Not sure why, but she's been quiet and "off" all week and giving me the vibe.

Nothing otherwise would indicate that she is unhappy, but for some reason I just feel it coming.

Anyone wanna bet on the odds?

2/20/2009 10:47:55 AM

No, because it's 190% gonna happen

2/20/2009 10:48:23 AM

My bf does that to me all the time, sometimes he just likes to be left alone. I freak out all week and then see him IRL and he's fine.

2/20/2009 10:48:30 AM

well hand over them digits

I'm Big Business and i approved this message.

2/20/2009 10:48:57 AM

were you a slacker boyfriend?

2/20/2009 10:49:52 AM

SOMETIMES WE JUST WANT ALONE TIME

2/20/2009 10:50:29 AM

break up with her first and turn the tables on her


then go out and have the time of your life tonight

she will be wanting you once she thinks you don't want her

bang out skanks this weekend and have some guy time that your friends are prolly missing, and get back with the gf on monday


=profit

[Edited on February 20, 2009 at 10:51 AM. Reason : :-)]

2/20/2009 10:50:35 AM

Plus she might be busy as shit.

2/20/2009 10:50:58 AM

She's cheating on you. Dump her. lol

2/20/2009 10:51:42 AM

^^Probably.

I mean there's been no fights, etc. prior to this week. She's been happy.

I'm not usually a dramatic person, but for some reason my gut tells me to get ready for it.

[Edited on February 20, 2009 at 10:52 AM. Reason : ]

2/20/2009 10:52:38 AM

dump her first so you have the upper hand.

2/20/2009 10:52:40 AM

yeah definitely dump her first.

I'm Big Business and i approved this message.

2/20/2009 10:54:04 AM

Well, you obviously don't care.

Since you're making threads about it, and 'preparing' for it, instead of talking to her, judging by your posts.

In which case, she's right to break up with you, if she does.

2/20/2009 10:54:41 AM

yeah same thing happened to me. She said she wasn't happy anymore and just wanted to be single for a while.


"a while" meant like 3 weeks before she started banging some other dude, which i'm pretty sure was why she dumped me.


fuckin bitch

2/20/2009 10:55:46 AM

maybe you're horrible in bed and she's tired or having to give herself "the vibe"

2/20/2009 10:55:50 AM

just keep it jungle, b

2/20/2009 10:55:55 AM

Definitely get all clingy as shit right now. Call her all the time and beg her to hang out more.

There is no way that could possibly backfire.

2/20/2009 10:57:24 AM

^^^^I care, but I have to wait until tonight to talk to her face to face about it....we haven't hung out in a few days. I care, I'm just playing coy.

^^^Bed isn't the issue. That's the one part I'm sure she's satisfied in.

[Edited on February 20, 2009 at 10:58 AM. Reason : ]

2/20/2009 10:58:38 AM

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"yeah same thing happened to me. She said she wasn't happy anymore and just wanted to be single for a while. "a while" meant like 3 weeks before she started banging some other dude, which i'm pretty sure was why she dumped me. "

2/20/2009 10:58:53 AM

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"I'm just playing coy."

:carlface:

2/20/2009 10:59:41 AM

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"'preparing' for it, instead of talking to her"

Winner

2/20/2009 11:00:20 AM

Just ask her what's up.

Why is this so fucking hard?

2/20/2009 11:01:22 AM

Nah he's doing the right thing.

If a girl starts to drift, the worst thing to do is try to reel them in and hang on tighter. It only drives them away. By pretending he doesn't give 2 shits, he might be making his girl reconsider. Stupid, but true.

2/20/2009 11:01:45 AM

The only way to soften the impending doom is to pre-emptively strike. Even if she was just busy and didn't want to break up at all, you will have the support of the American people.

2/20/2009 11:01:52 AM

2/20/2009 11:02:03 AM

You two will be divroced the first time around. I'm sure of it.

2/20/2009 11:02:35 AM

Pre-emptive strike is bullshit anyways....that's like a fucking phyrric victory. You still lose.

And anyways, as I've said, I dunno if it's gonna happen. Shit's been going well overall. I'm not gonna pre-emptive a perfectly good relationship.

2/20/2009 11:08:28 AM

There's only one thing to do in this situation. You know she'll want one last hard fuck. It's breakup sex, always happens. So... Midway through, stick it in her ass. Then dirty sanchez that bitch.

Bust a nut on her face and then say "We're done", get your shit and walk out the door.

2/20/2009 11:08:43 AM

I change my mind. I don't agree with Ambrisia anymore. I agree with deltabeta.

2/20/2009 11:09:42 AM

Best thread title ever

I read it like the girl in office space saying "uh oh, sounds like somebody's got a case of the mondays"

2/20/2009 11:16:26 AM

Maybe she has that SADS and doesn't feel like she can talk to you about it.

Winter sucks ><

2/20/2009 11:18:49 AM

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"Nah he's doing the right thing. If a girl starts to drift, the worst thing to do is try to reel them in and hang on tighter. It only drives them away. By pretending he doesn't give 2 shits, he might be making his girl reconsider. Stupid, but true."

That only works in certain situations.

Like when the girl says she needs space....give her as much space as she needs. She's expecting you to beg and grovel. She'll be worried and think you've moved on completely if you ignore her. There are other similar situations where this works.

But in a situation like this...you gotta find out what's going on. It could be something really simple that could be fixed easily. I've been having an interesting relationship like this recently, and all it takes is a 5-minute "talk"...and things are back to normal.

2/20/2009 11:26:26 AM

Quote :

"DUMP HER FIRST"

2/20/2009 11:33:12 AM

yeah

dump her first dude

that'll show her!

2/20/2009 11:34:32 AM

Yeah, just dump her and not have another gf for a year or two haha. You know you are paranoid about being alone.

2/20/2009 11:35:25 AM

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"But in a situation like this...you gotta find out what's going on. It could be something really simple that could be fixed easily."

exactly...for some of you, i'm not surprised the only response you can think of is to dirty sanchez or dump her first...but for adults, it's usually a good idea to talk and THEN make a decision

shit happens, people get frustrated and distant, and it might have nothing to do with their relationship...if he gives a rat's ass (which he may not), he'd talk to her

2/20/2009 11:36:09 AM

My plan is sure to work.

2/20/2009 11:39:10 AM

MY plan is sure to work.

2/20/2009 11:39:48 AM

We're gonna talk tonight when we hang out.

2/20/2009 11:43:14 AM

my PENIS is sure to work

i hope

2/20/2009 11:43:47 AM

Don't call her until like midnight and then call her to tell her you're blitzed with your friends. That'll make her think twice about giving you the cold shoulder.

2/20/2009 11:45:35 AM

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"I care, I'm just playing coy"

No need to be coy, Roy, just get yourself free

2/20/2009 11:56:59 AM

Stand outside her house with a revolver. When she goes to take out the trash, yell "GARBAGE DAY!!!" then shoot her. Stand around looking at your gun and laughing for a few seconds before you leave.

2/20/2009 2:21:29 PM

no point in trying to do anything differently now

if she does, just say OK and walk away.

2/20/2009 2:24:23 PM

she's either pregnant or gonna break up with you. take the initiative and do it first.

2/20/2009 2:30:33 PM

^^Best advice so far....nothing to do but wait and see if my fears are unfounded and she was just really stressed/busy or if i'm right and dumped.

2/20/2009 2:43:39 PM

2/20/2009 2:49:28 PM

Not best advice so far.

Just casually ask her if anything is wrong or if she's doing okay. If she says everything is alright in an honest way...THEN you let it go and whatever happens happens.

But you have to at least ask.

2/20/2009 2:52:24 PM

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"if she does, just say OK and walk away. "

exactly, if you really want her to second guess herself, act as non-chalantly about it as you can and don't give an inch. I did this and the girl called me a day later crying and pissed off and yelling at me because I wasen't upset about breaking up... granted we didn't get back together, but after that little outburst that was ok with me.

2/20/2009 2:58:00 PM

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"Not sure why, but she's been quiet and "off" all week and giving me the vibe."

i haven't noticed her acting weird at all......

2/20/2009 3:01:34 PM