holy shit, babymama finally actually gave me back a little child support money that she didn't need.

4/26/2008 11:38:34 PM

Woooooooo, just don't fall for it WOOOOOOOO!!!

4/26/2008 11:46:10 PM

Quote :

"- Having parents that are still married Yea on both sides, but her mother is remarried"

i think they meant to each other... so, on your side then

^^yay!!!!

^lol

4/27/2008 8:20:35 PM

is there such a thing as a post-nup?

6/6/2008 10:27:50 AM

For richer or poorer ... or according to the postnuptial agreement

http://www.bankrate.com/brm/news/advice/20021021a.asp

6/6/2008 10:35:01 AM

I'm a single father for the next four days.

I've never taken care of this child 24/7 by myself before.

I'm thinking i'm going to surprise my parents this weekend with a visit.

6/6/2008 12:38:16 PM

BTTT

1/1/2009 4:37:57 AM

You now dont need to worry about child support if you want to start a family....just go to a "egg bank" and then they fertized it with your junk...then put it into a "host" until delivery. Just cost around $100K...that is what Clay did...since the birth mother is not really the mother by blood, it lessons the chance that she would want to keep the baby. Less baby momma drama!

1/1/2009 3:21:19 PM

^^^

hahaha, reading that post is kinda funny 6 months later.

I'm a seasoned pro now.

One thing that's kind of ironic is how much of a chick magnet a baby is. Whenever I take my daughter out to a mall, grocery store or anywhere in public, i get mobbed by the womens.

1/2/2009 8:37:45 AM

INSTANT BUSINESS IDEA

1/2/2009 10:08:38 AM

^^ that's because they think you're safe. and babies are cute.

1/2/2009 4:27:44 PM

bump

7/15/2009 9:15:43 AM

took my ex back to court yesterday...

After 2 court hearings, one mediation session, $10,000 in lawyer's fees, nearly 3 years, and pressing a contempt charge for her violating the previous visitation order, I [if]finally[/i] am getting to spend time with my little girl! I get her for a little over 2 weeks, then she comes back to FL, then I get her for a MONTH!

On top of all that, my ex lied under oath in court and got caught--she claimed that I hadn't seen my daughter in 22 months!, which is not even CLOSE to being accurate. I more or less proved it by calling in my mom as a witness, who told the exact same story that I'd just told. I'll produce the airline ticket receipts, pictuers of me with my daughter, etc at the next hearing. There's another thing or two that I think I can prove that she was lying about, too. Should be a bad day for her at the next day in court.

7/15/2009 9:27:32 AM

Goddamn you're stuck with a heinous lying bitch as the mother of your child. I bet that wench would get mad at you if in 3 years your daughter was like "Why doesn't daddy love me?" because she was keeping you from seeing her.

7/15/2009 10:52:14 AM

Damn, for 10K I bet you could have found a way to make your problem permanently disappear.

7/15/2009 11:56:40 AM

I don't want my little girl to grow up without her mother (although I would prefer to be the more dominant influence in her life).


I had her for a couple of hours last night, then all day today. Her mother has her from 4-7 pm tonight, then I have her until 9-noon tomorrow morning, then I can come to NC with her for over 2 weeks! After that, she comes back to FL for 2 weeks, and then I have her for a solid month!

7/15/2009 6:30:44 PM

why dont you sue for custody? get mama to pay you a little child support.

7/16/2009 10:18:58 AM

If she keeps fucking with me, I will. I don't yet have the grounds to have custody changed, though.

7/16/2009 10:26:38 AM

^^^ that's great - congrats!

also, no reason whatsoever for the two of you to not have 50/50 custody. you get her when you're here, she gets her when you're deployed. kills the child support issue too. sounds like the kid would be better off not learning teh crazy at her momma's knee.

[Edited on July 17, 2009 at 7:35 PM. Reason : asdf]

7/17/2009 7:35:06 PM

i don't think that'll happen.

if I can get custody, though, her mother can have her as much of the time as she wants. i'd even allow 50/50 in the agreement, and would let her have her more than that periodically, if she wanted. i'm not out to keep my little girl from her mother.

7/17/2009 11:17:38 PM

Only $10K in lawyers so far? Consider yourself lucky

7/18/2009 4:57:48 PM

duke, thats good of you to want the 50/50 and be willing to do more

when my parents got divorced when i was 4, my dad was only awarded like 2 weeks a year but my mom let him take me for the whole summer, anywhere from 6-8 weeks. those extra weeks made a difference and while having 50/50 would have been better, the fact that my mom let him take me more than the legally required amount benefitted me as a child spending time with my dad.

7/19/2009 10:04:59 PM

This is when your past comes back to haunt you....that all comes out in court....

7/19/2009 11:09:58 PM