mdozer73 All American 8005 Posts user info edit post |
How many of ya'll are married? If you're thinking about it, I strongly recommend it for several reasons. 1/30/2007 8:57:12 AM |
sober46an3 All American 47925 Posts user info edit post |
1/30/2007 8:58:05 AM |
beergolftile All American 9030 Posts user info edit post |
single
but living with a chick 1/30/2007 9:11:30 AM |
wolfpack0122 All American 3129 Posts user info edit post |
Married with 2 kids 1/30/2007 9:16:16 AM |
beergolftile All American 9030 Posts user info edit post |
2 kids at 24
i would blow my brains out 1/30/2007 9:20:16 AM |
elkaybie All American 39626 Posts user info edit post |
LIVING IN SIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIN 1/30/2007 9:34:38 AM |
NCSUStinger Duh, Winning 62450 Posts user info edit post |
can we use the facebook relationship adjectives
"its complicated" 1/30/2007 9:36:28 AM |
cyrion All American 27139 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "single
but living with a chick" |
1/30/2007 9:36:46 AM |
qntmfred retired 40726 Posts user info edit post |
married to punchmonk
[Edited on January 30, 2007 at 9:49 AM. Reason : no kids though] 1/30/2007 9:49:36 AM |
beergolftile All American 9030 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "LIVING IN SIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIN" |
funny, cause her parents know, but i haven't told mine...1/30/2007 9:55:32 AM |
sober46an3 All American 47925 Posts user info edit post |
why not? you're a big boy now....you can make your own decisions.
[Edited on January 30, 2007 at 10:23 AM. Reason : d] 1/30/2007 10:22:37 AM |
SouthPaW12 All American 10141 Posts user info edit post |
Married just about 6 months now
'Tis great. 1/30/2007 10:29:25 AM |
slackerb All American 5093 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "If you're thinking about it, I strongly recommend it for several reasons." |
And those would be?
Single BTW.1/30/2007 10:29:44 AM |
DZAndrea All American 26939 Posts user info edit post |
betrothed, but with a lovah in another city. 1/30/2007 10:42:06 AM |
sober46an3 All American 47925 Posts user info edit post |
oh, im engaged to be married in may. we currently live together. 1/30/2007 10:46:21 AM |
BobbyDigital Thots and Prayers 41777 Posts user info edit post |
married for 1.5 years. 1/30/2007 10:48:22 AM |
beergolftile All American 9030 Posts user info edit post |
the tax break seems nice 1/30/2007 10:49:27 AM |
BobbyDigital Thots and Prayers 41777 Posts user info edit post |
it is for now.
if my wife was working, we'd end up having a tax penalty, assuming standard medical resident salary. 1/30/2007 10:53:05 AM |
OmarBadu zidik 25071 Posts user info edit post |
engaged ] 1/30/2007 11:01:57 AM |
mdozer73 All American 8005 Posts user info edit post |
BobbyDigital, when did you get married? countrychick and I got married June 18, 2005.
slackerb, I couldn't count the reasons. There are financial reasons as have been mentioned, but most importantly I am sharing my life with someone who I care deeply for. Yes, we cohabited for a short period of time before we "tied the knot," but its still different. In other words, yes, you can have some of those same feelings with a girlfriend, but after you are married, things change for the better. 1/30/2007 12:52:36 PM |
FeverRed All American 8499 Posts user info edit post |
Married, love it, wouldn't recommend it for everyone.
Marriage WILL NOT solve your problems. It WILL NOT necessarily make you closer to each other. Just like having a kid WILL NOT solve your problems, not will it necessarily fill any void except the void where a screaming baby is missing.
It changes nothing and it changes everything at the same time. I love my husband, and getting married was one of THE best decisions I ever made. But holy crap, there's no reason to rush into it thinking it's going to make you closer. If you're both fighting and screaming before you get married, it'll be the same afterwards. I see far too many people getting married for the wrong reasons. But yes, if you get married for the right reasons it's awesome. 1/30/2007 4:57:09 PM |
Patman All American 5873 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "the tax break seems nice" |
Only if one of you isn't working. And even then, you'd save more money paying taxes.1/30/2007 5:05:00 PM |
SouthPaW12 All American 10141 Posts user info edit post |
^^ Spot on.
My wife & I dated for around 5 years before getting married, so we knew very well what we were getting into beforehand, but nothing drastic changes on your wedding day except you wake up beside your best friend everyday (well, at least for me since we didn't live together before marriage).
But waking up beside your best friend everyday is also pretty much the best thing ever if you're certain that's what you want 1/30/2007 5:32:02 PM |
roddy All American 25834 Posts user info edit post |
just wait 5 years, she will get fat, you will go bald, and she will give it up once a month 1/30/2007 5:49:07 PM |
bottombaby IRL 21954 Posts user info edit post |
Married and loving it. 1/30/2007 5:53:18 PM |
joe_schmoe All American 18758 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "just wait 5 years, she will get fat, you will go bald, and she will give it up once a month" |
1/30/2007 6:41:21 PM |
TreeTwista10 minisoldr 148438 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "oh, im engaged to be married in may. we currently live together." |
damn sober...congrats...and here this whole time i thought all your pro gay marriage talk in TSB was just talk1/30/2007 8:30:32 PM |
Nighthawk All American 19623 Posts user info edit post |
I have been married 4 years next month and love it, 95% of the time. Got one almost 3.5 year old son and going to have son #2 in early March.
Quote : | "just wait 5 years, she will get fat, you will go bald, and she will give it up once a month" |
I've put on 10 or 15 and she's put on 20, but she is 8 months pregnant. I haven't gotten it in a month, but she is in her last trimester. Pwnt. haha1/30/2007 10:00:59 PM |
skankinande All American 28213 Posts user info edit post |
Engaged, married in June. 1/30/2007 10:11:27 PM |
kiljadn All American 44690 Posts user info edit post |
married
to the game, son, I can't let these bitches tie me down! 1/30/2007 10:45:14 PM |
David0603 All American 12764 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "I have been married 4 years next month" |
Quote : | "Got one almost 3.5 year old son" |
It's a nice day for a white wedding1/30/2007 10:48:02 PM |
pilgrimshoes Suspended 63151 Posts user info edit post |
glad i didnt follow through with some instincts,
single now 1/30/2007 10:56:11 PM |
Ash83Babe All American 1272 Posts user info edit post |
Married...and I gotta say, I love it... 1/31/2007 12:12:10 AM |
cyrion All American 27139 Posts user info edit post |
my girl wanted to note that im not married and i still dont get any 1/31/2007 9:33:14 AM |
30thAnnZ Suspended 31803 Posts user info edit post |
married 1 year and 4 months ago.
i see very little difference other than legality and her mom being happier about us living together. 1/31/2007 11:40:03 AM |
mattncsu19 All American 787 Posts user info edit post |
abstaining from marriage as long as possible 1/31/2007 1:43:08 PM |
SymeGuy69 All American 11036 Posts user info edit post |
abstinence is the best policy...from marriage i mean 1/31/2007 1:47:36 PM |
ssjamind All American 30102 Posts user info edit post |
married...to the game, son, I can't let these bitches tie me down! 1/31/2007 3:28:01 PM |
eltownse All American 1851 Posts user info edit post |
Married to mbcarpen since June '06.
Loving it! 2/1/2007 10:59:40 AM |
Shadowrunner All American 18332 Posts user info edit post |
married for three years, lovin' it. but it's no different than before we were married, except for tax purposes. we already lived together beforehand and had dated for almost five years. 2/1/2007 2:22:46 PM |
8=======D Suspended 588 Posts user info edit post |
didn't you buy your ring from Grimbells, mdozer? i think i saw you on pricescope.com 2/1/2007 2:52:20 PM |
beergolftile All American 9030 Posts user info edit post |
living with someone for the first time is weird, but fun - it is nice to have someone to come home to every night and hang with who actually cares about my day.
Much better than the dogshit relationship that i was too stupid to end from 04-06 where she lived at fucking home in another city. 2/1/2007 3:35:39 PM |
ncsuGALxcPaC All American 4160 Posts user info edit post |
I have lived w/ my boyfriend since June and we are in the process of house shopping now since the lease is up May 31...
And maybe I'll get engaged this year. 2/1/2007 3:36:04 PM |
OmarBadu zidik 25071 Posts user info edit post |
whose name is the property going to go in? both or just 1? 2/1/2007 3:55:20 PM |
8=======D Suspended 588 Posts user info edit post |
yea good luck buying the house jointly without being married - talk about a PAIN 2/1/2007 5:47:55 PM |
OmarBadu zidik 25071 Posts user info edit post |
i was wondering b/c there's a possibility that my fiance and i will be buying a place ~1month before we get married and i need to find out how that works 2/1/2007 6:31:37 PM |
stone All American 6003 Posts user info edit post |
married for 3 months. it has been great so far, in fact i really never thought being married would be this much fun. but heck i married up so i hope its this good for her! 2/1/2007 7:14:34 PM |
mdozer73 All American 8005 Posts user info edit post |
nope not me, never been on pricescope.com 2/2/2007 8:32:30 AM |
sober46an3 All American 47925 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "i was wondering b/c there's a possibility that my fiance and i will be buying a place ~1month before we get married and i need to find out how that works" |
i bought a house with my gf before we were even engaged. Both our names are on the mortgage, and once we get married, we will just get it changed.
Quote : | "yea good luck buying the house jointly without being married - talk about a PAIN" |
why do you say that? we have had absolutely zero problems with it, in fact, our title company even said they would switch the new name in for free once its official.2/2/2007 9:13:43 AM |
OmarBadu zidik 25071 Posts user info edit post |
^ thanks 2/2/2007 9:36:36 AM |