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Amsterdam718
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okay. she improperly represented herself. she mentioned she had 2 college degrees, etc. I took it to mean she's probably educated and the type of person I'd rent a room too. She's a white girl from Massachutes. I figured since we're both from the Northeast it'd be okay.


few weeks ago she uses my computer. i check the history and its like Miami-Dade Correctional. she was checking this site like once every day. so I mention it while I see her at the computer "Hey you seem stressed lately, what's going on ?"

she tells me the guy that used to visit her got arrested for ARMED ROBBERY and he has no bond, etc.


I'm worried. it seems like she dates rough characters ... she pays rent on time and there's never been any issues, but I'm uncertain about socializing with ppl that seem to only bwn felons.

don't get me wrong . . . i'm not being judgemental, but this isn't how I move. anyways, considering telling her I'm considering moving and ending our lease agreement.

7/11/2008 12:58:06 PM

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learn to spell and we'll come back to help you.

7/11/2008 12:58:43 PM

GKMatt
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stop letting that hoe use your computer and mind your own business?

7/11/2008 1:02:09 PM

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sketch

kick her to the curb, G...way too dangerous to keep around

7/11/2008 1:04:16 PM

XSMP
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kill yourself, it's your only hope.

7/11/2008 1:05:08 PM

Amsterdam718
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i was thinking about just talking to her. last night she had company again . . . and I noticed her days off have changed.

i sort of feel a need to mention it . . . . but to be like whats up with this. or should I just kick her out and not ask any questions. i'm not going to just kick her out, but just say I'm considering moving or leasing the entire space out.

7/11/2008 1:05:47 PM

XSMP
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why must you stab every roommate and relationship you have in the back by consorting with tww for answers?

7/11/2008 1:08:11 PM

ThePeter
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what happened to the fatty roommate?

7/11/2008 1:09:35 PM

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jesus christ, we all know the only thing that matters is....

is she hot?

7/11/2008 1:10:05 PM

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PIITB

7/11/2008 1:11:08 PM

NC86
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bang it, trash it, forget it




know what im saying, G?

7/11/2008 1:13:39 PM

Amsterdam718
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"why must you stab every roommate and relationship you have in the back by consorting with tww for answers?

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its the same roommate. the fatty. the fatty is the roommate. she bangs felons apparently.

7/11/2008 2:00:08 PM

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he's coming to getcha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

7/11/2008 2:45:44 PM

Amsterdam718
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seriously, bro. ^ and aren't you a cop ? my safety could be at stake. i mean she pays me on time and there's not alot of noise . . . but she dates felons. WHAT DO I DO ?

7/11/2008 2:47:59 PM

Republican18
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my bad, i was just trying to be funny

7/11/2008 2:48:51 PM

GraniteBalls
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buy a gun


chicks love guns.

7/11/2008 2:49:47 PM

Amsterdam718
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its almost like she shouldn't be living in this area. here are mostly ppl with no felonies and ppl that don't associate with ppl who break crimes. that's the type of community i live in.

7/11/2008 2:52:24 PM

LaserSoup
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2 college degrees != educated

the degrees and whe college are key details you should have looked into.

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"I'm considering moving and ending our lease agreement."


Don't just consider it, do it.

7/11/2008 2:52:33 PM

drunktyper
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i don't think there is anything you can do. she hasn't broken any rules, she pays on time....what else do you fucking want? are you shallow enough to kick out a room mate because you don't like their friends? get a life and quit bitching.

7/11/2008 2:53:00 PM

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"okay. she improperly represented herself. "


Karma's a bitch, huh?

7/11/2008 2:54:00 PM

Amsterdam718
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PERFECT. and you ^ and lasersoup ^^ are my 2 takes on it. I'M FUCKING CONFLICTED, B.

[Edited on July 11, 2008 at 2:54 PM. Reason : re: DRUNKTYPER]

7/11/2008 2:54:25 PM

TroleTacks
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It seems like you're the problem here. You can't get along with anyone because you're a bitch. You're a mamas boy aren't you?

7/11/2008 3:01:10 PM

Amsterdam718
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its not that i can't get along with her. there's nothing to get along with. she works overnights and she's in her room and apparently occassionally she's been brining criminals over.

on one hand its not so bad / but i feel like asking her about these guys she dates. it really bothers me. why can't she just be a regular person ???

7/11/2008 3:03:08 PM

kyjelly
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i'm educated and i've bwned felons

7/11/2008 3:04:52 PM

XSMP
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hahahahaha i agree with troletacks - welcome back

7/11/2008 3:05:52 PM

Amsterdam718
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fuck that. I am definitely not the problem. the shits abnormal.

7/11/2008 3:10:02 PM

jackleg
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hahah this guy is just totally above even acknowledging chance and his troll shit.

i guarantee you that A718 has represented himself more correctly than you have, chance.


and as for this chick, you need to get the strangers out of your house. last person i did a favor for threatened to kill me and cut my tires and shit when i kicked him out for nonpayment. i would have let him stay free for a while if he was trying, but he just sat around all day in my house with his dog and it pissed me off.

so i told him he had 3 weeks (how nice was i, he was already 5 weeks behind)

he used the whole time, got 2 free months, and the tires on my new car started ending up cut

then the fuckhead had the nerve to threaten my life over the phone knowing damn well i was on probation and couldnt even stick up for myself. so i had to go to the magistrate and file a report and get him arrested and on probation. he took it to trial and tried to bring my ex drug problem into it. he lost the case and was ordered to leave me alone for duration of probation.

he actually appealed and theres a date in superior court now. and if i have to be plaintiff in a jury trial, i'm gonna have to hire myself a lawyer for outside of the courtroom to make sure nothing damaging about my past or criminal record (totally irrelevant, all of it) comes out or ends up getting to my employer.

point is, i can take off for court, but i'll have to pay a retainer (and more if he becomes necessary), plus all the bullshit.

i lost nothing real on the "rent" he owed, so that doesnt count really. but i did lose about 4 brand new tires. and lawyer money

so now i would never take a roomate, unless i had an old old friend who was in a jam. and i'd not be charging a homeless friend rent, i'd want them to have their money to get a place.

SO YEAH ROOMATES SUCK, BEING NICE SUCKS. just toss the bitch if she makes you feel uncomfortable in YOUR home

7/11/2008 3:14:13 PM

Donogh5
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living with strangers ftl

7/11/2008 3:17:23 PM

ThePeter
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^^ahh, so that's what happened with your tires.

7/11/2008 3:19:39 PM

GraniteBalls
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you should totally be giving this girl the rod.



are you in dem guts?




I always thought A718 was the pimp of pimps. lay this hoe down and show her the business.

7/11/2008 3:24:59 PM

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"^^ahh, so that's what happened with your tires."


yeah. plus i bailed the shithead out of jail for assault and affray right before all this started ( i didnt lose that though cause i didnt use a bondsman, his bond wasnt like one of my bonds it was REASONABLE, constitutional, etc). i ended up getting that back in the mail one day after all the drama, i guess after he went to court for it. even after everything, i wasn't evil enough to go see about getting it revoked (i mean only reason i called the cops to begin with was cause i didnt want to end up in trouble for snapping and fighting or anything, so i was trying to be teh bigger man).

just trying to be nice, turning over a new leaf etc. help a guy in need, i know what its like to be stuck in jail, and what its like to not have anywhere to stay... guy wasnt a best friend, but i knew him well/long enough to care about him being either homeless or stuck in jail, and was stupid enough to trust that he would respect my shit.

so yeah unless you absolutely need that money, ditch the roomate, unless they are a BFF. even if you do need the money, just make room in the budget somehow. don't take people in...

7/11/2008 3:33:04 PM

GGMon
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I like his DLN character better. Sad, as he really is running out of ideas.

7/11/2008 3:36:42 PM

Amsterdam718
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we just started discussing it now . . . i just asked how her boyfriend was doing. the guy that got locked up. she says he's getting out next week. and that's when I sort of just blew up.

I THINK I MAY HAVE MADE A HUGE MISTAKE. i told her i'm not a judge of character, but i found it odd that she brings about that type of energy. .... TO BE CONTINUED.

7/11/2008 5:11:04 PM

Amsterdam718
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conversation got interupted by a phone call. but basically she was nice and said she runs into the wrong guys and she downplayed the relationship. i mentioned how it looks and how it feels from my perspective. she said, she'd be wondering what type of person she was to hang around these ppl, etc. so she knows the sh!t is sketchy.


SHOULD I KICK HER OUT WHEN WE FINISH THE CONVO or SHOULD I JUST SAY BE MORE CAREFUL ABOUT IT OR SOMETHING ?????????

7/11/2008 5:29:52 PM

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"Massachutes"

7/11/2008 5:32:01 PM

pttyndal
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meh...try to get a blow job out of it. maybe she's good at something.

7/11/2008 5:39:41 PM

Amsterdam718
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tttb. i'm going through a crisis here.

7/11/2008 6:39:03 PM

slaptit
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^^^ DAMN YOU i was gonna do that

7/11/2008 6:49:01 PM

Amsterdam718
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i'm wondering how awkward things will be since this conversation. i'm now considering just kicking her out and being done with it.

who dates FELONS ? twice. and doesn't think that's an issue . . . WTF ?

7/11/2008 10:21:45 PM

raiden
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end the situation. whether its her leavin or you leavin.

7/11/2008 10:22:17 PM

Amsterdam718
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^ you're right. i'm going to lease my place out and leave.

she'll get the hint when ppl are coming to check it out . . .

7/11/2008 10:23:20 PM

raiden
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right on.

7/11/2008 10:23:41 PM

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"Massachutes"

7/11/2008 10:28:31 PM

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7/12/2008 1:42:34 AM

mawle427
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YOU ARE A FELON. YOU HAVE COMMITTED FELONIES BASED ON YOUR ADMISSIONS ON TWW. BEING CAUGHT IS NO WORSE THAN COMMITTING THE CRIME.

7/12/2008 5:43:55 AM

Amsterdam718
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but its different. the guy committed ARMED ROBBERY . . . how he managed to get out next week is beyond me. and I'm stuck with WTF ! do I do . . .

7/12/2008 4:15:41 PM

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it's not hard to get out if he doesn't have a previous record/has family in the area, etc

7/12/2008 4:16:20 PM

roddy
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you should invite evan down and all yall can do a threesome....

7/12/2008 4:19:00 PM

Amsterdam718
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^^ to me the fact that from conversation she's mentioned she had a boyfriend that did time before and i figured okay sh!t happens, but this is the second guy i've heard about and he's actually been overnight a few times.

and not to mention like 3-5 other guys since she moved in. i don't know of their records, but who wants to wonder about that sh!t.

someone's criminality and your roommate should never come up in conversation. the thing that really bugged me out was when i checked my mail and had a letter to her from the correctional facilty from the guy.

it just screams TRASHY to me. and i've come to identify her as such. which sucks, because she's really a nice person and all, but who allows themselves to be in situations like that. its just not a good look.

7/12/2008 4:53:57 PM

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set em up

7/13/2008 2:50:06 PM

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