...in a member of the opposite sex?


I think it's confidence.

3/8/2008 10:43:19 PM

Humor, confidence, and intelligence are equally important.

3/8/2008 10:43:48 PM

no one asked what you think.

3/8/2008 10:44:01 PM

not being a bitch

3/8/2008 10:44:16 PM

their tits

3/8/2008 10:44:17 PM

Common fucking sense.

This can be manifested through wisdom, intelligence, experience, or sound reasoning...

Other things are important too, but there are plenty of "smart" people out there who lack common sense. It keeps people from making extremely poor life choices, financial choices, health and dietary choices, etc.

People who have enough sense to keep a balanced checkbook and not to eat fast food all the time get the boost in the ratings for sexy time.

3/8/2008 10:47:32 PM

humor

damnit rob don't leave yourself logged in!

[Edited on March 8, 2008 at 10:48 PM. Reason : HAX]

3/8/2008 10:48:00 PM

intelligence, being a non-smoker if that counts as non-physical

3/8/2008 10:48:43 PM

humor and intelligence

usually can't have one without the other

3/8/2008 10:49:25 PM

loves giving BJs

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3/8/2008 10:49:59 PM

what woman cant balance a checkbook?

3/8/2008 10:51:11 PM

^^ Good call

[Edited on March 8, 2008 at 10:52 PM. Reason : ^]

3/8/2008 10:51:33 PM

Whit.

3/8/2008 10:51:47 PM

Whit?

3/8/2008 10:52:09 PM

YEAH, YOU GOT ME, YOU RULE GIRL

3/8/2008 10:52:59 PM

Quote :

"what woman cant balance a checkbook?"

Have you heard all the women on TWW bitching about their credit card debt?

I'm talking about people who make poor choices like "Well I want this now but I can't afford it, so i'll just use money I don't have to buy it!" I understand carrying a balance occasionally when money gets tight or you have emergency expenses, but it seems like there's plenty of people out there who just spend and put shit on their credit card without really thinking about the consequences. It also seems like they're usually buying stuff they don't need (more consumer items instead of essentials like food or gas or paying the electric bill or something).

Most people out there probably don't balance their checkbooks now either. Probably just use the debit card their bank offers since it's often free to get these days.

3/8/2008 10:55:12 PM

Yeah, I know way too many girls who graduated college and still owed tons of money on clothes that don't even fit anymore.

3/8/2008 10:57:12 PM

boobs

3/8/2008 11:13:10 PM

LOL at all the typical guy responses...

3/8/2008 11:24:28 PM

not apeshit psycho.

3/8/2008 11:35:10 PM

Confidence is FAR too often confused with Cocky-ness, being an ass, full of yourself, and many other monster turn-offs


Common Sense wins

3/8/2008 11:37:37 PM

sense of humor

nobody likes talking to a board.

3/8/2008 11:38:42 PM

Quote :

"humor damnit rob don't leave yourself logged in! [Edited on March 8, 2008 at 10:48 PM. Reason : HAX]"

ahhh, ya got me.





But no, seriously, heterosexuality. Because without that, it is a pretty much a moot point.

[Edited on March 8, 2008 at 11:54 PM. Reason : [no HAX]]

3/8/2008 11:53:18 PM

sense of humor.

And the laugh. Some girls just have such a beautiful laugh it brightens my day just hearing it. I know that sounds gay but whatever.


For an example of what I consider a great laugh, see Rachel McAdams laugh during her older sister's wedding.

3/8/2008 11:53:34 PM

HONESTY


Athleticism
Humor
Intelligence
Ability to teach me something new
Confidence
Sincerity

[Edited on March 9, 2008 at 1:02 AM. Reason : the real number one]

3/9/2008 1:01:51 AM

not being a bitch

3/9/2008 1:22:10 AM

I actually prefer girls not to be smart

not like retarded, but not smart enough to craft any complex string of thoughts together that might result in me being proved wrong

she has to be able to have a discerning ear for humor tho

Because I say a lot of funny shit and I expect her to laugh

but then when the bitch laughs every 5 second in a shitty movie like Semi pro, I know its time to move on

3/9/2008 1:53:16 AM

a good cook and not being a dumbass

3/9/2008 2:13:29 AM

Humor, confidence, and intelligence are equally important.

3/9/2008 2:15:40 AM

intelligence and compassion

3/9/2008 2:24:13 AM

Quote :

"intelligence, being a non-smoker if that counts as non-physical"

3/9/2008 2:26:38 AM

intelligence

3/9/2008 2:36:27 AM

tits and ass

3/9/2008 2:45:38 AM

conversation.

3/9/2008 8:44:01 AM

humor

<3 steve carrell, jim carrey, sometimes even will farrell

3/9/2008 9:43:29 AM

not being a bitch

3/9/2008 9:48:51 AM

I agree with Mindstorm

3/9/2008 9:53:00 AM

a tie between common sense and character.

3/9/2008 9:56:41 AM

Quote :

"humor and intelligence usually can't have one without the other "

honesty
kindness
will stick up for me
someone that doesn't like (what i consider) to be shitty music
someone who can fight fair

3/9/2008 10:57:10 AM

haha good luck with that one

3/9/2008 10:58:15 AM

I still think my response is under-appreciated.

3/9/2008 10:59:44 AM

i don't see how honesty is attractive.

i'd say that a good sense of humor and the way the girl carries herself (i.e. cool, composed, etc) are attractive

3/9/2008 10:59:48 AM

sarcasm

3/9/2008 11:04:19 AM

honesty/humor are tied for #1 with me.

3/9/2008 11:04:31 AM

Thats a fucking lie. Women want to hear what they want to hear. They only say they want their men to be "honest" so they can comfortably lie to themselves.

3/9/2008 11:05:45 AM

christ dude, bitter are we?

3/9/2008 11:08:04 AM

thanks for throwing a blanket statement over all women. We're not all insecure and only want to hear what we want to hear.

3/9/2008 11:10:53 AM

how can you be attracted to "honesty?"

You generally don't find out if a person is honest until you've already past the honeymoon phase of a relationship.

unless you're really really close friends with them first, which would indicate that you only date people that were BFFs.

3/9/2008 11:11:09 AM

Quote :

"christ dude, bitter are we?"

nope not at all actually, I just enjoy calling people out on bullshit (and can appreciate a good call-out myself)

I just find that most women* don't appreciate honesty as much as they say they would. To be sure, they don't want to be made to look like a fool, but any man knows that when they ask your opinion about them, they don't actually want the truth. They want you to tell a pleasant lie that reinforces the image they're forever trying to project on the world.


I know of a few women who defy this stereotype, but not many.

Men do it too, just not en-masse.











*most not all mind you, I'm sure [user]StillFusicha[/user] isn't one of them, lets head that one off at the pass.

3/9/2008 11:12:47 AM

Quote :

"They only say they want their men to be "honest" so they can comfortably lie to themselves."

3/9/2008 11:13:04 AM