just found out that when we were broken up I messed around with her best friend. Now she claims this makes me an asshole but if we were broken up WTF does it matter. I mean I'm not the one that went after her friend she came to my crib wanting to beat...and well since she wanted to beat I decided I would beat.

Does she have a right to be pissed? Past experiences?

8/22/2008 1:14:17 PM

tww is not a blog.

8/22/2008 1:15:20 PM

no fucking shit

8/22/2008 1:15:44 PM

You're a skeez, dude.

8/22/2008 1:16:52 PM

it probably does make you an asshole

but i would have done the same thing

8/22/2008 1:16:53 PM

stay broken up next time

8/22/2008 1:16:58 PM

it might make you an asshole

but it doesn't make tww a blog

8/22/2008 1:17:30 PM

^^^lol i bet you would

[Edited on August 22, 2008 at 1:17 PM. Reason : .]

8/22/2008 1:17:31 PM

the ex's friends are always off limits, you should know this dude

8/22/2008 1:18:54 PM

so what about when you're dating them? are best friends still off limits?

bc those are the most exciting hookups!

8/22/2008 1:20:44 PM

You're the reason those chick magazines exist.

8/22/2008 1:20:47 PM

tell her if she does not shut the fuck up you are gonna go back for round two with her friend.

8/22/2008 1:21:18 PM

^win

8/22/2008 1:21:30 PM

HAHA I like that

8/22/2008 1:21:57 PM

You do realize that once things are this screwed up the farthest things are ever going to get are for you to end up divorced from her right? If you don't expect the relationship to ever be good again and just want sex in the meantime though, carry on.

8/22/2008 1:23:55 PM

Shit I aint trying to marry her...but the sex is pretty good

8/22/2008 1:25:28 PM

it is going to be miserable for you anytime her friend is around, just fyi.

8/22/2008 1:25:52 PM

Whos hotter?

8/22/2008 1:30:37 PM

Well I would say the girlfriend but her friend isn't very far behind I will search the comp for pics.

8/22/2008 1:32:17 PM

2 girls + Zima =

8/22/2008 1:33:16 PM

What does beat mean in this context? I guess I am getting old but when you beat you do it alone.

8/22/2008 1:33:50 PM

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"I will search the comp for pics."

Now HERE is a quality TWWer. take notes people.

8/22/2008 1:34:51 PM

beat=fuck

[Edited on August 22, 2008 at 1:35 PM. Reason : .]

8/22/2008 1:35:02 PM

yes that makes you an ass. sorry

unless you didnt know it was her best friend and her best friend didnt know you dated her.
then its an accident.

and if her friend knew, that is messed up. and she better be pissed at the friend too and not just you

8/22/2008 1:36:15 PM

all I know is, if my best friend slept with ANY of my exes I would beat the shit out of him. and vice-versa. It's just disrespectful.

8/22/2008 1:37:07 PM

screw that. friends are fair game if you're not together.

I mean at least you know where they been. hmm...might not be such a good thing though.

[Edited on August 22, 2008 at 1:38 PM. Reason : ]

8/22/2008 1:37:17 PM

this sounds like that whole ross and rachael thing on friends where ross hooked up with some other girl while they were on a break and he kept yelling "WE WERE ON A BREAK!!" for like 2 years.

8/22/2008 1:38:04 PM

As long as you weren't cheating on her with her best friend, what can she expect while you are not together? You just gonna save your penis for her until she decides to come back?!

8/22/2008 1:41:08 PM

i agree with this thinking

8/22/2008 1:42:37 PM

i don't think the issue is that he messed around with another girl but instead the fact that it was her best friend

there are a lot of other girls he could have chosen to be with outside of his ex's friend circle

8/22/2008 1:42:45 PM

^ zactly

8/22/2008 1:44:53 PM

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"i don't think the issue is that he messed around with another girl but instead the fact that it was her best friend there are a lot of other girls he could have chosen to be with outside of his ex's friend circle "

you took the words right out of my mouth

its like in unwritten rule, esp if its and ex, your not going to get back with. your friends should not want and know that your ex is a waste of time,

i mean i guess sex is sex, and if thats all you want its not as bad but still wrong, i suppose its more fucked up if you date your ex's friends

8/22/2008 1:45:17 PM

more of the best friends fault than your own....

8/22/2008 1:45:31 PM

^^^ i bet your the only guy who would agree. haha most guys are assholes and would say who the fuck cares

^ not if she didnt know it was her best friends ex. but what was the likely hood of that

8/22/2008 1:47:09 PM

Well its not like i broke up with her for her friend...she broke up with me cause she became interested in someone else. I mean ultimately we ended up back together but the way I see it is her friend was fair game.

8/22/2008 1:47:28 PM

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"i don't think the issue is that he messed around with another girl but instead the fact that it was her best friend there are a lot of other girls he could have chosen to be with outside of his ex's friend circle"

8/22/2008 1:49:33 PM

If it just didn't work out and did not involve a break up due to cheating or someone giving someone else a STD I see no reason why the friends should be off limits. I mean, my friends are different than me so what does not work for me might work for them and vice versa.

8/22/2008 1:50:03 PM

The girlfriend's correct response in this situation is to dump your ass and kick the shit out of her friend.



[Edited on August 22, 2008 at 1:51 PM. Reason : a]

8/22/2008 1:50:37 PM

so you knew it was her friend and her friend knew you were her best friends ex. thats fucked up.

i really hope shes not friends with the girl anymore

i bet you came to tdub cause you thought everyone would tell you it was ok... cause most of the single guys on here are going to say that lol which is half or more than half of the site

8/22/2008 1:51:39 PM

^^ win!

fuck double post sorry, thought someone else was inbetween

[Edited on August 22, 2008 at 1:53 PM. Reason : i am an idiot]

8/22/2008 1:52:28 PM

no, he came to TWW because he thinks we care about how much pussy he is getting

8/22/2008 1:52:39 PM

Quote :

"Well its not like i broke up with her for her friend...she broke up with me cause she became interested in someone else. I mean ultimately we ended up back together but the way I see it is her friend was fair game."

If she ended it then you should be 100% in the clear to hit the friends. It'd be different if you broke it off and she was still not over you, but if she left you for another guy I say the friend might be less of a bitch and an upgrade, hopefully with a few of the same good qualities.

8/22/2008 1:52:39 PM

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"there are a lot of other girls he could have chosen to be with outside of his ex's friend circle"

whatever that's bullshit

I mean he could have wasted days maybe weeks finding some new tail and going through the whole process that gets him in their pants

or he could have sex with this girl he already knew that already wanted to fuck him

whatever happened to taking the path of least resistance?

8/22/2008 1:54:10 PM

Quote :

"Well its not like i broke up with her for her friend...she broke up with me cause she became interested in someone else. I mean ultimately we ended up back together but the way I see it is her friend was fair game"

this statement changes things slightly. if she broke up with you for someone else then you have every right to fuck whoever you want. so i guess, TECHNICALLY, it's ok what you did. I just still can't understand why you would want the drama of choosing one of her friends. there are plenty of other chicks to hook up that have nothing to do with her. UNLESS, in my opinion, you hooked up with her friend because you were uspset that she dumped you for another guy and wanted to make her jealous.

8/22/2008 1:54:44 PM

it was in part to make her jealous and in part to make her realize she wasn't the only fish in the sea.

8/22/2008 1:56:30 PM

Quote :

"Quote : "Well its not like i broke up with her for her friend...she broke up with me cause she became interested in someone else. I mean ultimately we ended up back together but the way I see it is her friend was fair game" this statement changes things slightly. if she broke up with you for someone else then you have every right to fuck whoever you want. so i guess, TECHNICALLY, it's ok what you did. I just still can't understand why you would want the drama of choosing one of her friends. there are plenty of other chicks to hook up that have nothing to do with her. UNLESS, in my opinion, you hooked up with her friend because you were uspset that she dumped you for another guy and wanted to make her jealous. "

psh it doesnt change it, just shows why he probably chose her best friend, now if the other guy was one of his friends then yea it would be ok

8/22/2008 1:57:16 PM

Quote :

"it was in part to make her jealous and in part to make her realize she wasn't the only fish in the sea."

so the truth comes out. you knew the best way to make her jealous was to fuck her friend. see, you gotta tell the whole story from the beginning.

8/22/2008 1:58:05 PM

he wasn't a friend so to say but we knew one another through friends and had fished together a few times nothing major

8/22/2008 1:58:18 PM

i don't know the entire situation with you two but if she made you 2nd choice before, what makes you think she won't again?

8/22/2008 1:58:25 PM

yeah, why did you get back together with someone that broke up with you for another guy?

8/22/2008 1:59:18 PM