's smart and funny and runs marathons and we have a ton in common. And somehow he seems really into me.

I do hope he's not out-of-my-league though. I really like him, which scares me bc I do think couples should be relatively equal in hotness.

7/10/2009 5:29:55 PM

^^ yes. well i used to think that anyway. i don't know why but that is always a big fear of mine.

7/10/2009 5:30:28 PM

i don't think that people need to be equal in hotness, but what would suck is if u meet someone who (in ur opinion) is wayy hotter than u, and u really like the person, so ur always afraid that ur expendable. So u try a little harder, are a little nicer, and let them know u like them, adn they get scared off and dump u and then ur crushed. I fall into this trap sometimes.


really what you have to do and it sucks but feign interest. As a guy you basically have to act like they are hte ones who are expendable and u aren't really interested, so the girls get all worried and wind up liking you a lot, and THEN u can start dating them.

seems like it really has nothing to do with the quality of the person, who they are or their personality, but just a dumb mindgame. It's gay

7/10/2009 5:38:20 PM

Quote :

"I hear plentyoffish.com is the worst. It's free, and you get what you pay for. Good hookers ain't cheap."

Plenty of Fish is good if your criteria is semi-literate single mother who probably has a drug problem.

7/10/2009 5:39:19 PM

I blew it today. Date came by to pick me up for lupper and I was wearing a sundress. He was driving a motorcycle. Bad combo. I had to drive.

What's the consensus on superlong sundresses (maxidresses)? Cute? Prudish? Stupid?

Tonight's date should be fairly chill. Movie night. I assume that means jeans and a tank top with a hoody in case it gets cold.

UGH dating is a headache. There's too much to think about.

7/11/2009 6:34:37 PM

i don't think a maxidress is prudish at all! i think they're cute. but i'm wearing one right now and i'm not a guy, so maybe my opinion isn't best.

but i like them. they are comfy and still cute.

7/11/2009 6:36:11 PM

and lupper

7/11/2009 6:36:39 PM

I have to wear sneaks with shorts. As stupid as it might look; my foot can't handle walking for a long time in flops.

7/11/2009 6:52:47 PM

epic foot endurance

7/11/2009 6:53:50 PM

more like epic ankle foot injury

7/11/2009 7:14:30 PM

a maxidress is less prudish without panties

7/11/2009 8:49:34 PM

Panties, in general, are for prudes.

So, he wants me to come over and cuddle. Yay or nay, tdub?

7/12/2009 12:04:16 AM

cuddles? isn't that what gay guys are into?

7/12/2009 12:07:49 AM

Cuddle is code word for sex. Jk

7/12/2009 12:12:52 AM