kiwi have you made a dr appt to confirm the pregnancy yet?

7/18/2008 12:47:18 PM

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"lunak why is it such a big deal?"

wow dnl, i really didn't think that you could surprise me any further, but this just did.

7/18/2008 12:48:25 PM

I think it is but you've seen the bullshit spewed in this thread like these assholes have any clue what's right for me, like they have an iota of a clue of who I am as a person and what my life is like. Just tired of the bullshit.

Being with this guy made me see how wrong yan was for me, if that's any inclination. Of course I'm a big believer in time, only time will tell if we can work out things together, we know we love eachother but if you can't get through the basics love won't last long.

7/18/2008 12:49:28 PM

I have enough relatives that got babby daddies I could write my thesis on "crazy shit preggo bitches say about their boyfriends, the difference before and after you pop out spawn"

7/18/2008 12:49:38 PM

of course its not confirmed. its classic get on tww and try to offend your ex tww boyfriend/girlfriend with some crazy shit

might be true, but the most important thing is that her ex hears first

we'll worry about prenatal care later

7/18/2008 12:49:42 PM

broads like lunak are so annoying


seriously...you got this little tiny thing inside of you, they take it out, the end

7/18/2008 12:50:09 PM

If only Ms. DNL had figured that out

7/18/2008 12:51:08 PM

7/18/2008 12:51:32 PM

and to make matters even easier, she probably wont end up being with the guy and will be a single mother

[Edited on July 18, 2008 at 12:53 PM. Reason : ^you strike me as someone that under no circumstances likes abortion or something]

7/18/2008 12:52:13 PM

haha honestly I dont care if he knows, I'd rather he not actually. I'm pretty sure he doesn't read this site anymore but I know nosy snobs like hammy likes to run around with the drama.

There's a walk in clinic I can go to at my dr.s between 2-4pm today.

You know how hilarious all of this will be if I'm not pregnant?

7/18/2008 12:52:46 PM

this probably goes without saying but knowing the population of tww, you cant assume anything

kiwi if you really are pregnant, i hope you're eating the right foods and getting the right vitamins. no matter how shitty, perfect or anywhere in between that you are, every child deserves a shot at a healthy life.

7/18/2008 12:53:27 PM

if by hilarious you mean "good", it will be very hilarious

7/18/2008 12:53:28 PM

Yep, taking prenatal vitamins since I found out and eating lots of healthy foods several times a day. If I am pregnant I'm going to do this right.

7/18/2008 12:54:44 PM

oh so abortion is totally off the table?

[Edited on July 18, 2008 at 12:55 PM. Reason : shoulda said that so i knew not to try to convince you it was the best option]

7/18/2008 12:55:33 PM

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"eating lots of healthy foods several times a day."

oink oink

hahha

ok but really, from my trips to knoxville, iirc its still in our time zone.. so if you wanna keep your lie up you better hide from tww from 2-4

7/18/2008 12:55:43 PM

Silly jackleg didn't you know it's healthier to eat several smaller meals than three big ones?

7/18/2008 12:56:37 PM

eat almonds and put headphones on your stomach that plays classical music btw

7/18/2008 12:57:09 PM

sorry maybe i should use caps to emphasize that im messing around and i really dont care at all

oink oink

HAHAHHHHA

7/18/2008 12:58:06 PM

abortion isn't as easy as it sounds dnl

i can cause damage to your reproductive system and if you ever do get pregnant and decide to keep it, you have to disclose your abortion(s) so they can care for you properly since different risks are involved

not to mention the mental implications

im absolutely pro choice but i would never be able to do it myself, but believe all women should have the right to choose

7/18/2008 12:58:44 PM

^ the guy should have something to say in this.


I think its bull shit that if the women wants to keep the baby, the guy has to foot the bill.

7/18/2008 1:00:00 PM

^^just seems like a common sense thing to me


[Edited on July 18, 2008 at 1:01 PM. Reason : but then again, in my ideal world, women dont have this happen(preggers outside of marriage)]

7/18/2008 1:00:33 PM

yes well dnl, you wouldn't be the one having a large knife scrape away leaving you potentially with never having children again.

so yea, it's kind of a big decision.

7/18/2008 1:03:21 PM

He's straight up pro life. Won't even accept an abortion talk.

Someone PM me, I have a serious (scared) question.

7/18/2008 1:03:28 PM

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"I think its bull shit that if the women wants to keep the baby, the guy has to foot the bill."

Amen!

This guy's life will be fucked forever now. Even if he has the good sense to ditch her he'll be poor and no one will ever date him again because they don't want to deal with the crazy baby momma drama.

The guy's best option at this point looks like leaving the country and starting all over.

7/18/2008 1:03:49 PM

^^^what are the odds of that? like 1/100?


cause you'd think you'd hear about it more often if it were something like 1/4

[Edited on July 18, 2008 at 1:04 PM. Reason : .]

7/18/2008 1:04:03 PM

allowing the father a choice in the abortion is a very slippery slope

i dont see how they could legally work out the rights

and dont act like women get off scott free, having a kid is a serious physical mental and emotional undertaking. and not all dads are like duke, some are deadbeat and have $0 and moms have to end up doing it on their own.

7/18/2008 1:04:13 PM

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"He's straight up pro life. Won't even accept an abortion talk."

haha what a chode(choad?)

[Edited on July 18, 2008 at 1:05 PM. Reason : sp?]

7/18/2008 1:04:48 PM

i thought there were shots you could get if you had an abortion that covered all health risks with future pregnancies

at least thats what i paid for with my high school girlfriends abortion

and yes she did have serious mental trauma for like 6 months afterwards. it was wild. but she was fuckstick crazy anyways!

7/18/2008 1:05:09 PM

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"He's straight up pro life. Won't even accept an abortion talk."

Pro-life also includes adoption. Sounds like you two might be made for each other.

7/18/2008 1:05:15 PM

He's straight up pro life. Won't even accept an abortion talk.

Obviously, I brought it up when I discovered it because it is bad timing but he didn't even want to think about losing it. He wants a future with me and is excited about having a child with me.

I'm the one that's scared shitless and thanks to tdub seriously lacking in parental confidence.

7/18/2008 1:05:45 PM

oh well then everything sounds good...long as he aint no manager at mcdonalds and wants to have a future with you everything sounds a-ok


i figured yall were not going to really have a future and you were gonna be single the whole time...even if yall divorce, thats better than just having the kid and being single

[Edited on July 18, 2008 at 1:07 PM. Reason : .]

7/18/2008 1:06:29 PM

He's been my rock, there are nights I've gone to bed crying with the overwhelming feeling of doubt and his comments show me how ready he is to be there for me throughout it all. I mean he's already rubbing my belly.

But no really someone who isn't a douche should PM me....

7/18/2008 1:08:37 PM

Bet money he's doing something illegal, and hoping having a baby momma will keep him out of jail.

7/18/2008 1:08:43 PM

i find it really annoying when people express their opinions and think anyone who doesnt agree is fucking stupid

lewoods comes to mind. you act extremely high and mighty with your views, as if anyone who thinks different than you must be an idiot. you're aware that you have unpopular, outrageous views. why do you act like that?

and who cares if kiwi wants to keep the baby. judging by her posts on here is she cut out to be the perfect parent? no. but shes better than some crackhoe who abuses her children, doesnt feed them and leaves the house for days on end. at least shes taking responsibility for her actions.

and as far as abortion is concerned, they use the same process when a woman miscarries and they have to extract the baby, except the baby is already dead so they dont have to kill it before vacuuming it out. the reproductive system is extremely fragile and when you go sticking knives and vacuumes and needles and shit up in there, risks are involved.

7/18/2008 1:09:14 PM

^^You don't have a clue what you're talking about.

7/18/2008 1:10:49 PM

^^confidence?

[Edited on July 18, 2008 at 1:12 PM. Reason : and show me some stats on the risks cause you never hear about it and i'm guessing its like 1/100]

7/18/2008 1:11:29 PM

yeah, maybe he's just your ordinary religious nutjob. Either way, it's not good for the kid. I was raised by the uber religious types and don't like to talk about it.

7/18/2008 1:12:37 PM

^if you were lesbo, squirt would so be your type

7/18/2008 1:13:10 PM

http://www.afterabortion.org/physica.html

2 seconds on google

its a major medical procedure

7/18/2008 1:13:48 PM

Is this squirt you talk about bi or lesbo? Because if she's bi it could be fun.

7/18/2008 1:14:12 PM

lols

He was raised by a shit for father figure so he's pretty much doing everything in his power to break that cycle. He's awesome and a mirror image of what the perfect man should be.

7/18/2008 1:14:31 PM

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"http://www.afterabortion.org/physica.html 2 seconds on google its a major medical procedure"

That's a one sided religious nut job web site.

Most of those risks have been disproven. Site is BS.

7/18/2008 1:16:05 PM

wolfy, While you may be right...I wouldn't go citing a site like the one you just did.

...especially when they own up to citing medical data that's 20+ years old.

It's a given there's a risk anytime you undergo a medical procedure. If dnl wants the numbers that badly, he can look them up himself.

[Edited on July 18, 2008 at 1:17 PM. Reason : ldkjf]

7/18/2008 1:16:06 PM

no matter what happens, if you end up having the baby i just hope hes a part of its life

no matter how shitty is ever is to you or however much you may hate each other, let him be in the kids life. every child deserves to know both parents and every parent deserves to see their child.

7/18/2008 1:16:24 PM

Re: a father's role in an abortion decision:

- I don't think the father has any right to encourage an abortion

- I do think the father has a right to say whether or not he wants the child. That kid is half his too.

7/18/2008 1:16:30 PM

i'm guessing if a chick gets an abortion, theres a 2% chance she gets fucked up from it


AT MOST


depression and shit dont count cause broads are dumb and they all pretty much claim to have been "depressed" at some point

[Edited on July 18, 2008 at 1:17 PM. Reason : .]

7/18/2008 1:16:53 PM

ok whatever website it is, i spend 2 seconds on google

you can find more info if you want, i'm not going to do a research project for tww.

apologies for not having the best resources bookmarked

7/18/2008 1:17:15 PM

^^^ If you think about it, he did most of the work making it, therefore, he should get the right to make the final decision.

[Edited on July 18, 2008 at 1:17 PM. Reason : carat]

7/18/2008 1:17:21 PM

^^or the best opinions

7/18/2008 1:17:31 PM

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"I think its bull shit that if the women wants to keep the baby, the guy has to foot the bill"

the "legitimate" costs of a baby aren't too bad, especially if you have a degree and some sort of career-level job. i figure my daughter costs about $700-800/month (with most of that being daycare costs).

this is assuming that mom doesn't want to buy $50 baby shoes and so many clothes that some of them never get worn and get given away with the tags still attached--you can obviously spend as much as you want.


if you split those costs between two parents, that's not bad at all...that's $350-400 each per month, assuming you split it evenly (and still only $500-600/month if you make more than the other person and cover more of the costs). the problem is if it goes to court and child support gets awarded. they wildly overestimate the costs, and then the parent with primary custody (read: the mother) will be only nominally financially responsible for anything (she'll be court ordered to contribute X amount of dollars per month, but in reality, there is no way to enforce it and that isn't what happens). The parent who gets screwed out of parenting also gets screwed into paying for everything.

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" a mirror image of what the perfect man should be. "

i don't think that's what you meant to say.

[Edited on July 18, 2008 at 1:21 PM. Reason : asdfasd]

7/18/2008 1:18:22 PM