From my personal experience that is completely untrue. People who are active and healthy usually have a wide range of interests and get their exercise by doing more than just going to the gym...

7/2/2014 9:45:32 AM

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"From my personal experience that is completely untrue. People who are active and healthy usually have a wide range of interests and get their exercise by doing more than just going to the gym"

Exactly boring people are the ones that just go home and plop on the couch watching reality TV after work. They than complain they don't take part in recreation because they are low energy.

7/2/2014 10:05:26 AM

there are boring people everywhere. even you crossfit nerds are pretty damn boring when you finally talk about something other than crossfit.

7/2/2014 10:09:59 AM

How was your ride last night?

7/2/2014 10:21:36 AM

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"that has nothing to do with the fact that most people who: - exercise profusely - eat perfectly - don't drink or use drugs are BORING AS SHIT"

I don't exercise profusely (swim after work a few times a week), I try to eat very healthy (due to heart issues that run in my family), and I don't drink or use drugs. I can confirm that I am boring as shit but I don't think those are all causes of said boringness. My boringness comes from an increasingly apathetic attitude towards everything as I age.

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7/2/2014 10:24:44 AM

it's getting too big. 100+ riders on a route that hit way too many lights. i ended up branching off with about 10 others after the first stop and riding another 6 miles without the crowds.

two guys on fixies tried to race down a hill in between all of the casual riders and collided into each other. both finished their ride in the ambulance.

7/2/2014 10:24:56 AM

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" even you crossfit nerds are pretty damn boring when you finally talk about something other than crossfit"

does not compute

7/2/2014 12:48:10 PM

you're right, they never change the subject.

7/2/2014 2:23:53 PM

btw what is a fixie? A fixed gear bike or one of those crazy cobbled together bikes that the hipsters in Plaza make.

7/2/2014 2:45:26 PM

fixed gear

7/2/2014 2:59:32 PM

it's cute how the day after your match.com subscription expires you mysteriously begin getting a FLOOD of messages (that you can't access without a subscription) and "he's interested in you" notices (that you also can't access).

so over dating. already.

7/29/2014 11:33:40 AM

yep..i posted about that earlier. don't believe them.

7/29/2014 11:36:56 AM

my eharmony subscription is coming to an end soon and I have a feeling that will be the case as well

7/29/2014 12:44:17 PM

this round of match.com subscription ends next week. what a waste of money it was this go round. tinder ftw.

9/19/2014 9:08:52 AM

this is from OKCupid...

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"If you've bothered to read this far. I have a bit of a thing for giving BJs (Yes, seriously). I am no slut, but I've previously had BJ buddies who I give no strings attached head to. If you're nice and big, circumcised and like the sound of that, drop me a message. You can message jetquinn85 and matlanta86, 2 guys I've done this with from on here. I'm sure (I hope!) they will message you back to prove I am actually truthful about it."

someone send those two accounts a message and see what their thoughts were on that arrangement

10/1/2014 3:40:30 PM

no strings attached sex makes sense to me. b/c orgasms.

during said no strings attached sex, I can see how giving head would be a part of that.

but just going around blowing a bunch of dudes for nothing in return doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me

10/1/2014 3:46:44 PM

hence why i'm curious as to how that arrangement really played out. I can't imagine it was as simple as she makes it out to be.



also, you change your search parameters to only "Casual Sex" and it really cuts down on the number of matches

10/1/2014 4:04:02 PM

^
Dude, the same guy probably has all 3 accounts. But even so, a good one is hard to find

10/28/2014 3:51:07 PM

^^^
I'd probably be willing to go around fingering/eating out a bunch of women, for nothing in return

or at least if I had such a network, I'd make use of it from time to time

I hear where this chick is coming from. the opposite sex's genitals are fun to play with, that's all.


however, I'd also take sex if it were offered (and I assume it's being offered in this case)...so I guess I understand your confusion


[Edited on October 28, 2014 at 4:24 PM. Reason : 43]

10/28/2014 4:16:32 PM

that's really weird

10/28/2014 4:31:52 PM

(shrug) to each his own

10/28/2014 4:37:24 PM

finger-banging mary jane rotten crotch through her pretty pink panties

10/28/2014 4:41:01 PM

yeah, I'd cheerfully do that

10/28/2014 4:47:53 PM

careful, you'll get carpal tunnel if you do it too often

10/28/2014 4:50:14 PM

good thing I don't know any mary jane rotten crotch then

seriously, though, the link fingering -> CTS never occurred to me. but I bet it happens.

10/28/2014 5:04:38 PM

you'd have to be doing some serious fingerbanging to get carpel tunnel.

10/28/2014 6:05:59 PM

^I laughed. loudly.

10/28/2014 6:34:48 PM

Not carpel tunnel, but i did have mine jammed/bent awkwardly once to the point that it became immovable for about a week.

10/29/2014 2:52:57 PM

You're doing it wrong.

10/29/2014 3:19:44 PM

^thats what she said

10/29/2014 3:32:41 PM

has anyone ever used Zoosk?

11/12/2014 4:37:47 PM

Ok, I need boy dating advice/help!

I was on a second date with a Tinder guy last night. The first date was Friday night, we met up late, and stayed out until the bars closed. It was really fucking cold, so when we said good bye and went to our cars, there was just a quick hug. Last night was a similar situation... we were saying good bye next to my car, and talking about a next date, in the cold. I was trying to figure out a way to get a kiss in... and it just wasn't working out. So I just said it, and he seemed a little shocked that I wanted to kiss him goodnight.

I feel like this is weird. He claims he's interested in me... so what's the deal?

11/19/2014 9:48:50 AM

Maybe he just doesn't have a lot of dating experience. When I first started adult dating (serious dating...not just to get a piece), I never made a real move on the first date. Sometimes alcohol made things happen, but if it was a simple date and we weren't hammered, I thought I was being polite and not putting off the "I just want to hook up" vibe if I didn't make a hard move right away.

The older I got the more that changed. From about 25 and on, I don't think I had a first date that didn't end in at least a make out session at the very least...but more often a triple/home run.

Maybe he's being overly cautious/polite.

11/19/2014 10:06:18 AM

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"So I just said it,"

Said what?

11/19/2014 10:10:00 AM

^ That I wanted to kiss.

^^ Makes sense, but we are both in our early thirties... so that shouldn't be a problem.

11/19/2014 10:12:13 AM

^ Good points. He might also just feel odd about PDA.

Actual real dating seems to be a dying art, and I don't know that there are a lot of 'norms' anymore when it comes down to it. I've run the gamut of getting lucky on the first night to waiting until date three for that first kiss. Everyone you run into seems to roll at different paces nowadays, and most especially with that Tinder app (where it's most commonly thought of to be a quick hook-up app) I can see where there's confusion on both sides interested in more than a fling.

I think you might be over analyzing a bit this early in the game. If he's indicating that he's interested and there's mutual interest in continuing to see each other just ride it out and see where it goes. In general I think the first at-home date is the one where the more physical parts of the relationship can come into play.

11/19/2014 10:13:28 AM

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"Makes sense, but we are both in our early thirties... so that shouldn't be a problem."

Dating history is more relevant than age in this instance. He could have skipped a lot of prime dating years by being in long term relationship or two.

Did you guys end up kissing after you brought it up? Did that make it awkward? Have you set up a next date?

11/19/2014 10:24:22 AM

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"That I wanted to kiss."

Why didn't you just kiss him?

11/19/2014 10:34:08 AM

well if nobody else will do it, i guess i'll kiss NCSUHippie.

11/19/2014 10:40:02 AM

Are you dressing like u want to be kissed?

I'm Krallum and I approved this message.

11/19/2014 10:49:00 AM

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"Why didn't you just kiss him?"

Because that would have been kinda weird. We weren't exactly standing, or near each other in a way that would have made kissing instinctive. When we did kiss, it wasn't really awkward, at least no more than my typical awkwardness.

Not third date set yet.

11/19/2014 10:49:19 AM

Just grab his junk go from there.

11/19/2014 10:55:46 AM

I find that dating is different than when I was a bit younger.

I'm going out to enjoy the company of someone else, and if it leads to more physical great it's not my main priority. I want to know if I can stand the person for more than just 20 minutes.
I usually don't kiss on the 1st date, 2nd possibly, 3rd hell yeah people, lets get it on!

Then again I've gone on a 1st date that ended up back at her place 45 minutes later. I'm still learning, and trying to find a decent match.

11/19/2014 11:00:26 AM

don't feel too bad about this.... the kiss goodnight after a first date or not can be tricky. I can usually pick up the signal and i've had a few dates end in full on make out session beside the car. and then I've had dates that went really well and the kiss goodnight was kind of awkward at the end. So maybe he was just playing it safe.

11/19/2014 11:06:26 AM

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" We weren't exactly standing, or near each other in a way that would have made kissing instinctive. "

Blarg, that sucks. I'd have to go through that every date where the girl offered to drive me back to my car before I had a chance to go in for a kiss....except for a few of the more aggressive ones

11/19/2014 11:07:32 AM

I need a good boilerplate message i can send some of these girls when I don't care to continue going on anymore dates. I don't think they like it when I just disappear

11/19/2014 11:43:44 AM

'We've decided to go with another candidate, but we'll keep your resume on file in case there are other opportunities for you in our organization'

11/19/2014 11:47:55 AM

I don't think it's going to work out but I wish you the best of luck.

That;s what I would do anyway. Straight to the point.

11/19/2014 11:50:47 AM

^^LOLOL

11/19/2014 11:52:27 AM

I don't think we're compatible for a long term relationship, but let me know if you want to hook up every now and then.

11/19/2014 11:53:53 AM