if you knew this guy, hes a friend of a friend from awhile back. you dont really ever talk to him

you go to school here in raleigh and he goes to school in Kentucky to some private school.

He talks to u online for about a month at the most. sends you flowers and has been telling you he loves you and wants to be with you and basically make things work out to the best. then once he graduates this semester, moves to raleigh area to go to grad school. you have another year in undergrad.

you barely know him.

do you let this guy come see you for a day while he comes home to friends for a weekend?
and if so, do you even consider this guy anything other than a nice distant friend?

1/21/2008 11:20:10 PM

so you're the guy in this story, right?

1/21/2008 11:23:44 PM

negative

1/21/2008 11:23:57 PM

^^ i too am confused

[Edited on January 21, 2008 at 11:24 PM. Reason : nevermind. question answered]

1/21/2008 11:24:00 PM

So, what you're saying, is that you're hypothetically an internet stalker?

1/21/2008 11:25:00 PM

I need to use the bathroom, but the toilet needs plunging. I'm putting it off for a little bit.

1/21/2008 11:25:21 PM

your friend is going to fuck him if he's hot enough.

1/21/2008 11:27:39 PM

i'm a big fan of let the water work its magic for an hour then flush again

it works 75 percent of the time every time



but for real. plunge that shit.

[Edited on January 21, 2008 at 11:29 PM. Reason : ^^]

1/21/2008 11:28:57 PM

Quote :

"sends you flowers and has been telling you he loves you and wants to be with you and basically make things work out to the best. then once he graduates this semester, moves to raleigh area to go to grad school. you have another year in undergrad. you barely know him. "

Saying all that when a chick barely knows you indicated you are a huge wuss. Women hate wussy men.

1/21/2008 11:29:53 PM

^yea, let the water soak in and then plunge a bit while u flush


and no, im not the stalker, the other guy is.

but shes too ignorant and niave because she thinks this nice guy actually loves her but doesnt really know her at all



so ladies, do u actually give him a chance
after he says he loves u without meeting you

1/21/2008 11:30:25 PM

yeah, the girl that you're keen on is going to fuck some guy she barely knows when she sees him for a day. sorry mang

[Edited on January 21, 2008 at 11:31 PM. Reason : it happens, ya know?]

1/21/2008 11:31:06 PM

^^^yeh chicks prefer to be put in their place & to be told when she needs to make you a damn sammich

amirite?

[Edited on January 21, 2008 at 11:31 PM. Reason : ^]

1/21/2008 11:31:20 PM

^^^ I wouldn't give him a chance.

Quote :

"yeh chicks prefer to be put in their place & to be told when she needs to make you a damn sammich"

Exactly.

[Edited on January 21, 2008 at 11:32 PM. Reason : .]

1/21/2008 11:31:41 PM

i go to the bar and don't think about retarded shit like this.

1/21/2008 11:31:47 PM

Quote :

"sends you flowers and has been telling you he loves you and wants to be with you"

Quote :

"you dont really ever talk to him"

Quote :

"you barely know him."

figure it out for yourself you creepy fuck

1/21/2008 11:32:22 PM

exactly, any girl would not speak to him again

atleast thats what every girl i know says

1/21/2008 11:33:31 PM

except the girl who is in the situation.

1/21/2008 11:33:53 PM

exactly

1/21/2008 11:34:04 PM

just tell her how you feel mang.

1/21/2008 11:34:20 PM

no, she knows the protest, she just doesnt think its bad that he does say that

1/21/2008 11:45:16 PM

^means shes looking to drop you & looking for any opportunity to do so

start looking for a new chick or just beat her to the punch & drop her ass & catch her off guard

1/21/2008 11:46:57 PM

we have been seperated and so this guy started talking to her
but its like shes wanting to be with me again too

but cant tell the guy off

like she doesnt want to

thats why i said no and fuck off

[Edited on January 21, 2008 at 11:48 PM. Reason : she has done this many times in her past...........playing two guys]

1/21/2008 11:48:30 PM

& you still want to be with her?

that tells me you dig this drama & dont actually want help on here, but rather want attention

drop that bitch or dont cry on here in a few weeks/months when she drops your ass

1/21/2008 11:51:48 PM

Quote :

"and no, im not the stalker, the other guy is. but shes too ignorant and niave because she thinks this nice guy actually loves her but doesnt really know her at all so ladies, do u actually give him a chance after he says he loves u without meeting you"

I like how he's denying that it's him, but at the same time still loooking for an answer.


Nice try.

1/21/2008 11:52:13 PM

ha, no........we have been together for awhile and been having issues but temporarely seperated while we worked things out.

the guy in question is in another state

really at this point, im wanting her to see people tell her its insane, which it is

but as far as we go, im done with her cause she really was ok with hanging out with him

1/21/2008 11:54:34 PM

i believe ive heard this story somewhere before...

1/21/2008 11:55:34 PM

well, he's a fucking creep

and she's apparently a god damn idiot and slutbag

winnar!

1/21/2008 11:56:51 PM

i have a hard enough time not meeting creeps in person, i'd def not meet one from online

1/21/2008 11:57:36 PM

I think most people take the internet with a grain of salt. They don't really expect everyone to mean everything they say.

It wouldn't stop me from meeting him, though I wouldn't have let him do stuff like that beforehand, especially if I had a boyfriend at the time.

1/21/2008 11:58:23 PM

sounds to me like datman is pussy whipped.

1/22/2008 12:04:10 AM

naw, im done with her


on a side note.

he sent her flowers with a note saying specifically how much he loved her and how much he hopes she dates him so they can work it out and be happy together

it was like a paragraph of stalker

1/22/2008 12:06:39 AM

if you're done with her, this shouldnt be an issue.




PUSSY WHIPPED.

1/22/2008 12:09:48 AM

1/22/2008 12:12:59 AM

like i said, its more of just her seeing it and figuring it out that it was stupid and insane

regardless if she does or not, im done

1/22/2008 12:44:48 AM

^ well if that's what you think, why bother caring about the situation any more?

or posting threads about it?

1/22/2008 12:45:38 AM

bored

1/22/2008 12:46:47 AM

^ not buying that.

1/22/2008 12:48:09 AM

ok

1/22/2008 12:49:42 AM

Stalker alert.

1/22/2008 12:52:12 AM

1/22/2008 12:53:21 AM

whoooo hooo, great advice from tww again tonight

1/22/2008 12:54:03 AM

what did you really expect from this situation you presented us with?

1/22/2008 12:54:56 AM

well, its obvious you still care about her.


mind games man, you need to learn how to play them. you constantly telling her that the guy isnt right for her just pushes her towards him more. try different tactics, you gotta learn to play mind games with this type of girl.


she doesnt strike me as very bright, so it shouldnt be too hard.

1/22/2008 12:58:02 AM

i am not going to play mind games with her

i cant reason with her, but its either me and telling this obvious stalker kid from another state to just stop

or she doesn't get me


simple, but she couldn't decide right off hand. so i am leaving

shes an awful person for doing that, trying to make me stay there AGAIN while she decides what she wants to do, me or him



and yes, you are a worse hypocrite than me

but i do love her

[Edited on January 22, 2008 at 1:19 AM. Reason : oddly enough]

1/22/2008 1:00:39 AM

Indeed, the more you say that she shouldn't be interested in him and that the dude's a stalker, it's just going to drive her toward him. It's fucked up and I'm not saying you're still interested in her, but irregardless, that dude is risky business. He sounds like one of those nuts that gets obsessed and when she finally realizes it he'll flip out and do something stupid.

1/22/2008 1:23:39 AM

senior girls are always all over the grad students.

1/22/2008 1:25:54 AM

shes a junior

and its just a lot of stuff

but its so complicated but she knows she shouldnt do this but shes doing it anyways

[Edited on January 22, 2008 at 1:35 AM. Reason : god y do they do it]

1/22/2008 1:34:52 AM

Date older women, they know the business.

1/22/2008 1:36:30 AM

god is making the carl face right now

1/22/2008 1:37:23 AM

Quote :

"shes a junior"

junior, "senior" on the 5, or 6 year plan, whatev, it's all good.

[Edited on January 22, 2008 at 1:52 AM. Reason : ]

1/22/2008 1:52:05 AM