how long is a legitimate wait time for that guy you gave your number to over the weekend to call you? 2 day rule still good?

4/22/2008 9:58:54 AM

what is this, 9th grade?

4/22/2008 9:59:27 AM

how soon do you want to fuck her?

4/22/2008 10:00:01 AM

soon.

4/22/2008 10:00:22 AM

Depends on how well you guys clicked.

4/22/2008 10:00:48 AM

we clicked REALLY well. like probably the best "clicking" i have had in a VERY long time.

4/22/2008 10:02:24 AM

don't call her...

text her about 10:30 tonight...just to see "what's up"....

then she'll take care of the rest if she wants to do it

4/22/2008 10:03:27 AM

LivinProof78 does some of the best "clicking" i've ever seen

4/22/2008 10:03:34 AM

Call her up today!!!

Enough time has passed.

[Edited on April 22, 2008 at 10:04 AM. Reason : If you're serious about wanting to make something happen the call....if you wanna play games, text]

4/22/2008 10:03:43 AM

girl...you know just as well as i do...

the game IS serious


it won't make her feel as much like a whore as calling her up and saying "get on this"


[Edited on April 22, 2008 at 10:06 AM. Reason : formalities hide shame well]

4/22/2008 10:05:23 AM

LOL troo troo if referring to the fucking game...

You think more like a dude! I've lost that ability as of late

[Edited on April 22, 2008 at 10:09 AM. Reason : I've become a girl ]

4/22/2008 10:06:10 AM

but then again...i'm told repeatedly by dudes that i don't know what i'm talking about when it comes to women...


you know...since i have no experience in that area and all

4/22/2008 10:08:00 AM

If the chemistry between you is as good as you say it is, go ahead and call her up today and ask her out to lunch or drinks sometime this week. Try and do something casual for the first date and do dinner on the second date.

4/22/2008 10:09:32 AM

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wonder y ?

4/22/2008 10:10:42 AM

CALLED OUT!

4/22/2008 10:14:21 AM

Novicane, you should change your username to NOGAME

4/22/2008 10:25:49 AM

^4

I'd go with that.

4/22/2008 10:27:55 AM

i hope said chick is on tww

4/22/2008 10:28:23 AM

Oh yeah and don't call in the middle of the day since she could be at work/school and you don't wanna bug her. I'd say call sometime after 7 so she's had time to do after work crap like work out or eat dinner. And if she doesn't answer don't call back immediately, leave a brief voicemail saying you had a good time with her the other night and ask her to call you back sometime. If you don't hear back from her by like Thursday or Friday give her one more call and if there is no dice, then she doesn't like you as much as she thought you did.

4/22/2008 10:32:52 AM

if you leave a voice mail and she doesn't call you back almost immediately then you don't need to call her again....


period

4/22/2008 12:44:52 PM

FACEBOOK FACEBOOK FACEBOOK

4/22/2008 12:46:28 PM

oooooo....i can't believe i forgot that...

poke her on facebook before you call her

4/22/2008 12:48:05 PM

Quote :

"don't call her... text her about 10:30 tonight...just to see "what's up".... then she'll take care of the rest if she wants to do it"

solid advice ..... also, add a smiley face.. you know, one of these



^ no

[Edited on April 22, 2008 at 12:48 PM. Reason : x]

[Edited on April 22, 2008 at 12:49 PM. Reason : x]

4/22/2008 12:48:21 PM

haha...the facebook poke was a joke...


but the other was dead on...

i'm not here to to tell you the "proper" thing to do...

i'm here to tell you what's going to work


[Edited on April 22, 2008 at 12:50 PM. Reason : oh for sure...bitches love smiley faces]

4/22/2008 12:49:43 PM

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4/22/2008 12:51:12 PM

games are stupid, if you want to call her then call her.
and poking on facebook would be creepy becuase that took the time to stalk her

4/22/2008 12:51:27 PM

did you miss that part that said

Quote :

"haha...the facebook poke was a joke..."

4/22/2008 12:54:07 PM

girls love games..... even though they rant on and on about it being stupid, its what keeps them wanting more.




.... also, dont listen to fatties.

[Edited on April 22, 2008 at 12:54 PM. Reason : x]

4/22/2008 12:54:13 PM

call her.Calling her earlier or later won't change whether or not she is into it.
Call her and make plans for later in the week.

4/22/2008 12:54:19 PM

call her the next day. otherwise she may forget who you are.

4/22/2008 12:54:55 PM

Quote :

"girls love games..... even though they rant on and on about it being stupid, its what keeps them wanting more."

exactly...

i fucking hate games....but i do it cause it works

Quote :

"call her the next day. otherwise she may forget who you are."

this is also true....i had deep and meaningful conversations with a few of guys one night at the bar....i gave each of them my number and told them we really must hang out again....

each of them called....each of them also happened to be named justin...i couldn't remember who was who so i just said fuck and didn't talk to either of them anymore...

[Edited on April 22, 2008 at 12:58 PM. Reason : adsf]

4/22/2008 12:55:30 PM

dont forget about the smiley face !... this is essential

4/22/2008 12:56:21 PM

^

4/22/2008 12:56:33 PM

no i didn't miss it, just re-iterating

4/22/2008 12:56:33 PM

I called a girl after three days (maybe four actually). And when we met up for drinks for the first time...she said that after the 2nd day she had it set in her mind that I wouldn't call.

I was taken aback. 2nd day?? Really?? She was three years older than me, so I assumed she had less strict parameters. It all worked out in the end though.

4/22/2008 12:57:00 PM

Quote :

"FACEBOOK FACEBOOK FACEBOOK 4/22/2008 12:46:28 PM LivinProof78 All American 25615 Posts user info edit post oooooo....i can't believe i forgot that... poke her on facebook before you call her"

you people missed what Sweden was saying.....Novicane used to make a few facebook threads a day about trying to egame them, poke them, etc.

it was pretty lame

4/22/2008 12:57:12 PM

call her if you want to date/fuck


text her if you want to fuck



/thread

4/22/2008 12:58:49 PM

Quote :

"I called a girl after three days (maybe four actually). And when we met up for drinks for the first time...she said that after the 2nd day she had it set in her mind that I wouldn't call. I was taken aback. 2nd day?? Really?? She was three years older than me, so I assumed she had less strict parameters. It all worked out in the end though."

are you serious...that really concerned you?

all girls want to think you like them enough to call them as soon as you get home....

that being said....you're shooting yourself in the foot if you do

4/22/2008 1:00:56 PM

Was Novicane also the one that goes out on eharmony dates on a regular basis??

I can't remember.

4/22/2008 1:01:41 PM

sometimes i'll wait a few days and call and be like "yeah i wanted to call you the next day but i didnt know what kind of dumbass games you like to play so i waited a few days"

4/22/2008 1:02:34 PM

^

4/22/2008 1:03:01 PM

Send her a text message with a smiley face:

4/22/2008 1:03:26 PM

2 day rule works like a charm, it's timeless.

4/22/2008 1:03:55 PM

dude. CALL HER. you're a guy. you're actually given a 2 consecutive RNA/VM call. if she doesn't respond for some reason after a 2nd call. keep it moving.

just treat her like a friend.

4/22/2008 1:04:01 PM

Quote :

"sometimes i'll wait a few days and call and be like "yeah i wanted to call you the next day but i didnt know what kind of dumbass games you like to play so i waited a few days""

now that's a good plan...

she'll be offended and flattered at the same time...

you, sir, are a master

[Edited on April 22, 2008 at 1:04 PM. Reason : sadf]

4/22/2008 1:04:12 PM

Quote :

"are you serious...that really concerned you? all girls want to think you like them enough to call them as soon as you get home.... that being said....you're shooting yourself in the foot if you do"

It didn't concern me...I wasn't trying to date her anyways.

But I was spot on with my analysis. Because after we had about five or six drinks, we went back to her place. She asked me about my past relationships and I told her I had just broken up with a serious girlfriend about a week ago. She freaked out, told me that she really liked me and didn't want to be a rebound.

I calmed her down and we still hooked up. But when I first noticed how she reacted after I didn't call her in less than 3 days, I assumed that she was clingy or that she got attached too quickly.


Honestly...two days is a good rule. Girls can say whatever they want...but if they get a call within two days, then they are generally happy.

4/22/2008 1:12:38 PM

people still using swingers for dating rules?

that movie's 12 years old

4/22/2008 1:14:17 PM

oh, I wouldn't know. I don't call girls....they call me


there's no reason for you to sweat over shit like this. That doesn't have to be your job. Girls just want you to believe that's the case.
If your game is tight enough, they will call you

4/22/2008 1:14:22 PM

Quote :

"but then again...i'm told repeatedly by dudes that i don't know what i'm talking about when it comes to women... you know...since i have no experience in that area and all"

^hell...it doesn't even have to be all that good

[Edited on April 22, 2008 at 1:15 PM. Reason : asdf]

4/22/2008 1:14:32 PM

facebook messages have worked well for me ... if you barely know her and want a date.


didnt fuck her on the first date, but the 2nd was good.

4/22/2008 1:17:41 PM