why not?

12/28/2005 11:21:34 PM

THat's a question for you to ask yourself.

12/28/2005 11:22:30 PM

22 isn't young for a relationship

12/28/2005 11:22:49 PM

That's why I broke up with my BF a few weeks ago.

Not ready for a commitment

12/28/2005 11:23:08 PM

but what does that have to do wth how much I trust him and how much I assume of why he's with me?

12/28/2005 11:23:27 PM

I personally think 21 is a good age for a girl to get married, but here we obviously see a mental withdrawal from relationships.

12/28/2005 11:23:33 PM

Trust is easy to come.

I trust some strangers more than I trust my cousins.

12/28/2005 11:23:57 PM

whoa this is way off... the guy only talks to me about sex, he never calls when he says he will, he doesn't care when I'm sad, he disappears after saying we'll talk soon and never calls, he gets snappy at me when I tell him it hurts my feelings that he doesn't follow through with what he says he'll do... is that enough for me to assume he only wants sex from this- is that enough that I need to break it off?
Or is that all based on assumption- Would it be wrong for me to end it based on that alone?

12/28/2005 11:26:22 PM

well you know the answer to that.

12/28/2005 11:29:00 PM

if I did, would I post it on tww? no

12/28/2005 11:29:32 PM

listen to your heart.

12/28/2005 11:30:15 PM

12/28/2005 11:31:40 PM

Love is simple

Go with your heart

12/28/2005 11:33:18 PM

nothing is simple

and I don't know what my heart is saying right now. I'm afraid to make the wrong decision. I'm such a wimp. (sp?)

12/28/2005 11:38:33 PM

I'm thinking I wish contractors got a pack a day like regular PM employees. They used to, when I didn't fucking smoke.

12/28/2005 11:42:52 PM

life is simple

you just need to know what you want.

And in this case, you are confused as to what you want

12/28/2005 11:43:08 PM

he is total bullshit, and i'm tired of people IMing me about him
he's not my problem anymore

12/28/2005 11:58:09 PM

I still feel like

12/28/2005 11:58:53 PM

I'll and make it feel better.

12/29/2005 12:01:13 AM

wassup bmwblonde

12/29/2005 12:01:23 AM

btw PM means Phillip Morris

12/29/2005 12:02:18 AM

Hi friends!!

12/29/2005 12:05:59 AM

boobs

12/29/2005 12:06:26 AM

I'll be your friend if you promise not to scan your pets anymore.

You really scared me that day.

es,

John

[Edited on December 29, 2005 at 12:07 AM. Reason : ]

12/29/2005 12:06:50 AM

hey...melissa do you remember when i came to your house and sold osme glass to your roomie.?

12/29/2005 12:08:57 AM

whoa... I didn't even realize that was you ...

we all admired your work when you left.

No more scanning of the animals. promise

12/29/2005 12:09:47 AM

k, friends it is.

12/29/2005 12:10:16 AM

Quote :

"whoa this is way off... the guy only talks to me about sex, he never calls when he says he will, he doesn't care when I'm sad, he disappears after saying we'll talk soon and never calls, he gets snappy at me when I tell him it hurts my feelings that he doesn't follow through with what he says he'll do... is that enough for me to assume he only wants sex from this- is that enough that I need to break it off? Or is that all based on assumption- Would it be wrong for me to end it based on that alone? "

all that and you even have to contemplate ending things with him? if you're not going to be completely satisfied with a relationship, what's the point of even being in it? you're just going to end up getting attached to someone who doesn't seem to even be that into you.

12/29/2005 12:11:05 AM

Quote :

"I personally think 21 is a good age for a girl to get married"

Are you crazy? You obviously have a very simplistic, idealistic, perspective.

BrookeRuff...you need to check out other people. This fella's either a flake or has some emotional issues (commitment being a big one there)...

12/29/2005 12:17:12 AM

Age has nothing to do with a successful relationship. I mean, sorry to be blunt, but look at yourself.

12/29/2005 12:20:30 AM

I just messaged him and said something like FYI no new years sex for you... his response was "why?" and when I (lied and) said I'd have my period he responded with "ah gotcha" then nothing else until goodnight.

okay- time to figure out how to end my first relationship (if you can call it that) since february- and this only lasted 6 days. go me.

12/29/2005 12:21:19 AM

how about telling him the truth and not being deceptive

12/29/2005 12:22:49 AM

that guy sounds like he has figured out his life, brookeruff.

12/29/2005 12:23:45 AM

Yeah, you're right. I wasn't really ready to get married when I did (31). I don't think my wife was either (she was 25).

I think an overwhelming number of folks aren't ready @ 21. There are way to many things contributing to the dynamic that is one's life, and each generation is faced with increasing numbers of life choices to make. Could be why each subsequent generation is getting married later and later...so many things to sort out beforehand.

Your heart will tell you some lies. Emotion isn't the best influential factor sometimes. Sure, it fits in there, but you'd better listen to your head.

I wish I had listened to MY head. My heart is what got me in trouble.

12/29/2005 12:24:24 AM

your heart is never wrong. You just gotta stop your mind from meddling. Trust me on this.

12/29/2005 12:26:03 AM

I just don't get what everyone has against being single. I've been single so long that when I finally do get into a relationship it's gonna be a big deal, and not just something to fill my nights. I think everyone needs time alone to figure things out.

12/29/2005 12:27:01 AM

Shawna knows what she wants.

12/29/2005 12:27:29 AM

well I did tell him the truth- why I think he's in this. he denied it and is saying nothing.
*sigh*

I'm thinking that I wish I had a beer and a cigarette right now.

12/29/2005 12:27:42 AM

these sheets are gonna be so kickass

and so are the shoes

12/29/2005 12:28:15 AM

^^^^I think you're absolutely right.

^^^^^I think you're a dumbass who doesn't know which end is up. You'll figure it out if and when you get involved long-term.

[Edited on December 29, 2005 at 12:28 AM. Reason : damn...quick replies...]

12/29/2005 12:28:25 AM

I am never wrong.

12/29/2005 12:29:19 AM

I can bring you a beer and cigs.

yoyoyo

12/29/2005 12:29:53 AM

I'm 4 hours away in the mtns.

I was honest and decided what I want and told him. He agreed. Thanks for the advice everyone... and Shawna- I hardly ever see strong single women anymore. You've renewed my faith.

I'm content now. Goodnight all!

[Edited on December 29, 2005 at 12:34 AM. Reason : e]

12/29/2005 12:34:25 AM

Good night

Atleast now you know what you really want.

This was another ULTRA-COOL success story.

12/29/2005 12:36:09 AM

I want a cup of coffee!

12/29/2005 12:55:41 AM

A Stormy Night....I think I'll watch Office Space.

12/29/2005 12:58:53 AM

I truly wonder where I'll be at the end of this semester....man that shit scares me.

^Good movie.

12/29/2005 1:03:27 AM

that might be the most immature thing i've ever witnessed in my life

12/29/2005 1:30:54 AM

I need to sleep

12/29/2005 1:41:05 AM

4 more teams on nba jam snes

12/29/2005 1:42:33 AM