then met up with them like 7 yrs later and found out they've changed almost exactly how you have?

7/2/2008 11:18:19 PM

i have not

7/2/2008 11:18:40 PM

vague as fuck

I understand the general gist of what you're saying but you have be a bit more specefic

7/2/2008 11:19:06 PM

yea...changed exactly how you have???

you mean their life is now similar to yours?

or they've changed. just as you have changed also?

7/2/2008 11:19:56 PM

Dude this friend tonight was like creepy.. we used to both rock out to punk in hs and now we're both into metal/hardcore (thats the easiest comparison but philosophy have changed similarly)


i mean like everything from messed up parents , screwed up relationships, taste in food/beer etc.

[Edited on July 2, 2008 at 11:21 PM. Reason : .]

7/2/2008 11:20:22 PM

Oh I see now

My answer is no

7/2/2008 11:21:21 PM

So, you're saying you're creepy?




[Edited on July 2, 2008 at 11:22 PM. Reason : ]

7/2/2008 11:21:52 PM

no, no i haven't

7/2/2008 11:22:40 PM

nope - i've done that kind of but they changed very differently

7/2/2008 11:22:49 PM

I'm probably too young for this to have happened yet.

7/2/2008 11:23:24 PM

same...most people i've drifted from i have not come back across yet. but i'll keep my fingers crossed i guess.

7/2/2008 11:25:45 PM

I'm 23 so 7 years is probably too long from my POV

But I've come across people recently that I haven't seen since HS, so about 5 years or so

They've changed, but not like me



[Edited on July 2, 2008 at 11:27 PM. Reason : x]

7/2/2008 11:27:09 PM

sounds like sumfoo1 is about to get bicurious

7/2/2008 11:32:10 PM

well they were a highschool friend and we bumped into each other @ a pizza place 2 days ago and grabbed dinner tonight and yeah it was weird... like sentence finishing weird

7/2/2008 11:33:33 PM

fate

7/2/2008 11:34:33 PM

weird

7/2/2008 11:34:43 PM

I haven't really had any friends that I've drifted from that I've come back into contact with, unfortunately.

They're all off doing their own things now.

In fact, I'm down to a very low number of friends in this area now that just about all of them have graduated.

I used to have a lot of really bad friends that weren't really good people, though, so I'm not sure I'd want to run into a lot of them. People that left me severely depressed for unfortunately long periods of time and that interfered in my personal life in a way that mandated their distance from me. Shitty people with shitty parents, that sort of shtick.

[Edited on July 2, 2008 at 11:38 PM. Reason : Clarifying, I'm an outlier.]

7/2/2008 11:36:55 PM

make your next date a spaghetti place

maybe you guys can get one super long strand of pasta and do that thing where you both eat it from opposite sides until your lips meet

then let fate take its course

7/2/2008 11:38:06 PM

Quote :

"philosophy have changed"

7/2/2008 11:38:08 PM

Quote :

"sounds like sumfoo1 is about to get bicurious"

no one said it was a dude but gg

7/3/2008 9:50:29 AM

it was pretty evident

7/3/2008 9:51:37 AM

sentence finishing weird?

7/3/2008 9:52:05 AM

Quote :

"sounds like sumfoo1 is about to get bicurious"

Yea I laffed

7/3/2008 9:52:21 AM

is this like saying now they are either working/trying to find work and have stopped getting fucked up all the time? and actually pay at least a little attention to worldly events?

in other words, they've grown up too?

7/3/2008 9:52:55 AM

You know like.. knows the end of your thought before you finish saying it...
Her name is Meagan she's got a dude and i'm not looking for a girl so i just left gender out... it was just weird.

7/3/2008 9:54:10 AM

uh oh!
She has a boyfriend but went to dinner with you last night? And completed your sentences?
LOVE <l

!

7/3/2008 9:56:20 AM

I once had an invisible friend that I hadn't seen for like 20 years! I saw him the other day and he's married to the Invisible Women from Fantastic 4, has 2 kids, lives in LA and he even showed me some pics of him and Invisible Women in Madrid..He now works as an engineer on Womder Womens Invisible Plane...He's def changed from the mud-pie slinging, hide-and-seeking guy he was when I was little....man where did the time go

7/3/2008 9:57:10 AM

I've had friends I've drifted from and when I meet up with them again I realize they haven't changed at all but I have meaning we will probably suck at being friends again

Or I run into friend who have changed in a different way from me but we can still get along great

7/3/2008 9:58:01 AM

i am not a girl stealer and i'm not kissing a girl for another 2 months...

7/3/2008 9:58:59 AM

So you could say that you seperated and cam eback together?

7/3/2008 11:07:43 AM

slackerb!

Quote :

"Dude this friend tonight was like creepy.. we used to both rock out to punk in hs and now we're both into metal/hardcore"

if i hadn't known you for ~15 years I would make the

so you guys both listened to the same terrible music and now you both listen to the same really terrible music??"

joke

[Edited on July 3, 2008 at 11:13 AM. Reason : add]

7/3/2008 11:09:56 AM

omg!! nooo waaaayy!!!

7/3/2008 11:10:20 AM

I've never had a sex change whilst a friend simultaneously had a sex change. Nope.

7/3/2008 11:10:34 AM

Quote :

"we used to both rock out to punk in hs and now we're both into metal/hardcore"

well, the punk scene has been dead for a decade, so this isnt really surprising.

7/3/2008 11:16:32 AM

Nahh... i still love punk just too expensive to travel & see anygood bands... they don't come here...
cept flogging molly & dropkick murpheys

7/3/2008 12:56:56 PM

aww, some fool found his soul mate

7/3/2008 2:28:54 PM