parents won't give money
Most of my paycheck goes to bills so I have NOTHING right now
Need at least 3 months to save up
Need to stay in job for April bonus of like $1300


What can I fucking do?

I need ideas no trolling.

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 7:33 PM. Reason : parents live out of state]

1/16/2008 7:33:07 PM

1/16/2008 7:34:04 PM

couple questions...

currently have a job?
when are you being kicked out?

1/16/2008 7:34:08 PM

ask a coworker to host you for a bit
not like you aren't working or anything

1/16/2008 7:34:31 PM

Are you on the lease where you live?

1/16/2008 7:34:47 PM

i dont get how your parents "wont give" you money...i mean i can understand if you wanted money for something dumb and them saying no

but i mean this is your fucking life we are talking about...thats some cold hearted shit to just say we are not giving you money for you to survive

1/16/2008 7:35:40 PM

1/16/2008 7:35:58 PM

legally if youve lived somewhere for 6 months the owner has to file for eviction.

1/16/2008 7:36:34 PM

Have a job, like within a week

Not leasing bf is pushing me to the streets

Stupid me spent my money making people happy during the holidays now I'm out.

Three months to live on a couch? Would you want a three month troll?

1/16/2008 7:36:37 PM

You're an adult now. Learn how to live within your means and how to save money.

1/16/2008 7:37:13 PM

this is a bit of a side note... but how long has tww has the username button?

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 7:38 PM. Reason : yan is doing what?]

1/16/2008 7:37:14 PM

there is only one answer.... and it comes from your own gallery

1/16/2008 7:38:27 PM

Quote :

"legally if youve lived somewhere for 6 months the owner has to file for eviction."

if not lease has been signed then it is considered month-to-month, that is why you always have 30 days to get out if someone kicks you out in nc

1/16/2008 7:39:21 PM

1) her parents are raging dickweeds. She's not entirely blameless, but they have long had a tendency to overreact
2) Mr Grace - this is TN, not NC. ^, too
3) suxb2u, kern. sorry.

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 7:39 PM. Reason : ^]

1/16/2008 7:39:39 PM

cant you take the money you were giving your bf for staying at his place and put that toward an apt?

sure it may not be a good place, but you dont have to stay there forever

1/16/2008 7:40:04 PM

i dont get why yan is all the sudden flipping out to the point where he is kicking you out like this without at least letting you get a place to stay first...? i guess he doesnt care about coming off as a douche on tww or something...i'm guessing you wore the pants in the relationship and he got tired of it

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 7:41 PM. Reason : .]

1/16/2008 7:41:28 PM

if she wanted to air the specifics, she would have.

Quote :

"cant you take the money you were giving your bf for staying at his place and put that toward an apt? "

Some men, especially those who graduated from engineering and have gfs still in school, let their girls live with them in exchange for things other than money.

1/16/2008 7:42:45 PM

it would take three months for me to get the money i need to move out because my bills are huge

hes letting me save the money but he keeps asking when i will leave, i dont want to stay where im not wanted. he's kicking me out the only way he knows how to.

I could forfeit my job and big bonus by moving in with my friend and finding a job there until we can move but that will delay our big move by a lot and id get a low paying job

1/16/2008 7:43:12 PM

^^ That's some sad, funny shit right there.

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 7:43 PM. Reason : ]

1/16/2008 7:43:22 PM

he'll tell you he's not kicking me out but he's said lots of things that mean GET OUT

should i get a small loan? like $3k?

1/16/2008 7:44:57 PM

honestly if he isnt explicity saying you have to go i'd stay until you get your shit straight

fuck that "i dont want to stay where i'm not wanted" shit

1/16/2008 7:45:52 PM

^exactly

if you'd prefer getting a loan over staying where you arent wanted then thats your deal

1/16/2008 7:46:57 PM

Quote :

"Some men punk-ass-pussies, especially those who graduated from engineering and have gfs still in school, let their girls live with them in exchange for things other than money."

1/16/2008 7:47:44 PM

its pretty much hell here. tiptoeing around not wanting to show yourself because it's annoying the home owner who can change the locks while someone pesters you about leaving and how much you suck cause youre a fucking broke ass and NO one will help you out.

yeah if i wasnt strong id jump off a bridge by now

any ideas anyone??

1/16/2008 7:48:17 PM

i don't understand what this is about, explain to me kiwi then i might can help

1/16/2008 7:50:08 PM

-we broke up
-we both agreed when searching for a house both names wouldnt be on paperwork
-his credit better he bought house-no he wants me out, obviously
-i have no options, no money

looking for somewhere to go

1/16/2008 7:51:18 PM

wow. seems this was planned. why did yall break up if you don't mind me asking? anyway, just show up at your rent's house and i am sure they will let you in. if not then i don't know what to tell you.

btw where are you at? how far from your nearest peeps?

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 7:53 PM. Reason : zf]

1/16/2008 7:52:43 PM

i have a job with big pay out here parents live in raleigh, im in knoxville

if i have to i can do that but thats throwing allllll of it away

1/16/2008 7:53:57 PM

you cant afford an apt for 3 months?

try some shabby places, should find one for cheap or look for people in need of roommates in cheap places

if you dont want to live in a cheap place cause its beneath you to do so, then this really isnt a real problem

1/16/2008 7:54:46 PM

serious ideas:

credit cards. then pay them off asap. long term debt = bad. short term debt is always ok.

do you have a 401k? you can use part of them depending on how you have it setup.

1/16/2008 7:55:22 PM

did you buzz up a jewel thief

1/16/2008 7:56:54 PM

its not beneath me minus the fact that a stranger would be a my roomie and could kill me, plus deposits and pet fees??

401k was just started in july

poor credit=no credit cards

1/16/2008 7:57:13 PM

Scrounge up a few hundred bucks via saving, selling, or credit cards. Post ads offering to clean houses or rake yards in any spare time you might have to make extra money.

Find someone on Craigslist who doesn't mind letting you in for $400/month all inclusive and will let you pay $200 on the 1st and 15th of the month instead of paying it all up front. Live off the cheapest foods possible and water for a month while working as much as possible.

Accept the fact that the next 4-6 weeks are going to suck and do your best with it.

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 8:00 PM. Reason : l ]

1/16/2008 7:57:39 PM

ah
i see now. this is a sticky situation. sorry you do not have a nest egg. my cousinn did the same thing, except there was not break up, you just thought she could move and take a decent job and make it, but fucked herself over. i moved to raleigh and did not know anybody, went to state, graduated, got a job and got my own shit. anyway, hate to sound like a dick but i hope that you learned your lessons. what would i do in this situation? hmmm.... probably would just go to a rental place and just tell them everything and take pay stubs with you, and hope that they will work with you.

1/16/2008 7:58:00 PM

Quote :

"minus the fact that a stranger would be a my roomie and could kill me"

i could never be a chick

1/16/2008 7:58:58 PM

NEVER tap into your 401k that's the worst idea i've ever heard. if you're trying to get a small loan from a bank, that might not work.

credit cards are probably your best bet, but like you said you're already trying to pay off debt. if it's student loan debt your paying, more than likely you can get them deferred for about 6 months... my roommate had to do that so she could get her shit together.

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 8:03 PM. Reason : ok, apparently you can't get credit cards... ]

1/16/2008 8:01:41 PM

if you cant get a credit card, you likely wouldnt be able to get a loan

though i have very limited knowledge in this field, so take it with a grain of salt

1/16/2008 8:02:54 PM

the only way you'd get a loan is if someone would co-sign for you... but if your credit is so bad you can't even get a credit card, i doubt anyone would want to co-sign for you.

1/16/2008 8:04:17 PM

i checked it recently and it said poor, high risk but its like more than half of 830 lol

i cant take this rollercoaster bullshit

1/16/2008 8:06:48 PM

you can live with me!





...in raleigh

1/16/2008 8:09:52 PM

this fucking sucks

i learned my lesson

1/16/2008 8:10:54 PM

i don't know what the situation is with your debt repayment, and when you gotta move out and everything... but the only thing i can suggest is, call your debtors and find out if there's anyway you can defer payment of your bills for a few months until you get your act together, start only paying the minimum balance, and save as much of the rest of your pay check as possible... if you've been living rent free you should have had some sort of savings started.. but i'm assuming you don't.

other than that, i don't know what you tell you

1/16/2008 8:11:47 PM

yeah, being homeless sucks, but being homeless without friends who let you live on their couch sucks worse

1/16/2008 8:11:54 PM

lol I drifted for two weeks down in Delray

I came thru it alright

1/16/2008 8:12:57 PM

seriously kiwi...i dont get why you are trying to act all prideful over this "dont want to live where i'm not wanted"

i'd say this is a situation you dont want to be arrogant/ignorant in...if he is letting you stay, even if he wants you out, then fucking stay

its seriously that easy

1/16/2008 8:14:13 PM

It was about 6 weeks for me

^yes, but she needs to make a plan because she will eventually have to get out, and it just isn't healthy to stay there, in my opinion. i know i couldn't do it.

[Edited on January 16, 2008 at 8:15 PM. Reason : ]

1/16/2008 8:14:27 PM

yeah im screwed. never again will i let myself into this position.

he said people were pressuring him to force me out
i dont know what to think but hes letting me stay

fuck me man

1/16/2008 8:14:40 PM

Quote :

"he said people were pressuring him to force me out "

Ryan pays the goddamn mortgage, not those other folks.

1/16/2008 8:15:33 PM

women can always make monies

seriously, sell off your computer, tv, and what have you to spare.

1/16/2008 8:16:07 PM

ok i guess i wont post here for a while


i just want you to know, if you fuck up this 1300 dollar bonus thing, then you are seriously one of the dumbest people i've ever met


i dont know anyone that would fuck up something worth 1300 dollars

1/16/2008 8:16:23 PM